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My husband is getting fat
My husband is getting fat. He used to be slim and in shape, and now, he looks like a butterball. When we were dating, he was 170 pounds. He stepped on the scale the other day and he has gained 50 pounds!
The problem is I feel guilty watching him fatten up and liking it. I feed him well, he likes to snack and his fat belly and mushy chest are a turn on for me. I prefer it much more than the flat stomach he had years ago. He has a slight double chin now that I also think is **.
I hope he still gains in the coming years. I had to buy him size 40 pants (used to be a size 32), and I was so happy to watch him try them on. He complained about the new size, so I walked over to him, patted his bulging tummy, grabbed his love handles and told him how attractive he is to me. It’s not a lie, though, because I really do enjoy his new size and I love his fat belly!
Hopefully he gains another 50 pounds! I wouldn’t mind a chubby hubby! What’s better than eating what you want and getting your wife excited to be with you in the bedroom?
How big are you willing to get? I think you have to ask yourself what you are comfortable with and determine how you feel about it first. If it doesn’t mean as much to you, maybe you do it for him. If it bothers you, you will always be mad at
Him for encouraging you to pack on some pounds.
The extra 20 pounds hasn’t been that bad. You can’t really notice when I’m wearing clothes, especially in the winter. And the gain has been all over, so it’s not like it looks odd to be 20 pounds heavier. I’m not mad at him encouraging me to gain weight. It’s actually been a lot of fun to just eat whatever I want whenever I want. We’ve talked about seeing how I feel after another 20 pounds, so I might keep going. In 2022, there is much less of a stigma about being overweight and bigger girls are celebrated now a lot more than even ten years ago.