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My husband is getting fat
My husband is getting fat. He used to be slim and in shape, and now, he looks like a butterball. When we were dating, he was 170 pounds. He stepped on the scale the other day and he has gained 50 pounds!
The problem is I feel guilty watching him fatten up and liking it. I feed him well, he likes to snack and his fat belly and mushy chest are a turn on for me. I prefer it much more than the flat stomach he had years ago. He has a slight double chin now that I also think is **.
I hope he still gains in the coming years. I had to buy him size 40 pants (used to be a size 32), and I was so happy to watch him try them on. He complained about the new size, so I walked over to him, patted his bulging tummy, grabbed his love handles and told him how attractive he is to me. It’s not a lie, though, because I really do enjoy his new size and I love his fat belly!
Hopefully he gains another 50 pounds! I wouldn’t mind a chubby hubby! What’s better than eating what you want and getting your wife excited to be with you in the bedroom?
Sounds like a nice life! How much do you weigh? How did you two meet?
Met in college when I was probably 175 and physically active (exercise, intramural sports, etc.). That was 15 years ago. I’m now almost 250, and she’s maybe gained 10 in that same time. At first it was difficult because I had never been heavier, but now it’s just how my life is. Luckily, she has accepted it (and contributed to it) and we are still happily married. Her dad’s weight and how my MIL fed him up should have been a tip off back in the day that my fate would probably be similar.
How much did/does he weigh? Are you and your wife happy with your size, or have any plans to be bigger?
He probably got up to 275, and then his doctor made him lose weight.
I’m OK with my size, but I wouldn’t mind getting back down under 220. I didn’t look fat at 220, just husky. I look fat now with a belly that is round and sticks out. And I can’t play sports like I used to be able to (run, jump, have endurance, etc.).
I don’t have any plans to gain anymore weight, but if I’m honest with myself, I haven’t lost any weight since being married. The scale has only gone up from year to year. So although I don’t want to get any heavier, I don’t have a lot of faith in myself (or my wife) that I’m going to stay this weight. She seems to only like me bigger based on always feeding me, so who knows.
How much do you weigh now? Your wife still fattening you?
I had a 220 phase. The meals and clothes sizes just got bigger, and time on the sofa got longer. Then it was 240 and every meal had dessert attached, as everyone knew the fatty had to have it. Drinking also escalated, beer before dinner, wine with it, and a night cap to finish off. Lately it’s tipped 270 and more time devoted to eating and sofa since retirement.
I am fascinated by my bulging belly and burgeoning “moobs”. The wife is amused, and automatically increases my portion / clothing size accordingly. I am on a caloric merry go round and have never been happier or more sure that it will continue.
Enjoy your fat journey🐷