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My husband is getting fat
My husband is getting fat. He used to be slim and in shape, and now, he looks like a butterball. When we were dating, he was 170 pounds. He stepped on the scale the other day and he has gained 50 pounds!
The problem is I feel guilty watching him fatten up and liking it. I feed him well, he likes to snack and his fat belly and mushy chest are a turn on for me. I prefer it much more than the flat stomach he had years ago. He has a slight double chin now that I also think is **.
I hope he still gains in the coming years. I had to buy him size 40 pants (used to be a size 32), and I was so happy to watch him try them on. He complained about the new size, so I walked over to him, patted his bulging tummy, grabbed his love handles and told him how attractive he is to me. It’s not a lie, though, because I really do enjoy his new size and I love his fat belly!
Hopefully he gains another 50 pounds! I wouldn’t mind a chubby hubby! What’s better than eating what you want and getting your wife excited to be with you in the bedroom?
She has always been over 200lbs with me and has steadily gained over the last 3 years. She has 2 kids from a previous marriage and I hear she had gained 60 or 70 each pregnancy. We are in our late thirties so she would be an older mum this time round.
It’s harder to lose weight at that age and she’s running out of time for a baby. That’s a hard choice. She really needs to be smaller for long-term health, and not gain that amount of weight with each pregnancy. Did you offer to eat better with her and exercise with her? Are you concerned really about her health or her looks?
She’s not into dieting and healthy eating. Yea I’m concerned about her health and a selfish part of me doesn’t want a 300lbs plus wife after the pregnancy.
A 300-pound pregnant wife is a lot of woman...
I don’t think anyone would fault you for feeling that way.
If she’s already gained 60 pounds with a pregnancy, gained 70 pounds with a pregnancy, had a steady gain since being with you and a third pregnancy gain of anything is going to make her a very heavy woman. Be careful.
She’s short and carries all of her weight around her middle, so it may be hard enough to get her pregnant. If she does I don’t think I’ll see her at under 300lbs again!
Got to ask yourself if you’re OK with that long-term, being over 300 pounds.