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My husband is getting fat
My husband is getting fat. He used to be slim and in shape, and now, he looks like a butterball. When we were dating, he was 170 pounds. He stepped on the scale the other day and he has gained 50 pounds!
The problem is I feel guilty watching him fatten up and liking it. I feed him well, he likes to snack and his fat belly and mushy chest are a turn on for me. I prefer it much more than the flat stomach he had years ago. He has a slight double chin now that I also think is **.
I hope he still gains in the coming years. I had to buy him size 40 pants (used to be a size 32), and I was so happy to watch him try them on. He complained about the new size, so I walked over to him, patted his bulging tummy, grabbed his love handles and told him how attractive he is to me. It’s not a lie, though, because I really do enjoy his new size and I love his fat belly!
Hopefully he gains another 50 pounds! I wouldn’t mind a chubby hubby! What’s better than eating what you want and getting your wife excited to be with you in the bedroom?
I think you should bring it up to her. She might not want to say something because she doesn’t want to hurt your feelings (if she’s not into it). If she is into it, and you ask, and she’s honest with you, it could open up a whole new phase of your relationship that you both could mutually indulge in and enjoy, and it wouldn’t have to be this hush-hush secret anymore.
I’ve tried, but she’s just not comfortable talking about it. She’s definitely into me - been married 20 years! So it’s not a lack of honesty, it’s just that she’s not ready to talk about it and I’m respecting that. And truth be told, I sort of like the air of mystery about it.