My husband is getting fat

Nothing wrong with a little chubby tummy to love on at the end of the day!

Or a big pot belly you put on him lol

A pot belly would be even better.

I wouldn’t feel guilty that you like your husband a little on the fat side of life. We all have preferences and thing s we are more attracted to. Some women like brown hair vs. blonde. Some women like accents and some don’t. Some women like a fatter guy, while some want a six pack. Don’t feel guilty. Unless you feel you’ve been fattening him up against his will.

Not against his will, but I’m definitely the biggest factor into him becoming big. That’s why I feel guilty.

Well, he put the food in his own mouth. He has some responsibility in being fat.

I’ve recently put on weight and I’m worried it will negatively affect my relationship with my boyfriend. It’s probably been 25 pounds and a few dress sizes. He says he doesn’t mind. Is he telling the truth?

Has he dated before? What did his past girlfriends look like, skinny, bigger, etc.?

He has dated a few girls seriously before me and had some crushes. I would say the majority of the girls he was interested in romantically were a little plump.

How long have you dated? What caused your weight gain?

We’ve been dating for two years. I’ve just been sloppy with my habits, not exercising, not eating well lately. I haven’t been motivated to get back on track.

Has he given you any reason to think he’s into your weight gain or not into your weight gain? That might help you figure it out?

No, he only has always told me he thinks I’m beautiful. He has always been really sweet to me. Whenever I complain about my body, he just says he finds me beautiful and he doesn’t care if I lose weight or gain weight. He does touch me more now than he did when I was skinnier. Like touches my sides and tummy and puts his arm around me.

If he says he’s OK with it, he’s OK with it. Don’t overthink it. Men are simple creatures.

Yeah unlike women who are so dumb to say ** they don't mean.

I’m a 28 year old plus size woman. 3 years ago I moved my skinny boyfriend in with me and within the first year his belly and waist were spilling over his boxer shorts lol

How much weight has your boyfriend gained?

He has gone from 140lbs to 250lbs, so a gain of 110 lbs in 3 years. His waist has increased from 30 to 44. More to love 💗

You might want to slow that gain down. That’s a lot of weight. Does he like being that fat?

Yea I know but slowing it down is easier said than done. He’s an eating machine and the way he’s going he will be 300lbs before he is 30. I’m not sure that like being fat is the right term, but he has accepted what his overeating has resulted in. I’m partly responsible for that as I planted the seed and I’m not a great example as I’m overweight myself.

Did you fatten him up on purpose?

Yes and no. First year I did, when I put 50lbs on him. Loved seeing the new weight settle on his belly and waist. The next couple of years he has put on 60lbs himself.

Uh, oh. You made him fairly fat at this point.

Some of your phrases sound like you're the dominant one in the relationship :) If so, he probably accepts that you might make a few changes to his figure to suit your preferences!

I’m the 41 year old woman who posted yesterday re responsible for my younger husband’s more than 40lbs weight gain in just over 1 year of marriage. After reading all these posts I am seriously considering putting another 40lbs around his middle. If I can do it the once I can do it again.

But how fat do you want him?

That’s a very good question. Another 40lbs would bring him up to 240. So I’m thinking in the future no more than 280lbs? What do you think?

My husband has been 280 before. It’s a little rough. Tired often. Sweaty. Difficult to move.

Has he lost weight?

Why do you want to fatten him up?

Like I posted yesterday and the day before it’s to do with my insecurity issues. I am 12 years older than him and I have enjoyed the 40 pounds I have put on him. I feel it would be my stamp on him to fatten him up to say 240lbs or 250, and put a big tummy on him, I am now determined to do that. To let’s say curb any temptations. 280 may be a goal in the future.

That’s pretty big. Just be warned that it will limit his mobility and stamina, if you know what I mean.

It's probably not just for insecurity. There's maybe a sense of pride knowing that he's so in love with you that he's done with maintaining a boyish figure. And a sense of accomplishment knowing that he's got that cuddly body thanks to your skills.

Hello from England! My friend Simon married an American girl who was at University completing a Study Abroad program in London. He’s gained 15 kilos since the wedding day because she fancies him with a little extra chubby on his tummy. He is still a handsome man, though.

That’s a nice little starter tummy!

Yes, it is! I’ve known Simon for ages and he wears tighter, European dress clothes, so you could immediately tell he was a bit fatter. When I gave him a hug last time I saw him, I jiggled it a little on him. It’s definitely a tummy!

