I am a 23 yr female working in a “mans world”. I started my job as an Administrative Assistant about a year and half ago, straight out of college. When I started, all the other women told me to watch out for my boss because he is always doing something that definitely violates our Sexual Harrassement policy. Well don’t you know, a couple weeks into my job, he started. It started with coming up behind me at my desk and putting his hand on my shoulder. But he would rub my shoulder Ashe did it. I never said anything. After about a week of this going on, when he did that, he would start rubbing further across the back of my neck and down my back some. Right in the middle of the office I might add...that turned to standing behind me massaging my shoulder as he talked to me. All the while talking like nothing is going on. He would call me into his office to go over something and he would be sitting there legs kind of apart with a massive hard_on. Rubbing himself as he talked.
I had told my boyfriend (of 4 years) about this and all he says is I am blowing it way out of proportion and making too much of a big deal about it.
My boss is going out of town for a conference in a couple weeks and he has asked me to come along to learn more. I am nervous that he is going to attempt to seduce me into s** while we are gone. I want to succeed in this company but I don’t know if I am willing to do “whatever it takes” to succeed.