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My husband is getting fat
My husband is getting fat. He used to be slim and in shape, and now, he looks like a butterball. When we were dating, he was 170 pounds. He stepped on the scale the other day and he has gained 50 pounds!
The problem is I feel guilty watching him fatten up and liking it. I feed him well, he likes to snack and his fat belly and mushy chest are a turn on for me. I prefer it much more than the flat stomach he had years ago. He has a slight double chin now that I also think is **.
I hope he still gains in the coming years. I had to buy him size 40 pants (used to be a size 32), and I was so happy to watch him try them on. He complained about the new size, so I walked over to him, patted his bulging tummy, grabbed his love handles and told him how attractive he is to me. It’s not a lie, though, because I really do enjoy his new size and I love his fat belly!
Hopefully he gains another 50 pounds! I wouldn’t mind a chubby hubby! What’s better than eating what you want and getting your wife excited to be with you in the bedroom?
That’s impressive! That’s 20 pounds a year. He will be soon 280. Do you worry about that? Have you gained any
I do worry about his back hurting because of how big his belly is getting. And I don’t really want his moobs to get bigger. He’s going to need a sports bra if they do. I’ve probably gained about 20 pounds since we’ve been together.
Yea, my hubby is the same. He has now developed a bad back due to his belly weight and as he is in his late thirties has struggled to lose any weight. He also has sizeable moobs which would be hard to lose. How old is your hubby?
Almost 40.
Love the comment about the sports bra lol
Getting a good solid bed for back support with maybe a layer of memory foam to ease the joints is good. Maybe turmeric supplements for joints too. A lot of people have this attitude that they're going to lose the weight any minute, so they don't need to bother accommodating it. Or worse, they subconsciously want to punish themselves. They have to realize than in your 30's and 40's, the fat is VERY likely there to stay. They might drop 20 lbs to post a few pics online, but it will soon pile back. If you've got an inner foodie, like many of us, and love a good cook, your belly is probably just warming up.
Instead, treat the fat right. Get the right chairs and beds. Take turmeric or pomegranate or whatever helps you feel right. Get clothes you can feel confident in. There are creams if stretchmarks or folds are bothering you.
Don't skip the family photos. Be proud. Better to be fat and happy today, than to needlessly put joy on hold.