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My husband is getting fat
My husband is getting fat. He used to be slim and in shape, and now, he looks like a butterball. When we were dating, he was 170 pounds. He stepped on the scale the other day and he has gained 50 pounds!
The problem is I feel guilty watching him fatten up and liking it. I feed him well, he likes to snack and his fat belly and mushy chest are a turn on for me. I prefer it much more than the flat stomach he had years ago. He has a slight double chin now that I also think is **.
I hope he still gains in the coming years. I had to buy him size 40 pants (used to be a size 32), and I was so happy to watch him try them on. He complained about the new size, so I walked over to him, patted his bulging tummy, grabbed his love handles and told him how attractive he is to me. It’s not a lie, though, because I really do enjoy his new size and I love his fat belly!
Hopefully he gains another 50 pounds! I wouldn’t mind a chubby hubby! What’s better than eating what you want and getting your wife excited to be with you in the bedroom?
You’re right. I do have a bigger belly to wrestle with under the sheets. But don’t worry - if your guy keeps getting bigger you two will be fine! We had to make some “adjustments” but are as good and happy as ever.
That’s good to know!! I’m happy with him at 240, but won’t mind if he keeps growing.
That is my opinion. Except when he was too skinny I was happy with whatever made him comfortable. But I do like the belly. It’s like thisheavy, soft but hard thing that is part of him but had a mind of its own!
My young husband has gained a considerable amount of weight since our marriage with most of it settling on his belly. Can you advise of the adjustments you have made because husband’s big belly is becoming a challenge between the sheets lol.
How tall is your husband and how much does he weigh, and how big is his waist? I want to compare him to my husband before I answer.
We have been married for 5 years and he is now 28. He is 5’9 and his weight has gone up from 170lbs to 320lbs. He has a 52 waist.
Wow! A few more pounds than Kevin but a little taller. Well, the first thing I think about is to really show attention to the belly. It is probably going to share your bed for the rest of your life, so you may as well love it. Second, I was always a missionary girl. At first the extra weight was better because it made him stronger. But then the belly started getting in the way. So we switched to me on top. I can lean against and sort of position it out of the way. Make sense? Do you like the belly in general?
Rice does go straight to the stomach. So we both have young husbands who have put on big bellies from eating too much. And now at least my husband doesn’t exercise because he is too big. I love the belly - but the question we both have now is how big is too big. Have you thought about that? I know my husband could carry some more weight and still look good. But he is 285 at age 33. At his rate he’ll be 350 at age 37. Now, 350 probably would be fine, but I’m scared of anything that starts with a 4. What do you think? You have the bigger fatty!
Both our husband’s can carry their weight cause they are both young. Both will gain as they get older and will find it harder. I know I will struggle to keep my husband under 400lbs as he enjoys his food and doesn’t exercise. I’m in good company as a lot of my friends have married American or Australian men, and most of their husband’s have weight problems due to adjusting to Asian diet lol. Some are younger than my husband and have gained more than him lol. But as long as I keep him under 400 I will be happy.