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My husband is getting fat
My husband is getting fat. He used to be slim and in shape, and now, he looks like a butterball. When we were dating, he was 170 pounds. He stepped on the scale the other day and he has gained 50 pounds!
The problem is I feel guilty watching him fatten up and liking it. I feed him well, he likes to snack and his fat belly and mushy chest are a turn on for me. I prefer it much more than the flat stomach he had years ago. He has a slight double chin now that I also think is **.
I hope he still gains in the coming years. I had to buy him size 40 pants (used to be a size 32), and I was so happy to watch him try them on. He complained about the new size, so I walked over to him, patted his bulging tummy, grabbed his love handles and told him how attractive he is to me. It’s not a lie, though, because I really do enjoy his new size and I love his fat belly!
Hopefully he gains another 50 pounds! I wouldn’t mind a chubby hubby! What’s better than eating what you want and getting your wife excited to be with you in the bedroom?
I guess it was just eating too much - he loves his food - over too many years, and not working out the way he used to. It was more gradual. He didn’t mind the weight and I thought he looked good a little bit heavier. So he probably gained about 70 - 75 pounds over 10 years. Then about 70 pounds over the last 4 years when it got harder to work out at all. And then all of a sudden he is 285! To be honest I don’t think he is too fat at that weight, except in the belly which looks **. But at some point he’ll have to cut back.
Oh, so you actually like his bigger belly? Like you don’t mind how big he is? My husband has put on weight. But not as much as yours. I’m not sure how I feel about his extra weight.
It took me some time but I do like it. Especially as the weight kept coming and the belly popped out. Great to grab and snuggle with. Plus, I don’t think it is going away and I hope to be married for 50 more years, so I better enjoy it! How much weight has your husband put on?
Probably between 70-80 pounds. Maybe a little more. Definitely looking plump and pudgy now.
I guess the question is whether he is comfortable with his weight. If he is he he’ll probably put on some more. Hopefully slowly. Personally I think it is more attractive to carry it out front on the belly than all over, but to each his own.