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My husband is getting fat
My husband is getting fat. He used to be slim and in shape, and now, he looks like a butterball. When we were dating, he was 170 pounds. He stepped on the scale the other day and he has gained 50 pounds!
The problem is I feel guilty watching him fatten up and liking it. I feed him well, he likes to snack and his fat belly and mushy chest are a turn on for me. I prefer it much more than the flat stomach he had years ago. He has a slight double chin now that I also think is **.
I hope he still gains in the coming years. I had to buy him size 40 pants (used to be a size 32), and I was so happy to watch him try them on. He complained about the new size, so I walked over to him, patted his bulging tummy, grabbed his love handles and told him how attractive he is to me. It’s not a lie, though, because I really do enjoy his new size and I love his fat belly!
Hopefully he gains another 50 pounds! I wouldn’t mind a chubby hubby! What’s better than eating what you want and getting your wife excited to be with you in the bedroom?
50lbs is still quite a gain, but at least you husband only put on 50lbs, could you imagine another 40lbs on his tummy? How is your husband enjoying his new tummy?
Yes, 50 pounds was still a lot to gain. I think he gained like 49.5 and I gained 53 pounds during the pregnancy. I’ve lost 42 pounds since the birth, and he has lost none.
It would be hard to imagine what his tummy is now and thinking it would be twice the size with an extra 40 pounds!
I’m not sure he enjoys his new tummy as much as I do. Like I said, I think him gaining and keeping the weight was cute and supportive (although, I’m not convinced he gained all that weight on purpose for me), but I don’t think I would have liked a 90-pound weight gain. He’s got a cute dad bod now. He’s adjusting to it. We got him bigger clothes. It’s harder for him to move and sleep. Intimacy has definitely been different, but we still make it work.
What about you and your hubby? How has it been for you?
Well he’s certainly aware he has a big belly on him that’s for sure. I think he regrets gaining the pregnancy weight with me as he thought it would be easy to loose. Instead with the additional 40lbs gained he has gotten so fat. His big belly restricts his movement, energy levels and our intimacy. Like you we make our moments of intimacy work, positions are restricted now, and it is much slower and quicker now.
How much did he weigh when you first started dating and what does he weigh now? Maybe you can work with him on an achievable goal, like ten pounds in ten weeks. Start small. That could be helpful.
But how do you feel about his big belly? Like it, not like it? I think at first I didn’t like it, but I’ve come to terms with that he’s still my wonderful husband, just a fatter version of himself.
When we met 5 years ago he was about 160lbs and when we married 2 years ago he was about 180lbs. He has gone up to 190lbs by the time I fell pregnant and now he weighs about 285 lbs. his belly is simply too big for his frame and his skinny legs struggle to carry it. He has shown no interest in losing any weight given the current situation. I will just have to adapt to it. I quite like a belly on a man but hubby’s is just too big and uncomfortable looking.