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My husband is getting fat
My husband is getting fat. He used to be slim and in shape, and now, he looks like a butterball. When we were dating, he was 170 pounds. He stepped on the scale the other day and he has gained 50 pounds!
The problem is I feel guilty watching him fatten up and liking it. I feed him well, he likes to snack and his fat belly and mushy chest are a turn on for me. I prefer it much more than the flat stomach he had years ago. He has a slight double chin now that I also think is **.
I hope he still gains in the coming years. I had to buy him size 40 pants (used to be a size 32), and I was so happy to watch him try them on. He complained about the new size, so I walked over to him, patted his bulging tummy, grabbed his love handles and told him how attractive he is to me. It’s not a lie, though, because I really do enjoy his new size and I love his fat belly!
Hopefully he gains another 50 pounds! I wouldn’t mind a chubby hubby! What’s better than eating what you want and getting your wife excited to be with you in the bedroom?
Your hubby is going to have to make a major lifestyle change even to stay at the same weight. As it is now, his rapid gains imply that he is consuming at least 1600 calories a day more than he's burning off. If he were to continue to gain at that rate, he will be over 300 pounds by fall and in a year, he will be over 400.
Only a change in diet can help get this under control. Even if he were to add vigorous exercise for an hour every day (1000 calories burned), your husband is consuming so many calories that he'd be over 300 in a year.
Maybe you can work out a meal plan and get your mom enlisted. More vegetables and lean protein most days can cut the calories down. She can still make dessert but only once a week.
Over 400lbs in a year’s time! Gosh. I don’t think he would be able to carry that kind of weight. His belly would be huge! He would struggle to walk. He would be dead beat all the time.
What will you do if your hubby gets to be as big as, or even bigger than your late father?
My father was 450lbs and hubby is currently 262lbs so there is a big difference at the moment. There is nothing I can do except to try and encourage him to cut down. Otherwise I will be the skinny wife with the big fat husband thanks to my mother over feeding him.
Those are two very fat men.
How have things gone? Is your hubby still gaining?