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My husband and I are both heavy smokers. My 11 year old daughter was smoking in her room when I unexpectedly walked in on her. After the awkward moment passed, we talked and found out she has been smoking for nearly half a year and is addicted. I told her it was OK for her to smoke. I feel a bit guilty but not too much, for some reason. My husband flat out didn't care if she smoked or not. I wonder if I did the right thing. I know smoking isn't very healthy, but at her age, I guess it isn't doing all that much harm. Besides, how can I tell her not to smoke if I keep puffing away at 2 packs per day. Neither my husband nor I are about to quit. We love smoking too much for that. So instead I watch my little girl puffing away at the rate of 1 pack a day. She smokes like it's nothing. She reminds me of myself when I was around her age.
You're a sick **
Hi Belinda, and Ren and Lilly,
Ok, so, Jackie is 4 months along. She doesn't know who the ** the father is since she f*cks around quite a bit, pretty much every day, and likes to brag about having f*cked every guy in her class, plus some others. She just doesn't want to get tied down with a kid, right now. I of course want her to keep the baby but in the end it is up to her. We've really discussed the issue, so I will respect her final decision. I'm hoping that once the kid is born, she will end up changing her mind and keep it. She has told her doctor she doesn't want to know if it's a boy or girl. Ren and Lilly, do you know what you guys are having? Ren, thanks for the weed suggestion, but Jackie is pretty much over the morning sickness think now.
Paula
Hi Pam,
Maybe Jackie will keep her baby. As you say it's entirely her decision. I gave Ren a roasting for strongly suggesting she keeps it. It's none of Ren's f ucking business and it made me mad. Sometime my kids are too self opinionated for their own good. Now that doesn't mean to say I have them refrain from forming an opinion altogether, it just means I've been teaching them to respect other people's desires and wishes. Despite a 250,000 to 1 chance of twins having twins the fact is both Ren and Lilly are having them. Ren is having a boy and a girl whilst Lilly is having two girls. Ren was 7 months pregnant on January 21 and Lilly is a little over 5 months. Ren and Lilly are not my biological daughters although they call me mum and I refer to them as my daughters both in social and family circles. They have lived with their father and myself since they were 9. I moved in with him when I was in my second last year of high school when I was 17 and their father was 26. I finished school then went on to teacher's college and graduated but I couldn't put up with the politicing so I went into business with a school friend - partnership in a hairdressing salon - makeup parlour.
More later, keep in contact.
Belinda
Sorry,
I meant to write Paula.
Belinda
Belinda,
No worries about Ren voicing her opinion. We learn by making mistakes, if you want to call it that. I got pregnant with Jackie when I was 22 and working in a ** bar in Las Vegas, where I live. A lot of the servers in such places supplement their incomes after hours, or even during their breaks! Well, this one guy really was nice and we ended up getting married after just a month. We decided to have a kid, but soon after Jackie was born, things started going south real fast. Got divorced and moved in with my Mom while I continued to work in ** bars. After a few years, I met Mike and we hit it off. Moved in with him a few months later and we've been together since.
Paula
Paula,
I'm Belinda, Ren and Lilly's mother. How many months is Jackie pregnant? I'm delighted that my twins are pregnant. How do you feel about Jackie being pregnant?
Hi Paula,
I'm glad you wrote to us and I'm happy for Jackie that she drinks, smokes, has ** and she's got herself pregnant. If she gets morning sickness real f ucking bad give her some weed to smoke. Mum gave it to me and my twin Lilly and it really helps and we continue to smoke it. Besides mum said smoking dope calms us down a fair bit.
Ren
Ren and Lilly are out of order. Not only do they smoke cigarettes, drink, have ** an smoke dope but their language is putrid. Very rarely can they write a sentence without mentioning words such as f*ck c*nt, c*ck, wh*re sl*t, m*le, b*tch etc but they get themselves pregnant yet they're only 14. They need a good smack around the head.
I forgot to say that they ** each too. How disgusting is that? God will punish these Ren and Lilly like no other.
F uck I suppose you're a wife and kid basher too you c unt.
Lilly
Ren and Lilly,
Do you walk around your house naked while you smoke. That'd be such a turn on for me to see?
We all walk around the house naked while we're smoking, mum, dad Lilly and me. Mum and dad hold Skinny dipping dinner pool parties at our place every couple of months and the parents and us kids are all in the pool together then we get out for dinner and drink and smoke. Sometimes we have a BBQ and other times mum pays for caters and we have food delivered. We're doing it again on Australia Day.
