Fiance's anxiety is driving me to the brink
Three months ago my fiance (we've been together 7 years) moved across the state from a place she has lived her entire life. Because she has anxiety and asberger's I was prepared to deal with her having difficult adjusting, but it's gotten to the point where I can't even handle it.
She has had one job since we've been here and lasted four days before she had a 'mental breakdown'. As much as I know and support the fact that she has mental issues a large part of me feels like it was completely faked simply so she could get out o the job without me being angry.
I took her to three doctors and agreed to let her quit the job so she can get better, and recently she has been anxious about literally everything. Even things that are completely made up. I just got an interview for a very good job that would take a lot of strain off of us financially and she has a therapy meeting on monday and yet today she starts telling me she's 'terrified of next week'. Nothing is happening next week except for my interview and her therapy (which she has been in for the last two years).
I don't know what the h*** to do with her. Nothing helps and her anxiety has NEVER been this bad. I get she's in a new place but this is getting f****** ridiculous. Especially when she has days where she feels 'guilty' for quitting her job when I told her for weeks it was a bad idea. She just feeds into whatever anxiety she gets and expects me to be understanding and supportive, but I've had enough. I have to cook, clean, take care of her/the dogs, drive her EVERYWHERE, and on top of that I'm the only one working. Again.
I love her but I'm not sure how much more of this I can take.