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My husband is getting fat
My husband is getting fat. He used to be slim and in shape, and now, he looks like a butterball. When we were dating, he was 170 pounds. He stepped on the scale the other day and he has gained 50 pounds!
The problem is I feel guilty watching him fatten up and liking it. I feed him well, he likes to snack and his fat belly and mushy chest are a turn on for me. I prefer it much more than the flat stomach he had years ago. He has a slight double chin now that I also think is **.
I hope he still gains in the coming years. I had to buy him size 40 pants (used to be a size 32), and I was so happy to watch him try them on. He complained about the new size, so I walked over to him, patted his bulging tummy, grabbed his love handles and told him how attractive he is to me. It’s not a lie, though, because I really do enjoy his new size and I love his fat belly!
Hopefully he gains another 50 pounds! I wouldn’t mind a chubby hubby! What’s better than eating what you want and getting your wife excited to be with you in the bedroom?
My understanding is that the excess skin can be surgically removed, but I don’t know a ton about it. I would prefer a big tummy over excess skin, though.
I don’t think hubby would be prepared to go through the surgery and be left with ugly scars and risk gaining weight again. I agree I would prefer his big tummy over excess skin. He was the one who gained the weight so he may get used to his big tummy. I will learn to adjust to it and try to keep his weight down to under 300lbs.
Sad that you feel you are stuck.