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My husband is getting fat
My husband is getting fat. He used to be slim and in shape, and now, he looks like a butterball. When we were dating, he was 170 pounds. He stepped on the scale the other day and he has gained 50 pounds!
The problem is I feel guilty watching him fatten up and liking it. I feed him well, he likes to snack and his fat belly and mushy chest are a turn on for me. I prefer it much more than the flat stomach he had years ago. He has a slight double chin now that I also think is **.
I hope he still gains in the coming years. I had to buy him size 40 pants (used to be a size 32), and I was so happy to watch him try them on. He complained about the new size, so I walked over to him, patted his bulging tummy, grabbed his love handles and told him how attractive he is to me. It’s not a lie, though, because I really do enjoy his new size and I love his fat belly!
Hopefully he gains another 50 pounds! I wouldn’t mind a chubby hubby! What’s better than eating what you want and getting your wife excited to be with you in the bedroom?
That’s the downfall of having a fat hubby, it all goes on his belly. Does that frustrate you? Especially during intimacy? I know I have had to be more creative in that department. Also he doesn’t have as much energy.
Men definitely gain weight mostly in their bellies (as opposed to women, we get it all over). I’m still attracted to him and his belly is not a problem for me from a physical attraction perspective, but it does change his personality a little. He’s more self-conscious, just in general. With intimacy, it’s just been different. I wouldn’t necessarily say it’s better or worse, just different. His belly is definitely more prominent in our intimate interactions, but we find ways. How has it been for you adjusting to it? How much weight has yours gained?
My husband is now 350lbs a gain of over 200lbs since we met 12 years ago. With regards to intimacy I am now taking the lead due to his lack of stamina and his belly size