It’s good that he is still an attractive man, even though he’s a little fat.

Oh, yes. He was always very good looking. He’s like my big brother. Now he’s my big, big brother...

My best friend went to Italy for four months on a Study Abroad program. She was a slim figure, and then she gained 25 pounds in four months eating Italian food. I thought she was pregnant when I first saw her when she came home! We had to go buy her new clothes!! 🍝

👀 Are you sure she wasn’t? 🤰🏻

We went to Italy on our honeymoon. We had to work hard in the gym for three straights months just to work off the extra weight from that amazing trip and country!

My sister went to Italy and Greece for three weeks for her honeymoon. She wore yoga pants for two months afterward because she couldn’t fit her 15-pound weight gain into her jeans anymore.

Love a man with a jelly belly! 😍

My boyfriend used to tease me about my weight. Well, since we got married a put a jelly belly on him before you could say Jack Robinson lol. 5 years later he now has a double jelly belly. I have also gained but the teasing has stopped.

How big is his belly now? How much weight?

His lower belly is bigger than his upper one and it gathers under the waistband of his pants. Last time he was measured it was 60 inches around his lower belly. He currently weighs over 330lbs which is very overweight.

Wow! 330 lbs. is fat! How much did he weigh before he started gaining?

Hi, from the Uk. Have been fattening hubby up. He has gained 60 pounds in the last 18 months mainly a spare tire round his waist. He is now wearing support tights to fit into his work suits lol.

Wow! That’s a lot of fat very quickly!

Yes, and I have enjoyed putting it on him. He is now getting fat and content 😀

What are support tights? How did you put that weight on him?

Support tights are pantyhose that support your **, thighs and middle. He has gained the weight since he moved in with me. I Love to cook and bake so I started looking after him by making us big rich dinners and deserts and we enjoy a lot of take out food. I soon had him eating like a horse lol.

How does he feel about that?

Did he know you were fattening him up?

Yes. A few weeks before we got married I told him I preferred larger men and that I was going to fatten him up after we got married. He honestly thought I was joking, but he knows about it now lol.

Oh, Wow! At least you were honest with him. How does he feel about being fatter?

Where have all these chubby chasing women been in my life

Is it chubby chasing women or chubby making women?

Either way, I need one

I think I married one (as I sit here on the couch with my fat gut)...

Settle down with a lady and you will find your chubby chaser.

I am an Filipino who is responsible for her American husband weight gain. When we met 5 years ago he was slightly underweight, when we married 2 years ago he was chubby. He has now gained 65 pounds since we marry due to my cooking. I love rubbing his big belly though he is not as keen lol

Great job on taking care of him! LOL on the belly rubs!!

Thank you. He continue to gain. I like him fat haha

Lucky dude

Wow! Big belly!

He keep talking bout trying to lose the weight but he enjoys my cooking more over over losing belly. I get angry if he refuses to eat what I prepare for him and he usually ends up having 2 maybe 3 serving plus traditional desert. He loves all my traditional dishes specially the ones cooked in full fat coconut milk. To me in my culture I believe a fat man is a happy man and I make sure his belly is always full.

As a good wife, you substitute appetite for his pride. You praise his weight gains and intimidate him into bigger portions. Dessert is massive and mandatory. His belly clamors to be full constantly ( food baby) and demands bigger and more frequent feedings. His weight gain spirals out of control as he identifies with the massive pig he has become and you demand him to be forever

I've noticed a lot of Filipinas love to cook. If I ever marry a Filipina in the future, I hope she won't mind me turning into a butterball.

You won’t be disappointed. She will have you fat as pig in no time lol

In the late 2000s, my handsome husband was five years into a successful law career. I met the firm’s newest secretary one year at the Christmas party. She was young, intelligent and gorgeous. Ashley was very pleasant and nice, but seemed to pay extra attention to my John more than the other lawyers. John seemed professional about their interactions, but a couple of wives asked if I was worried. I was a little, so I took matters into my own hands. I was a wonderful wife. I did all the housework, 90% of the work with the kids, never complained about his long hours, was intimate whenever he wanted (and initiated intimacy very often), and cooked him big, tasty meals.
By the time the next Christmas party happened, John had gained 45 pounds and sported around a new, round belly. When the other wives saw John, they giggled and asked how I managed to do that to him. Ashley was definitely less flirtatious with John that year. I think his new belly got in the way.
Then the next Christmas party, I saw their husbands had also each put on between 20-40 pounds and also looked different - older, fatter, etc.
The wives still talk about it every Christmas as we admire our weight gain work. Ashley eventually married, started a family and gained about 50 pounds herself through not losing the baby weight. She is still very pretty, just very plus-size and plump now.

