I love my boyfriend but he’s a softy
My boyfriend is really sweet but he’s a bit of a softy. I’m 19 and he’s 21.
He’s a real gentle soul which is adorable sometimes. He melts over the way I look the when my hair is in a messy bun with a sweat shirt on way more than when I spend hours getting dressed. He’ll say “you have such beautiful natural blond hair” as he twirls it in his hands and smells it and says I have gorges eyes. He does genuinely like the way I dress.
It’s really hard to fight with him because I feel like a b**** after sometimes because he respectfully listens and tries to work things out. He understands me which is something my other two boyfriends haven’t as much.
I try to be mindful not to eat too much but he says that it would break his heart if I don’t eat to get slimmer so he’ll cook big meals for me (pancakes, burgers, whole grane muffins). We go on walks after to burn the calories. He’ll take me to sit under specific trees that he likes which is funny to me.
He’ll text or call me out of nowhere and ask me how I’m feeling or just what’s on my mind which is sweet. He understands me in a way a lot of people don’t.
He loves cuddling so much. I’ve tried to make a move on him but he’ll just want to cuddle. He wants to play board games and cards with me which is cute but a childish. He never goes on his phone when he’s with me. He forgets where he puts it and gets a little bothered if I go on mine too much.
He hates partying and drinking which is extra annoying because he’s 21 and can get us all booze.
He says he has a lot of addiction in his family and never wants to get into the habit of drinking because he doesn’t want to become an alcoholic (dramatic but understandable).
He’s really good at s** but he’s super super gentle. He says “I know how to pleasure my woman” which is hot but or else I wish he was more rough. I hate my nipples but he loves them. Ironically, he gets off on me hitting him hard when I’m “the boss” of him and likes to spank me too.
He’ll pick flowers and give them to be with this adorable little grin on his face.
He’ll cuddle with his stuffed animal in front of me which is adorable and a little childish. He sleeps on a couch and always has his sleeping stuff there so he’ll discreatly grab his bunny sometimes when we’re watching Netflix.
It’s too soon to tell if he’s “the one” but we’ll be together for a lot longer. My friends love him and he doesn’t flirt with them at all but they get along really well.