Regret the Party

I need to get this off my chest, and found this site by chance. Apologies if it doesn't belong. My bf and I went to a party with his friends last night. We're in college. I didn't even know the host of the party. It was a friend of a friend of a friend type of thing, and there must have been 70-80 people there. It was a little crazy when we walked in, with kegs, lots of hard liquor, people smoking weed (legal here), and a live rock band.

I don't normally drink, but I wanted to fit in, so I started doing tequila shots along with my bf and his friends. It was good for maybe an hour or two, before it all hit me like a ton of bricks. I could see the room spinning, and pretty soon I was puking in the bathroom. My bf lay me on a couch in a back room for a bit to rest. I wasn't feeling well, and just wanted the sickness to end.

I woke up briefly at lord knows what time because I needed to pee. The party was still in full flight. As I went through the kitchen to get to the nearest bathroom, I came across three guys, including my bf, all lined up and getting bj's from some girls. When he saw me, he pulled out of the girl's mouth and zipped up, saying, "How are you feeling? Are you better?" The room was still spinning, so no, I wasn't. It was all so surreal. Did I just see what I thought I saw? I was in no condition to debate the matter, as I was wasted.

Anyway, my bf took me home shortly thereafter and I crashed until 2:00 PM today. I'm so hungover that I still feel awful. I called my bf and said that I saw him getting a bj from some girl. He admitted that it was true, but said it was a "drinking contest" and that it was no big deal. I said, "What? Drinking contest? Of your sperm?" We argued a bit, but I just decided to let it go. I just hope he didn't f*** her too. I was so out of it that I missed pretty much everything.

I'm never going to drink again. My impulse is to kick my bf to the curb, but I really don't know the whole story of last night and probably never will. That's my fault.

Jul 10, 2017

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  • Ah yes Tequila, lol
    I was very young, on holiday, in Ft Lauderdale, on my last night , at an place called the Button ,.Never drank Tequila before, two young hotties from Long Island NY introduced me that STUFF lol

    Long story short, ended up on the beach, with one of the hotties, I was totally wasted, went back to the Button, with only my white jeans on, Doorman took one look at me, started laughing, my clogs were gone, my shirt was gone, he put me into an cab,

    Found my way home, stumbled into my parents place on the beach, and they were entertaing friends, my Grandma was there , my little sister,

    My mom took one look at me and said you sleep out back,

    I woke up the next morning, on an catamaran, still drunk, and sick as an dog

    Young lady I can relate to tequila

  • You should not get p***** it's your own fault. So grow up girl

  • Dump him

  • We're all vulnerable as a human being and have to use common sense, instincts and safety measures to minimise our vulnerabilities being taken advantage and exploited. As a young oerson you shouldn't have put yourself in a predicament, where you could've been sexually assaulted or much worse. Use common sense when drinking or contemplating drinking next time. Just pace yourself and stick to a sensible limit, even better, dont drink at all. A person doesn't require alcohol to have a good time, some people only think they do. We're human and make mistakes, but learn from those mistakes.

    Secondly, if your boyfriend loved you and was loyal to you, he wouldn't have let someone service his d***. He was honest and told you when you admitted you witnessed it. But if you didn't mention it, would he have told you? Cheating is cheating and you deserve better. He's young and so are you. Enjoy your youth and explore who you're as a person. There's plenty of decent and mature men in the world, that will treat you with respect and be loyal. If your boyfriend cared for you, he would've ensured you was taken home in your drunken state and he wouldn't have let a s**** suck his d***, when your back was turned and when he thought you wouldnt witnessed it.

  • Dump him, simple as that.

  • Worst case scenario it actually happened. Big whoop. It's just s** for gods sake.

  • Idiot

  • I doubt that the woman who gave your bf a bj was a stranger to him. You need to ask some questions about that. It could be that she was an ex-gf, or maybe someone who is looking to replace you as his new gf. You don't just drop to your knees like that because everyone's drinking.

  • Mmhmm.... Needing to reveal and "found this site by chance" as a preface for a confession doesn't do much for anyone's credibility as they are about open a story, alleging to be true. It's almost like beginning with " this is a true story" before starting it and then expecting people to believe you.

  • Being a girl, I certainly don't expect you to be rational regarding this however you should be way more concerned with being held accountable for your own behavior before making any type of judgements regarding anyone else. Purposely imbibing with tequila & passing out leaving yourself vulnerable to anyone's will in these times indicates you have a full plate to deal with already without playing judge & jury on anyone else, especially your boyfriend.
    Now suck it up, act appropriately & pull yourself together girl.

  • You had some good points, but you also seemed a little chauvinistic and ignorant.

  • Dude leave him

  • I agree

  • A bj is a drinking game? That's a new one. Aside from the fact that he admitted it to you, what more do you need? You don't need to know the whole story. Plus, really.. how much of a story is there? It wasn't like he was being held against his will or said no several times. There are other guys out there who will respect you enough to not cheat on you at a party while you are unconscious. But it's your choice whether you want to stay with him or not. It's not just always that easy to break up a relationship because you have feelings attached. But at some point, you have to wonder if it's worth it.

  • Considerate advice and articulately conveyed. Nice one :-)

  • It is not worth being with a guy who cheated on you.

  • I agree man

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