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My husband is getting fat
My husband is getting fat. He used to be slim and in shape, and now, he looks like a butterball. When we were dating, he was 170 pounds. He stepped on the scale the other day and he has gained 50 pounds!
The problem is I feel guilty watching him fatten up and liking it. I feed him well, he likes to snack and his fat belly and mushy chest are a turn on for me. I prefer it much more than the flat stomach he had years ago. He has a slight double chin now that I also think is **.
I hope he still gains in the coming years. I had to buy him size 40 pants (used to be a size 32), and I was so happy to watch him try them on. He complained about the new size, so I walked over to him, patted his bulging tummy, grabbed his love handles and told him how attractive he is to me. It’s not a lie, though, because I really do enjoy his new size and I love his fat belly!
Hopefully he gains another 50 pounds! I wouldn’t mind a chubby hubby! What’s better than eating what you want and getting your wife excited to be with you in the bedroom?
When we met 5 years ago he was about 160lbs and when we married 2 years ago he was about 180lbs. He has gone up to 190lbs by the time I fell pregnant and now he weighs about 285 lbs. his belly is simply too big for his frame and his skinny legs struggle to carry it. He has shown no interest in losing any weight given the current situation. I will just have to adapt to it. I quite like a belly on a man but hubby’s is just too big and uncomfortable looking.
That’s a wide range of weights he has been since being with you. What would be your ideal weight for him? I like my husband in the 220-240 range, just a little fat but not huge.
He gained 20lbs when we were dating and another 10lbs after the wedding before I fell pregnant. The gain that he has struggled with is the 60lbs during my pregnancy with the added 30lbs during lockdown most of it landing on his belly. He might not agree, but I liked him at around 200lbs when he had a nice chubby belly, but I don’t think he will see that weight again.