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My husband is getting fat
My husband is getting fat. He used to be slim and in shape, and now, he looks like a butterball. When we were dating, he was 170 pounds. He stepped on the scale the other day and he has gained 50 pounds!
The problem is I feel guilty watching him fatten up and liking it. I feed him well, he likes to snack and his fat belly and mushy chest are a turn on for me. I prefer it much more than the flat stomach he had years ago. He has a slight double chin now that I also think is **.
I hope he still gains in the coming years. I had to buy him size 40 pants (used to be a size 32), and I was so happy to watch him try them on. He complained about the new size, so I walked over to him, patted his bulging tummy, grabbed his love handles and told him how attractive he is to me. It’s not a lie, though, because I really do enjoy his new size and I love his fat belly!
Hopefully he gains another 50 pounds! I wouldn’t mind a chubby hubby! What’s better than eating what you want and getting your wife excited to be with you in the bedroom?
Not a good idea, man. Being obese is no fun. Trust me. Stay skinny and in shape for you and your wife. You’ll thank me later in life.
I understand that too obviously. I've been a runner, cyclist etc. I feel like I'd want to start losing it with her after we have kids and as we get older. But the more weight the harder it is to come back from right, so that is a concern of mine.
I can’t speak much to s** because my wife was turned off by my weight gain and it doesn’t happen often or spontaneously now. It’s basically just anniversary, Valentines, etc. She’s said a few times that I’m really big and it’s difficult now because of the size of my stomach.
Just the opposite happened when I packed on a big belly. My wife couldn’t seem to get enough **. Not only was the ** more intense and almost every other night but she started cooking and she ONG me way bigger portions and over ordering when we went out to restaurants. My appetite increased a lot and my belly kept getting bigger and she seemed to love it more and more.
How much do you weigh now compared to when you two first met? Sounds like she loves you fat and plans on making you huge!
Are you speaking from experience as far as being ibese? It's the weird and difficult thing about being into this and it comes down to what I should prioritize. Either my long term health, or what I think would be a happier marriage. When I experimented with gaining a few pounds earlier on in quarantine my ** drive was so much higher and was through the charts. When I went back to working out 6 days a week again it died off again.
I have been skinny before and now I’m obese. Fairly big. I have a difficult time doing everyday things like getting up off the couch, getting on shoes, walking around a little. You start to get big and it’s harder to not keep gaining weight. You also don’t feel good about yourself because you stand out from others, have to sit on a chair in a restaurant, a seatbelt might not fit in someone’s car. There are just constant reminders that the world is designed fir skinnier people and it can be embarrassing.
I understand that. Right now I feel like I'm at the point in my life where I don't care what others think-I'm successful in my career, I have money, and maybe would say f it, I'm not embarrassed and still be confident. But then again who knows.
Well, good point. I think the only thing that matters is your happiness as a couple. If gaining weight makes you both happy, then go all in! Good luck!