At 41 I was 12 years older than my hubby when we married last summer. To deal with any niggling insecurities I may have had, I began to steadily overfeed him. He has gained over 40lbs in just over a year mostly on his tummy lol.

Great job on fattening him up! How does he feel about it?

He is not as keen taking off his top on our trip to the beach recently. His flat tummy from last year has gone saggy and soft lol

Did all the wives intentionally fatten up their husbands? Was this Ashley secretary really that much of a threat?

Ummmm. She was like model gorgeous. Extremely pretty and attractive. She still is, just a little fat now.
I can’t speak for the other wives, but I wasn’t willing to wait and see. I fully trusted my husband, but I didn’t necessarily trust Ashley. So I would rather live with a big husband belly than no husband at all, which is why I started over feeding him and indulging his sweet tooth. I don’t mind the extra fat on him because it was cute, and especially since I’m the one that put it there.
As he was gaining, he was very self conscious about it, but the increase of our ** life put him a little at ease as he saw he was getting some. At one point, he asked me if we were having more ** because I was attracted to his weight gain. And the answer to that was kind of a big, fat YES!
In the end, Ashley has been nothing but a model employee, very professional and everyone is still happily married, so I might have been overzealous with my jealousy, but his belly is staying just in case.

I would have done the same thing if I had a six-figures-earning husband working around a beautiful, single woman.

Better hope none of those men are into big girls. I would definitely be interested in a young, intelligent, gorgeous and plump woman (if I were not married, of course, but can’t say the same for other men). Some men prefer their women on the heavy side of life.

My husband and I have settled in what the other spouse’s preference is for weight. I’ve asked him to stay overweight by about 50 pounds, which means he looks chubby with a healthy belly, but not incredibly obese. I’m most attracted to that version of him. He likes me in the size 14-16 range, some belly, bigger **, chunky thighs, etc., so I stay in that weight range because he likes the extra chubbiness. It works for both of us, and we are both very happy in our relationship.

Me, too!! My husband and I were watching TV one night and both actors were a little fat. He said she still was a very pretty actress and I also mentioned the man was still very handsome. I then told my husband he would look good with some extra weight, and then he said I would, too. So we decided we would both gain a little weight and the other spouse would tell you when to slow down and stop. You had to stay that fat for one year once the goal weight was reached.
Over the course of a year, he had me gain about 25 pounds, which was very noticeable. My face rounded out, my cup size went up, I had to buy pants three sizes bigger and I had a squishy tummy develop. He put on 38 pounds, and he now has a slight double chin, a softer chest, love handles and a dad belly that sits on his belt. We have both plateaued, so the deal was that’s when the year timeline started.
I might slim back down next year, but I hope he doesn’t. We both have very much enjoyed this little, ** experiment, and have both commented on how ** we find each other now. It’s been a fun experience to do together.

A fat pact! Love it!!

Odd, but fun experiment, I guess. 🍩

This girl stole my boyfriend in high school (no big deal, he wasn’t that great anyway). But I never liked her after that because you just don’t do that. Anyway, ten years later, I’m married to a wonderful man and she’s single and has probably gained 50 pounds. #kharma

Has anyone ever been disgusted by your SO’s weight gain? How much was too much?

My husband gained about 75 pounds from when we met. One day, I told him he was too fat. I was OK with him being chubby, but not that fat. He started eating better and exercising and lost about half of the extra weight. And I told him I was proud and happy with him and he could stop trying to lose weight if he wanted. He lost about another 10 pounds, and then stopped. Not sure what would have happened if I never said anything.

My girlfriend gained about forty lbs. over the last three years. She still is pretty, but she’s overweight now. We are planning on marrying, but she told me she wants to lose the weight to fit in a smaller wedding dress. I agree, although I didn’t tell her that.

This makes sense to me. My girlfriend has been gaining a little weight and she looks amazing. Her ** is a little bigger, her ** filled out a little more and she has a slight belly now with some love handles. Didn’t think I would like an extra 20 lbs. on her, but she is rocking the extra weight! Still looks great in yoga pants.