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My husband is getting fat
My husband is getting fat. He used to be slim and in shape, and now, he looks like a butterball. When we were dating, he was 170 pounds. He stepped on the scale the other day and he has gained 50 pounds!
The problem is I feel guilty watching him fatten up and liking it. I feed him well, he likes to snack and his fat belly and mushy chest are a turn on for me. I prefer it much more than the flat stomach he had years ago. He has a slight double chin now that I also think is **.
I hope he still gains in the coming years. I had to buy him size 40 pants (used to be a size 32), and I was so happy to watch him try them on. He complained about the new size, so I walked over to him, patted his bulging tummy, grabbed his love handles and told him how attractive he is to me. It’s not a lie, though, because I really do enjoy his new size and I love his fat belly!
Hopefully he gains another 50 pounds! I wouldn’t mind a chubby hubby! What’s better than eating what you want and getting your wife excited to be with you in the bedroom?
How have your friends and family reacted? What are you eating to gain?
Only a few people have noticed so far. I don’t see as many people because of the pandemic, so mainly just like my mom or sister. I wouldn’t say it’s a really noticeable gain so far unless I’m in a swimsuit. It’s only been 20 pounds. My face is a little chubbier, went up a cup size and a pants size. But unless you know me really well, it’s not super noticeable. I haven’t been a pig about it. Just not as much gym time. A few more indulgent calories when I feel like a snack or a special dessert. More TV. Eat late. Drink some more soda than before. Probably just living the life of an average American woman at this point and the pounds have just come on.
Funny how an “average american woman” life packs on the pounds ha
It does!!! We have two extremes in America, a diet culture and an obesity culture. I’ve always been on the diet side of the conversation, but now that I’ve put on some weight, I understand the obesity side much more. It’s fun to have great food and enjoy moments with delicious food! It’s not always bad to be heavier. There are some advantages to living life with a little extra weight.
At 5’5”, you are a very normal weight for a
woman. If you’ve gained 20 pounds, you are likely still not in the obese category of BMI ranges, and maybe the overweight section. At that height, you have to be 180 pounds to be on the cusp of obesity. Nice try attempting to identify with the population of heavier women, but you aren’t there yet, babe. Keep up the snacks and you might be there someday! But we will love it when you join us!! #nothingbutlove 😉 🍰