Account Login
My husband is getting fat
My husband is getting fat. He used to be slim and in shape, and now, he looks like a butterball. When we were dating, he was 170 pounds. He stepped on the scale the other day and he has gained 50 pounds!
The problem is I feel guilty watching him fatten up and liking it. I feed him well, he likes to snack and his fat belly and mushy chest are a turn on for me. I prefer it much more than the flat stomach he had years ago. He has a slight double chin now that I also think is **.
I hope he still gains in the coming years. I had to buy him size 40 pants (used to be a size 32), and I was so happy to watch him try them on. He complained about the new size, so I walked over to him, patted his bulging tummy, grabbed his love handles and told him how attractive he is to me. It’s not a lie, though, because I really do enjoy his new size and I love his fat belly!
Hopefully he gains another 50 pounds! I wouldn’t mind a chubby hubby! What’s better than eating what you want and getting your wife excited to be with you in the bedroom?
My boyfriend did gain rapidly after moving in with me. I cook relatively healthy food and rarely make dessert. But he does have double and increasingly triple helpings. Now that he is working out again, I think his rate of gain will decrease. But unless he cuts back on his portions, he is headed for 350 at a minimum and probably 400+. He likes his food too much to lose weight. I refuse to nag him about his big and growing belly.
How old is your boyfriend? How does he feel about his big belly?
My boyfriend is 29, I'm 35. I think he's a bit embarrassed about his loss of fitness during quarantine. He is 6' 2" tall, and at 250 he with lots of muscle he cut a very imposing figure (although he is a sweety). Now at 290 with a big belly he looks very different. His friends are athletic and they tease him about getting fat. I'm not sure that will motivate him to get in shape again, we will see. But I'm still as attracted to him as ever (even more so now that there is "more to love").
Do you like how big/how much he weighs now or not?
How do you feel about his belly?
I love to rub his belly and play with his navel. I feel possessive of his belly, like a big plant I have grown.
When did you realize that you liked him fatter?