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My husband is getting fat
My husband is getting fat. He used to be slim and in shape, and now, he looks like a butterball. When we were dating, he was 170 pounds. He stepped on the scale the other day and he has gained 50 pounds!
The problem is I feel guilty watching him fatten up and liking it. I feed him well, he likes to snack and his fat belly and mushy chest are a turn on for me. I prefer it much more than the flat stomach he had years ago. He has a slight double chin now that I also think is **.
I hope he still gains in the coming years. I had to buy him size 40 pants (used to be a size 32), and I was so happy to watch him try them on. He complained about the new size, so I walked over to him, patted his bulging tummy, grabbed his love handles and told him how attractive he is to me. It’s not a lie, though, because I really do enjoy his new size and I love his fat belly!
Hopefully he gains another 50 pounds! I wouldn’t mind a chubby hubby! What’s better than eating what you want and getting your wife excited to be with you in the bedroom?
100 pounds sounds like a lot to me. Is that what you are suggesting? Based on desire or experience?
In my experience, the important thing is to get him bigger than you. If you're skinny, it may not take much of a gain on his part. If you're bigger, you'll need to fatten him more (or even lose some weight yourself). Once you've gotten him bigger than you, you can play it by ear. If the relationship is going well, you can stop. If other women are still hitting on him, or he still is prone to anger, you can put more weight on him.
So you aren’t necessarily wanting him bigger out of a sexual desire? Like, you aren’t into putting the pounds on him because you find that body type sexier.
I like cuddling his big belly and the s e x is better. But the main satisfaction I have gotten is a much better marriage. His hair-trigger temper is completely gone how, he is a total sweety. We haven’t argued in more than a year. “Fat and happy” is a real thing.
That sounds like a pretty good situation.