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My husband is getting fat
My husband is getting fat. He used to be slim and in shape, and now, he looks like a butterball. When we were dating, he was 170 pounds. He stepped on the scale the other day and he has gained 50 pounds!
The problem is I feel guilty watching him fatten up and liking it. I feed him well, he likes to snack and his fat belly and mushy chest are a turn on for me. I prefer it much more than the flat stomach he had years ago. He has a slight double chin now that I also think is **.
I hope he still gains in the coming years. I had to buy him size 40 pants (used to be a size 32), and I was so happy to watch him try them on. He complained about the new size, so I walked over to him, patted his bulging tummy, grabbed his love handles and told him how attractive he is to me. It’s not a lie, though, because I really do enjoy his new size and I love his fat belly!
Hopefully he gains another 50 pounds! I wouldn’t mind a chubby hubby! What’s better than eating what you want and getting your wife excited to be with you in the bedroom?
I’ve put nearly 30lbs on him since February. He’s stuck at home with me as well. All my rich sauces sticking to his tummy like glue. Never been to the gym in his life. Funny watching him the other day trying to do sit ups cause he knows he’s getting a good sized tummy on him lol.
Are you getting him fat on purpose?
Well I’m fat so I’m thinking why not make him fat. There has never been a better opportunity since we are stuck in the house all day. So I cook and bake all day as it’s my job and hobby. He just lays round the house and eats what I put in front of him. He’s wasting his time with those sit ups against his calorie intake.
I guess as long as you are upfront and honest with him that you’re purposely putting weight on him.
Yea. He will continue to gain all right . I am a Indian chef so I cook a lot of my main courses in ghee. He prefers my milder creamier dishes like korma and he adores my butter chicken. He loves all the naan breads too washed down with beer.
He'll get to enjoy all that yumminess a lot more once he quits fighting his body. Tell him to just eat the cake. His gut will figure out what body type he needs to be to enjoy it.
How’s he feel about his weight gain? How do you feel about it?
He hasn’t said much, but I think he is resigned to gaining weight living with me. I’m loving it!, as I’m a big woman at 290lbs. He’s currently just under 200lbs, his heaviest ever weight, but I’ve always been tempted to equal our weight. Off to a good start lol as he will soon be breaking the 200lb barrier.
Yeah some things get a little easier once you get him fat too. He'll be more understanding and patient. Your interests in everything from vacations to hobbies will probably become more similar. A relationship with a fat woman is awesome -- soft, comforting, indulging a little more without the pressure. He'll be able to enjoy all that a little more once you've helped break free from the rigid rules of what it otherwise takes to stay a skinny man