Just too much
My wife is pregnant and she has those 'urges'. One of her urges is, unfortunately for me, to make love more. But for me her condition now is very undesirable. I love her and I want the baby as much as she does, but I will refuse to make love to her as I simply do not find her arousing - with her belly showing more and more each day.
My wife threatened me with a divorce on the basis of 'lack of physical attention' or other such BS. I read up and she apparently could. So I suggested to her she takes a lover from a dating App for the time until she gives birth. She shrieked a lot first accusing me of making her a s--t but later she said that was reasonable.
She hooked up, the guy came, and they made love. I had a camera in her room to avoid any kind of problem. Yes, I watched them, no, I was not turned on. It was just a safety precaution.
She agreed with the guy to keep on returning, which he does.
What worries me is that I notice what started as plain vanilla love making soon turned into marathons with my wife making oral love on him, then on to him taking her in the smaller hole, and so on. Last time he came I could clearly see she let him go deep into her throat and then he went into her smaller hole to finish there. Yes, for now he no longer pulls out, nor does he wear a rubber.
So I think my wife went bonkers, using her pregnancy to fill her wildest fantasies. No problem with fantasies but perhaps some would be better to remain just that.
Or at least she should have asked me if I agreed to him doing all those very intimate things with her?
I wonder if she will ever let me do all those very perverse things to her after the child is born and she is back in good shape. If she does not, I will use the tapes and divorce her. And I will take the child away from her too.
I was with you with the pregnancy part... When mine was preggo, I guess I realized I was kind of vain and not as physically attracted to her with her body out of wack so ** happened less than she would liked. But you, my guy, opened up Pandora's box and can't blame her if the box doesn't close back.
What a limp dicked **. Any real heterosexual man would find a pregnant woman **.
Ask the lover, not me, he does not now I posted here, nor does my wife
Is her new lover black?
You clearly are, he is a brainy Asian, my wife hates stupid blacks
But perhaps when the child is born her urges will be over ?
what I would be far more worried of is that if he does not wear rubber and she throats and swallows then you two (and possibly the child too) could be in for a nasty STD wakeup call, and this could potentially lead to the child being born with serious damage
Your threats of divorce and taking the child is bogus, this is something you suggested and asked for. You better get used to your wife having a lover from now on. She needed love and support, you would not give it to her and told her to take a lover, even helped find him. Do not be surprised if this man stays in the picture after the child is born.