My boyfriend of about a month.
He told me he was madly in love with me and he'd always want me to be by his side. He's a very broken person. Has issues of abandonment, and tells me that he usually keeps walls up when someone tries to come into his life -- tells me I broke through. That he's loves me and will support me to the end of the earth.
Whenever he has bad days, he doesn't look at me. He won't talk to me, and he won't touch or kiss me. It's like, I'm not even there. I've told him before that we need to communicate, and that I need to be more specific in explaining my own feelings.
I always feel worried about everything I say or do to him. These are tell tale signs of a bad relationship, but I'm so in love with him. I can't imagine not talking to him.
I don't know.
I'm usually such a door mat. I'm confident and tough at work. In college, I get all my work done and help others out. I have a good head on my shoulders, but this relationship really has me confused.
Why does he ignore me... Why doesn't he care when I worry about him? I don't get any reassurance, even when I ask for it.