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My husband is getting fat
My husband is getting fat. He used to be slim and in shape, and now, he looks like a butterball. When we were dating, he was 170 pounds. He stepped on the scale the other day and he has gained 50 pounds!
The problem is I feel guilty watching him fatten up and liking it. I feed him well, he likes to snack and his fat belly and mushy chest are a turn on for me. I prefer it much more than the flat stomach he had years ago. He has a slight double chin now that I also think is **.
I hope he still gains in the coming years. I had to buy him size 40 pants (used to be a size 32), and I was so happy to watch him try them on. He complained about the new size, so I walked over to him, patted his bulging tummy, grabbed his love handles and told him how attractive he is to me. It’s not a lie, though, because I really do enjoy his new size and I love his fat belly!
Hopefully he gains another 50 pounds! I wouldn’t mind a chubby hubby! What’s better than eating what you want and getting your wife excited to be with you in the bedroom?
Good point! Did you fatten up your husband?
Yes. When we were first married, my husband was stick-thin (140 pounds), with a hair-trigger temper. I weighed 240 pounds on our wedding day, and the weight difference just didn't work - I felt very insecure. My mom told me that my dad was also temperamental early in their marriage, but after he put on 75 pounds, he calmed down a lot. This was very surprising to me, because the father I remember was a sweet heard - he never raised his voice to my mother or to us. But early on in their marriage, mom said they argued a lot.
So I gave it a try - increasing my husband's portions, making dessert and snacks. I like to cook, so that part wasn't hard. What was hard was improving my own eating habits and taking up exercise. After 3 years, I had gotten down to 170 pounds, and he had gotten up to 190 pounds. By then, our marriage had started to click - we stopped arguing, and the s e x got a lot better, just like my mom said it would.
Now, after 10 years of marriage and 3 children, I weigh 140 pounds, and hubby weighs 280 or so. I'm short (5' 3"), so I'm still chubby at that weight, not skinny. But my husband has a big belly now, and it's really nice to hug him around the middle and feel how big and soft he is.
Unlike some couples, we don't have problems with s e x. I never liked missionary anyway. He does me doggy-style, and I love feeling his big belly pouring over my back. I also love riding him.
While we do have a similar background and common values, our marriage is so much better now than it was at first that I can't explain it just by getting to know each other better. His personality is so different now that he's doubled his weight. My mom has remarked about how good a husband he is, and I told her that her advice on fattening him is a large part of it. She got a big smile on her face.
Did he ever catch on that you were making him fat on purpose? How did he feel about your weight loss?
I don’t force feed him, just cook breakfast and dinner. When he says he is full, I don’t push him. I have lost 100 pounds eating the same food, just smaller portions. Also, I work out every day. He has complemented me on my weight loss and improved muscle tone.
Congrats on the weight loss! (And I guess the weight gain. ;) ha ha!) if he asked you to gain some weight back now, would you do that for him?
Do you feel like 280 pounds is too big?
My husband is 6’ 3” so 280 isn’t huge. He hasn’t been able to lift weights since the pandemic, so he is less of a muscle-chub now, more of a belly boy. So far his back and joints are holding up. So 280 seems ok for him.
Does his belly get in the way?
Doing it **, his belly rests on my back, so it is not in the way. When I am on top, His belly hits my lady bits just right. So overall, his belly is a help, not a hindrance.