Friends with benefits

Okay, so I’m in school and before covid the guy I sat next to in one of my classes would hit on me pretty much everyday and I would teasingly flirt back. Now, bc of quarantine I haven’t hung out with people in weeks and by god I just want to f****** get off. I really want to be fwb with him because ik he had a big d*** but I’m too awkward to say it to him... last time I texted him he said he was “talking w someone” so I don’t know if that means I shouldn’t offer....

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  • We are all seeking love.
    Sometimes even those of us who have found it.
    Still looking for, hoping for, wanting wanting.
    wanting more
    or underappreciating or misunderstanding the preciousness or importance of what we have.
    Failing to recognize that we are not
    Entitled to "more".
    We humans are an intensely imperfect species.
    A failed experiment. We are, in short,
    a wretched mess.

  • The girl he claims to be "talking with" could be at another college, one halfway across the country, or all the way on the other side of the world. Or it could have been a way of testing the seriousness of your interest in him, to see how far you might declare yourself. My recommendation is that you just maintain contact with him, make your interest clear, but not sexual (not yet), and just see where it leads. There will be time for you to test the waters, without overplaying your cards. My guess is that, soon, you'll be able to put yourself in front of him, with a chance for heavy FWB. Best wishes, my dear.

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