It's not the same ,...

I've been with my gf for 3 years, today is her birthday but I realized I don't love her anymore. We both changed. I feel I'm her co depends in here constantly looking after her yes I understand I'm the man and need to provide but times have changed I'm 21 recently got the opportunity of my life with a job and awesome company I've been trying to get into since I was 18. We've been through it anything you name it. Fights laughter crying poor rich. We moved in at an early age. I admit my adittude is huge and she's been strong putting up with me and my bullcrap. I'm not happy. I'm loosing myself. Her family dislikes me for no reason. I constantly feel as if I'm in competition with them rather than mysel. It's eating me alive. I have bad migraines figuring out my life than to be worried about her and her economical struggle when she doesn't bother to help me at all. Her adittude got worser mine overtime I can say I've done better and learned to control myself. She constantly nags, sometimes slaps me when she's upset screams in my face picks fights and does nothing but stay at home while I save my money up to take that out of town job. When I close my eyes I can incision myself without her following my dreams and goals. With her by my side I feel dredged to think it's normal. I don't want to live forever with someone who constantly makes you feel like crap, someone who doesn't better themselves or try to succeed someone who is used to things given easy because her dad tried to buy her out from my life. She says she loves me but I don't want to fool myself. It's almost xmas , New Years and her bday how do I end this ; as the days go by I'm feeling miserable. S** is great she gives great head and is a freak but I feel as if she uses me for her sexual desires and money

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  • "Are you all right?" Jane asked. She gently sat on the edge of bed beside Amanda. She looked worried.
    Amanda nodded silently.

    "You don't have to do this," Jane repeated once more. She was more than a little angry with her mother and father as well as Bob for even proposing it. She couldn't believe that he of all people would have even considered this.

    "If not me, then who?" Amanda inquired. She turned and sort of half smiled. "He really does need to be stopped," she said. She didn't sound that convincing. She smiled again and tried to joke. "What's the worst thing that could happen?" she asked.

    "You mean other than him escaping in the palace and killing everyone," Jane suggested, "or you having another breakdown then hiding beneath your pillow." She wasn't sure which would be worse.

    Amanda briefly grinned. She chuckled sadly. "Remember that do you," she said.

    Jane nodded. "How could I forget," she replied. She took hold of Amanda's hand and squeezed it tightly. "I'd only known you for the shortest time and even then I couldn't bear to lose you. You mean everything to me. I couldn't live without you. I wouldn't want to."

    They hugged for a long moment.

    In the end Amanda sat back. She became a bit more serious. "I'll make a pact with you," she said. "I promise that when all of this is over it'll just be you and me, no one else. But until then...," she said sadly.

    "This is the new us," Jane completed.

    Amanda nodded. "How hard can it be?" she said.

    #
    In the morning both Amanda and Jane woke to another knock on the door.

    They groaned, rolled over and stared.

    It was Saturday and Amanda had been hoping to sleep in far longer than this. She was exhausted. After a long moment she reluctantly threw back the covers then slowly sat up. She sighed and yawned. She felt like she hadn't slept at all. Her mind was still reeling from the events of the previous day.

    "No," Jane moaned as she pulled Amanda back down on top of her. "Just ignore it," she said.

  • You already know the answer: Let her go. You have your whole life ahead of you. She will be upset with you, for sure, but that's only normal. Would you rather one awkward, upsetting moment, or an unhappy rest of your life?

  • Gf are easy to drop, its the wives that are impossible unless your willing to live up under a bridge but yeah you can either concentrate on her bad parts n leave her or focus on her good parts n work things out .. its all on you!!

  • LEAVE HER. You are young. There will be others. Find the right one. This one is not it!

  • "

    #
    In the morning both Amanda and Jane woke to another knock on the door.

    They groaned, rolled over and stared.

    It was Saturday and Amanda had been hoping to sleep in far longer than this. She was exhausted. After a long moment she reluctantly threw back the covers then slowly sat up. She sighed and yawned. She felt like she hadn't slept at all. Her mind was still reeling from the events of the previous day.

    "No," Jane moaned as she pulled Amanda back down on top of her. "Just ignore it," she said.

    "Can we do that?" Amanda asked.

    Jane grinned. "Why can't we?" she inquired. "I'm the Crown Princess and you're the Princess Consort. Surely we're allowed to have some time alone together."

    Amanda smiled and rather comically cocked her head to one side. "What happened to this being the new us?" she asked a little more seriously, remembering the conversation from the previous evening.

    Jane smirked. "I didn't mean in here," she said while rightly sounding completely selfish.

    Amanda chuckled. She certainly wasn't going to argue.

    Jane pulled the blankets back over the top of them then they cuddled together. They hugged and kissed then slowly feel asleep in each others arms.

    When they woke for a second time there was a rhythmic tapping coming from the foot of the bed.

    Both Amanda and Jane looked up and stared.

    They cringed.

    The Queen was standing at the foot of the bed idly tapping her foot on the floor. She didn't really look angry, rather she appeared mildly amused. "I have never before been ignored in such a way," she said her arms crossed. "It was a unique experience."

    Amanda and Jane glanced at each other.

    "Err um," Amanda said uncertainly, "glad to help?"

    Pop sniggered then promptly laughed out loud. He was quietly sitting on a chair to one side of the room.

    The Queen raised an eyebrow and glared at him. "About Damian," she began to explain.

  • Most breakups happen during the winter holidays. New years resolutions make many inspect relationships that are rocky.

  • One word: leave

  • LEAVE....LEAP.....DON't Walk...Run.
    Listen...If You Feel this Way. Let Her Go.
    She has a Family that will Take Care if Her and would be glad too learn that you are gone.

    There is a Different Life for You out there. You will Never Know what it is..If You Dont Go. Just Send her sonething later on if you can to help her out.

    But Donot Hesitate To Find
    PEACE OF MIND.......

    STAY IF YOU WILL
    THERE WILL BE NO CHANGE...
    IF YOU WILLING TO STAY ...
    BE PREPARED TO ACCEPT THE OUT COME.
    A THE BEST TO YOU.

  • All The Best To You!!

  • Don’t give up too easily if she’s stuck with you and your flaws she’s a real one maybe if you’d try to understand her better and listen rather than arguing and becoming a problem to one another, you don’t want to regret you leaving her behind and bumping into her to finding out she has kids and is married but you still think about her every chance you get. 3 Years is a whole lot of a person you take with you,...

  • Try to initiate a change in your relationship. Initiate a channel of positive, non-judgemental and open communication between you both, so you both can discuss your feelings with each other, without fear of feeling judged. Your gf possibly has things she'd like to discuss with you, but maybe she's reticent and afraid to do so, because of how you'd react and possibly because of her own insecurities - whatever they may be. Once you've both done that, take it from there. Don't give up on your relationship, without trying to resolve matters. It's only if you've tried everything possible to make changes and nothing is changing upon those efforts made, that's when you should decide to leave. Good luck.

  • Everyone saying to leave but on the other side of the door mat you mentioned both you and her have adittude and yours was stronger therefore she put up with so much of your crap try to work it out maybe a new state and new setting for both of y’all will help yalls relationship get better if not then end things and be grown ups to decide to leave eachother behind

  • Count yourself lucky that she's a girlfriend, not a wife, and that you don't have kids.

    Get out of that scene asap.

  • Just leave then

  • Make sure to use a rubber

  • Yes you kids change as you grow up.

  • Get out before she gets pregnant

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