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My husband is getting fat
My husband is getting fat. He used to be slim and in shape, and now, he looks like a butterball. When we were dating, he was 170 pounds. He stepped on the scale the other day and he has gained 50 pounds!
The problem is I feel guilty watching him fatten up and liking it. I feed him well, he likes to snack and his fat belly and mushy chest are a turn on for me. I prefer it much more than the flat stomach he had years ago. He has a slight double chin now that I also think is **.
I hope he still gains in the coming years. I had to buy him size 40 pants (used to be a size 32), and I was so happy to watch him try them on. He complained about the new size, so I walked over to him, patted his bulging tummy, grabbed his love handles and told him how attractive he is to me. It’s not a lie, though, because I really do enjoy his new size and I love his fat belly!
Hopefully he gains another 50 pounds! I wouldn’t mind a chubby hubby! What’s better than eating what you want and getting your wife excited to be with you in the bedroom?
My wife showed me this forum when I was getting down about my weight increasing during this pandemic. Just stress, bad eating habits and more difficulty in finding ways to exercise. I’ve gained about 25 pounds, and it’s been noticeable in my face and stomach (I was already a little overweight). She said that after looking through Google to find how she could help me, she found this forum and wanted to show me. She said she could learn to appreciate a heavier version of me because so many other people have with their spouses, and didn’t want me to try and lose the weight now. She wants me to just relax, get mentally healthy and content and let her just enjoy me at this heavier weight for now. It was a relief and took some pressure off.
It is a relief. And you realize that you’ve been stressing over nothing. Most men can handle some extra weight. I’m not talking about going nuts and turning into a hippo. Just enjoying life. If over the next 5 years you gained another 25 or 30 pounds, would it be that big a deal? Sounds like your wife would be ok with it. And you’ll have enjoyed life without that stress.