My husband is getting fat

I'm average sized, but I love fat women, especially if they love to cook. Of course, I know there's no way I'd stay thin for long around a woman like that, so I've pretty much accepted I'll become a fat man. Hopefully my future ** won't mind me getting fat.

I’m sure she won’t!

Have you packed any more weight onto him?

He has gained another 20 pounds over the last six months, so he’s probably about 240 pounds now. A size 42 waist. And still very ** to me.

He’s gone from 170 pounds to 240 pounds?! And you still fancy him the same based on that drastic of a physical change?

Yea, he’s definitely gotten fat on you!

Yea, for reals. I don’t know if I would love my husband putting on 70 pounds!!

I'm not the OP, but I can say it's not like it's an instant change. It's tiny bits at a time, and each brings new delights. On any given day, it's imperceptible, but one day you notice "oh, he looks a little fuller". His face softens a bit, looking more peaceful. There's more to hug. His forearms look bigger and tougher. Before, 250 lbs sounded like a blob, and now somehow it's just a tiny bit more of the man you love.

Glad that you're still attracted to him at such a size!

He’s getting fat looking now, isn’t he? Is that what you were wanting?

He is starting to look fat instead of just filled out. The extra 20 points he recently gained to hit 240 total pounds fully brought out a double chin on him and his belly hangs over his belt more now. It’s much more noticeable than when he was just 220 lbs.
I’m not sure if I wanted him to look fat or just filled out. But I don’t mind looking at his new body now. He still looks strong and powerful, just with some extra layers of fat. I still find him incredibly attractive.

My boyfriend has been gaining weight since when we first started dating. He has gotten pretty big and has a double chin and a belly that hangs over his belt. I think it looks cute!

How does he feel about his weight gain? How much did he gain?

Probably 50 pounds. He doesn’t love the extra weight, but I told him I like the way he looks now. So he isn’t super motivated to lose his chubby belly anytime soon!

Well, don’t break up with him and just leave him fatter. Skinny him up if you decide to break up with him.

My husband is now fat, and I hate it. When we got together, he was so lean and muscular. He looked so ** with such a defined body. About a year into our marriage, while I kept up my physique, he started to relax on his. Two years later, I look the same and now I’m married to a guy who has probably gained forty or fifty pounds, and mostly in his stomach. His abs are long gone and now covered by inches of belly fat. When he takes off his shirt, his belly literally looks like he’s pregnant. He has massive love handles and complains that his back hurts. And he has no motivation to work off all his excess belly fat he’s accumulated. He doesn’t look anything like the man I married.

I’m sorry you feel that way. Maybe tell him how you feel and that you are losing attraction to him. Or buy him some maternity t-shirts for his new baby belly!!

Maternity shirts are a good idea!! Ha!

I would get him a bra, yoga pants and maternity workout shirts and tell him those are his new workout clothes until he quits looking like a pregnant woman.

Any change of heart? I hope this doesn’t have a big impact on your marriage.

Yea, a little bit of a change of heart. I was really upset about it one day and we had a fight about how much weight he had gained. He knew he was bigger, but he didn’t realize he had put on 47 pounds until he stepped on the scale that day. That was motivation for him to change. He has started working out more and eating better. He’s lost 18 pounds since the fight, which is good for his health. But I’ve been less focused on his weight gain now that I see his old self back, the one who would take charge and not let things just happen to him. Seeing him back to his old mentality has made me love and appreciate him more and his new body. If he loses all the weight it would be great for him, but now I’m focused on everything I love about him instead of the number on the scale. And now that I know he’s more committed to stop the slide, I can appreciate the fat belly while he still has it! It’s kinda cute on him!! And he’s more fun to cuddle!

I’m glad to hear it!! Good luck!

That makes me so happy! Don’t let a few extra lbs. ruin your relationship!!

That’s great that you were able to look past some of the physical stuff that was giving you hang ups. It would be sad to throw away a relationship that means so much to you because of some changes. We are all going to change in a lot of ways throughout our lives, so understanding what is an “OK” change and what is a “this is over” change is a good thing to be able to do. Sounds like you are on the right path!

