My Fiancé's Secret Update

Back story: I made a post on here recently about how my fiancé donated a lot of money to a male sexual abuse support orginizaiton and how he got super angry and freaked out for the first time in the 6 years that I've known him.

I walked into our bedroom last night and told him that when ever he is ready, he can tell me about the thing on his mind. He turned to me, eyes began to tear, then collapsed in my arms and cried, stuffed animal under an arm.

He told me that he suffered sexual abuse from ages 15-16. He said he was paralyzed with fear when it would happen. He told me that the person that hurt him was the last person he would have ever imagined it being.

He said that it was time for him to seek counciling. He told me that he has the money from an inheritence from when a family member died. He said that he's going to take time off of school and work and that he has enough to live off of for as long as he would need.

I hope that he is in the beginning stages of the healing process.

Mar 23

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  • Yes he need to release his anger, frustration and pain.
    I hope he will feel better when he gets a chance to talk to someone.
    He is lucky to have you with him on this journey to recovery.
    Good luck to the both of you!!
    Who ever did this to him should pay for it!!!!

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