I'm a married black man whom is married to a black woman for 18 years. I do love her clearly and we get along perfectly.We are very happy together. I have a problem though. My s** drive is high and hers is not. She is just not simply sexual enough for me. I am really into this married white woman that I work with. We always greet and talk to each other whenever we cross paths. I occasionally buy her lunch and she always seems excited to chat. She is so damn sexy to me and I want to f--- her so bad. We never talk about s** or anything,but I feel as though we always flirt. We mainly talk sports and how our kids play sports.She brings her husband up every now and then but it's never anything bad about him. I really can't tell if she is really flirting or just being nice. She plays with her hair sometimes while talking. I can feel the tension between us sometimes because it seems like we are thinking of stuff to say while pausing a lot. I'm just scared to tell her how I really feel about her cause she might not have even had s** in mind. I want to have her so bad but I don't know how to go about it.
PS: Another female co-worker told me that this married woman I want just craves attention
I'm real and serious so please (what should I do)