My husband went from ** and stocky and strong looking to just blubbery fat when he gained forty pounds. I still love him, but I prefer less belly.

That is exactly what I’m saying. I still very much love him. I just hate his new, fat belly and what it represents to me. I feel like he is relaxing on the relationship, not just relaxing on his appearance. It sounds shallow, but I don’t think it is.

Is he treating you differently than he was when he was skinnier? If he isn’t as nice or as affectionate or as helpful as he used to be, then I can understand your concern. But if he treats you just as well, then maybe it is shallow of you. And, just a word of caution - you probably won’t continue to look as good as you do now as you age. So be careful because what goes around also comes around.

I kinda agree. If he’s treating you the same or better, maybe it is a little shallow. You married him for better or for worse (for skinnier or fatter).

My husband has gained 50 pounds since we have been together. The other day he asked me to help him do sit-ups and crunches. I pulled his shirt up while he did them. I saw no abs. Just flab.

Ha ha! My hubby, too! Used to have a nice, strong stomach. Now, it’s more like a bowl full of jelly.

Yes, my boyfriend definitely has a Santa belly now. Didn’t always have that...

My hubby got fat, and I love it! He’s easier to cuddle with, lasts longer in bed, flirts less with other women, is nicer to me, gets less physical attention from other women and is more attentive to my needs that he was when he was skinny. No complaints about my man getting fat on me!

Good for you two! Men are such visual creatures. There's a second head down their that all too readily leads them to stray. They need a nice fattened belly to remind them that they're spoken for now.

And a nice fattened belly shows other women he’s spoken for!

At 220 pounds and a size 40 waist, he’s not that big. Probably similar to an average American man. But if he puts on another 50 pounds, he will probably be 270 pounds, a size 48/50 waist and his BMI will be off the charts on the morbidly obese side of the scale. At that weight, it will be harder for him to exercise, take care of himself, take care of you and the family and have **. Just things to keep in mind. I’m almost 300 pounds myself, so I know what he will go through.

That seems to be good advice. The trade offs of getting that big for you should be part of your consideration.

I think this guy is right. Past 250 pounds at a normal height, he’s going to lose the ability to do some of his normal routine as easily. Harder to cut the grass. Harder to play at the park with the kids. Take up more room in the bed and snore. Just things to think about for both of you.

This guy is totally right. My husband was stocky when we married, but has since put on 50-60 lbs. it definitely changes some things in the relationship. We used to shower together at night and now we both can’t fit in there at the same time. We had to buy him new shirts and new pants. He gets winded when we do anything physical, and it’s more difficult for him to walk around a mall or a store with me. I don’t mind the extra weight, but I do miss some of the stuff his belly has changed.

I love a boy with blubber! Enjoy that fatty while he’s yours!

Don’t feel guilty! He’s putting the food in his own mouth. Just enjoy that fat boy!

Chubby guys can be so **. I like when they have abey on them!

*a belly on them.

A chubby belly is very cute!

I love to jiggle my fat man’s belly. He’s fun to cuddle with and squeeze. I never want him to skinny up.

You'll keep fattening him.
"What’s better than eating what you want and getting your wife excited to be with you in the bedroom?"
I did this with my wife and she got to like eating what she wanted and getting her husband excited to be with her in the bedroom. I was thinking 300lbs maybe a bit more, she's now 455lbs and still gaining.

That woman is too fat then.

455 is way too fat. That’s a hog at that weight! 🐷

Nothing is sexier to me than my man loving my food and getting a belly for me. I’m proud of that belly! It was made with love!

It shows he's hooked on you and let's everyone else know too :)

That’s the plan!

Very true. His belly is evidence that his woman takes good care of him at the table and in the bedroom.

Love me a fatty! Fat boys are so ** and sweet.

If you can get yourself a fatty, your life will be better.

Wish I had a wife like you that loved feeding me and making me fat. If anyone's interested, feel free to contact me! feedthefatty2748@gmail.com