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I allow my child to smoke
I smoke four packs a day, and have for a long time. My six year old girl recently asked me to let her puff on my ciggy. So I did. She asked to do it repeatedly all day. By the end of the day, she wanted her own ciggy. So I gave her one. Since then, she has been smoking like a champ, about a pack a day. I somehow feel guilty but not really. I actually don't think it's all that bad for her to smoke.
Recently, I cut down to 2 packs a day because I am pregnant--3 months. I just don't think I should deprive myself just because I a pregnant. I expect my new baby will want to smoke too, and I don't have a problem teaching it how to do it. I love smoking more that anything. I don't think I'm all that bad, but my friends say I'm wrong. Any comments?
We have a tight knit circle of friends and their sons and daughters who smoke. Unfortunately not all of Ren and Lilly's friends smoke and because of this their mums won't allow their daughters to hang around with my twins.
There was one mum who I encouraged her to allow her daughter to smoke. She would come to our place after school specifically to smoke and i gave her mouthwash after she smoked a few cigarettes before she left to go home. I felt this was deceiving her mother, so i had a word with her and then her mum allowed this girl to smoke. She is in the same class at school as my kids.
Belinda
Belinda u are a great mum letting your children smoke that young
When I allowed Ren and Lilly to smoke they opened up to and told me they hated their father and I picking them up during school holidays from their biological mother's place to take them on holiday with us particularly from the time they were 7. We'd stop and have a rest break and their dad and I would have a cigarette or two. I told them had they told me that they were smokers when they were 7 I would have undoubtedly allowed them to smoke at that age.
What annoyed me is that they didn't feel comfortable telling their natural mum they smoke.
At that age they were frighten u can not blame them
I should've been more clearer. The twins mum had more than a good idea they were smokers (she told me that herself) after I told her i was allowing the tins to smoke. she said she could often smell cigarette smoke on their breath, in their hair and on their clothing. I was annoyed that she didn't aproach them about their smoking. Nonetheless their natural mother and I have a good rapport with one another and often go to lunch but still if Ren and Lilly decided to back to live with her, I'd be devastated.
Belinda
How is oliva is she still smocking and how much per week
I haven't heard about Olivia, Freja, Isabella and Megan for months. They stopped writing to us long ago. They were Swedish but moved to Alaska about a year ago. Megan was their mum and she was younger than. She had isabella (Izzy) when she was 14. Izzy is about 9 months younger than Ren and Lilly. Izzy and Ren had a girl crush on each other.
Olivia was 4 when Megan taught her to smoke and last count she was smoking pack a day. She turned 5 last October I think.
Belinda
Your friends how are old are there sons and daughters who smoke and how much would they smoke
I'm not sure how much my friend's smoke because I'm not with them all the time but the kids who come to our pool parties with their parents are aged between 5 and 16 years old are smokers. The 5 year old is my niece, Chloe.
Belinda