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My husband is getting fat
My husband is getting fat. He used to be slim and in shape, and now, he looks like a butterball. When we were dating, he was 170 pounds. He stepped on the scale the other day and he has gained 50 pounds!
The problem is I feel guilty watching him fatten up and liking it. I feed him well, he likes to snack and his fat belly and mushy chest are a turn on for me. I prefer it much more than the flat stomach he had years ago. He has a slight double chin now that I also think is **.
I hope he still gains in the coming years. I had to buy him size 40 pants (used to be a size 32), and I was so happy to watch him try them on. He complained about the new size, so I walked over to him, patted his bulging tummy, grabbed his love handles and told him how attractive he is to me. It’s not a lie, though, because I really do enjoy his new size and I love his fat belly!
Hopefully he gains another 50 pounds! I wouldn’t mind a chubby hubby! What’s better than eating what you want and getting your wife excited to be with you in the bedroom?
I get it and no offense taken. It’s like I was ok dating guys that smoked when I met them, but if my H started smoking now I’d be upset. Maybe it’s the stress that’s got your husband overeating. Or maybe he’s just getting older.
Ewww, gross! No to a smoker. Ever. But yea, I think you’re right. He’s been really stressed about finances and his job and stuff. Especially since this Covid stuff happened. But why do I have to deal with it, too? I mean, sometimes it’s kinda cute, but I don’t want him getting really fat on me. I’m already locked down with his wedding ring and baby!
I get it. And even though I’m ok with my husband being bigger I do wish he’d think about slowing down some. He’ll get out of breath and think the solution is to relax on the couch - and order a pizza. Men.
How much weight has he gained since you’ve been with him? You like it?
You can’t just ask whether I like it or not. It’s complicated. That’s why I’m reading the comments. I love my husband. I like some things about his physical size. I worry about other things. I’m happy to give you my thoughts but there isn’t a one word answer. What is your advice?
Is he still gaining weight?