Ren
Hi, My name is Paula, and I have a 15 year old daughter. She started smoking when she was 8, and I let her start having one drink a day when she turned 13. Both me and my boyfriend smoke. My ex-husband did too. My daughter, whose name is Jackie, got pregnant accidentally about 4 months ago. The first 3 months, she said nothing, but then told me she's not having periods anymore, and for a while there, she didn't feel good when she ate, so right away I knew. We let her continue to smoke; I never had any problems smoking through my pregnancy, after all. And we continue to let her have her one drink a day. She smokes a pack a day, which I don't think is really all that much, and she should be fine with the pregnancy. She really isn't sure about the baby; she might put it up for adoption...we'll see.
Have fun Ren and Lilly with your pregnancies!
Oh no, tell Jackie to keep her bub. Mum said to us that if Ren and I don't keep ours we could go on through life wondering what if. We were different to Jackie coz we wanted to get preg. Mum is very supportive of us both.
Love to you and Jackie and all the best.
Take care
Love Lilly
That is great do u have other friends that let there children smoke
Ren and Lilly,
Did you twins get laid at the party last Saturday night?
Nooo. Three of us girls are pregnant.
Lilly
Mum is putting on a baby gender party for Ren, me and Oksana tonight. There will be pink and blue birthday cakes with candy cigarettes and candy booze bottles on them. We will reveal whether we are having boys or girls. Most of our 60 friends don't know what we're having until the party tonight.
Lilly
Lilly is still in bed because she got drunk last night at our party and mum was really
pi ssed with her. Lilly was so drunk she couldn't even get changed for bed so mum had to take Lilly's jeans off for her. Lilly asked mum for a cigarette then mum threw the pack at her and told her to sit up and smoke it before she burnt the house down.
Apart from that the party was really good and only a few girls were drunk but they stayed over at our place. Tegan's mum called in at 2am to pick her up but she was too wasted to get her lazy ar se off the lounge so mum said shed drive her home today. Mum put Tegan in Lilly's bed with Lilly.
Ren
I just love reading what badass things the twins, Ren and Lilly get up to. Getting drunk, smoking, drinking, having ** and getting themselves pregnant. They sound so much fun.
What were you young girls and guys drinking?
We were drinking Voddys and plenty of it. Ren was right when she said mum had to take my jeans off and put me to bed coz I was so f ucking drunk. And she made me sit up in bed to smoke my cigarette before I fell asleep.
Lilly
What are Voddys?
I was French kissing my twin sister this morning while we were smoking. It was so f ucking hot. We lived it as we love each other so much
Lilly
Lilly,
Did you and Ren have ** together as well?
We always f uck each other when we're smoking.
Ren and Lilly,
What brand of cigarettes do you smoke and how many do you smoke per day.
We both smoke Marlboro Gold and mum buys us 2 cartons of cigarettes each per week. There are 8 packs in a carton and each pack has 25 ciggies in them.
Ren
Will you people stop pointing the ** at Belinda for buying and letting her daughters drink and smoke cigarettes?
Mothers have been allowing their kids to smoke for decades just as I have let my kids smoke and have the occasional bourbon and coke.
For ** sake, get a life.
Melanie
Good on u how many children do u have what ages i have 3 children 7 9 11 smoke 1ppd each and drink burbon and coke
Jatin,
Lilly and myself are going to university when we complete the Higher School Certificate and we've made up our minds to become escorts while we're at uni. We're looking forward to the birth of our babies. Mine will be born before Lilly's babies and now that we're pregnant mum is also looking forward to the births. She wasn't all that impressed though when we first told her we are preg. She wants us to cut down our smoking a bit but it's really difficult.
Lilly
Hi Ren,
I am glad you are both having twins. Say hello to Lilly from me.
Can't wait till you tell us they have started smoking. You and Lilly with be the best Mothers.
Don't listen to what other people say.
Take care and stay safe
Jatin
Hey Jatin
I'm Lilly and I'm Ren's twin sister. It's a pity you can't smoke, why is that?
As soon as our kids are born Lilly and I are getting both our kids names tattooed on our right shoulder. So we'll have 4 names tattooed on each. One tattoo for each child.
Ren
We're 14 now and we were 14 when you wrote we were 13. Not only do we drink and smoke but we're pregnant too. But what had that got to do with you bi tch?
Our mum is a great young lady. Sounds like you're a jealous c unt
Lilly