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My husband is getting fat
My husband is getting fat. He used to be slim and in shape, and now, he looks like a butterball. When we were dating, he was 170 pounds. He stepped on the scale the other day and he has gained 50 pounds!
The problem is I feel guilty watching him fatten up and liking it. I feed him well, he likes to snack and his fat belly and mushy chest are a turn on for me. I prefer it much more than the flat stomach he had years ago. He has a slight double chin now that I also think is **.
I hope he still gains in the coming years. I had to buy him size 40 pants (used to be a size 32), and I was so happy to watch him try them on. He complained about the new size, so I walked over to him, patted his bulging tummy, grabbed his love handles and told him how attractive he is to me. It’s not a lie, though, because I really do enjoy his new size and I love his fat belly!
Hopefully he gains another 50 pounds! I wouldn’t mind a chubby hubby! What’s better than eating what you want and getting your wife excited to be with you in the bedroom?
Congrats on the weight loss! (And I guess the weight gain. ;) ha ha!) if he asked you to gain some weight back now, would you do that for him?
I am not a fat person anymore. My life style has totally changed. My husband has accepted our role reversal. I am fit and he is the fatty now, and it feels very right.
Sista, I hear you! I also slimmed down after having kids while I fattened my husband up. I am a natural leader (got up to Major in the military) and I love fitness. I can still run a 7 minute mile and do 150 pushups after having 3 kids! But in the household, there can only be one leader, and that is Major Momma! Marriage is not about competition. It's about a husband and wife working as a team. We are *equal* but we are NOT the same. In the home, I outrank my husband, just like I outranked him in the military. But I do not lead by intimidation. I use all my skills, including cooking! I keep my husband's belly full every day and love him up at least 3 times a week. I also take care of the kids and the household. I do NOT complain, I own my role. I am a woman, but I am NOT weak - I can benchpress my weight plus 40 pounds! My husband respects me and I respect him. And yes, I put a 50 pound belly on him (he weighs around 245 now). I am the fit one and he is the fatty in this household and that is that.