My husband is getting fat

I saw this post and asked my husband if he would gain weight for me, and he said, “No, never, forget about it,” and kept working out. 🏋️‍♀️

Going from a size 32 pants to a size 40 pants is quite the weight gain. 👖 🍪 🧁 Is he still gaining weight?

Yes he is. In 2 years he has gone from 170lbs to 285. His pant size has gone up from 30 to 44. I was already overweight when we got married.

I was already overweight and over 300lbs when I married my slim husband 2 years ago. He always told me he preferred larger women and that always made me feel secure. I have always remembered his mom giving me a knowing look at the wedding. Well since then we have both gained over 100lbs. I love his new love handles and what I like most is he has developed a large roll that encircles his belly that looks when he is sitting like a rubber ring you would wear swimming. I love playing with that lol 😀

Wow! 100 pounds is a lot. How?

I was already overweight and over eating when we got married. He has now adapted to my eating habits hence the weight gain for both of us over the last 2 years. He is now 285lbs and I am 430lbs.

430 lbs. is unhealthy for anyone.

Cheeky lol 😀 I suppose I’m lucky in that I’m pear shaped. Most of my weight is on my **, thighs and legs. My ** is what my husband likes the most lol.

Cheeky lol☺️. Yes I know. I suppose I’m lucky in that I’m pear shaped and most of my weight is on my **, thighs and legs. It’s my ** my hubby feel in love with lol

I'm over 430lbs and don't have any health complaints but I eat healthy food. Just lots of it and my hubby loves me fat.

Fun to see all these women getting what they want - a nice, fat tummy on their man! Good job, ladies!! 👏

I’ve been toying with putting on 15 pounds just to try it and see how the gf might like it.

Go for it! 15 lbs should be easy to lose again if you change your mind

Go 20-25. That’s really when you can tell the difference. At 200 lbs. I still looked in shape. At 225 lbs., I had a clear belly that stuck out with a little round sag right above my belt.

15 probably won’t be enough fat gain to really notice much of a difference. You will notice, but it won’t be that significant. You probably need to double that to really look and feel different.

Before gaining weight, I was about 190 lbs. Stomach was slim. I gained about 15 lbs. in a year and my stomach obviously looked a little bigger, but no one really could tell, especially with my shirt on. I gained another 15-20 lbs. over the next two years, and by then I was 220-225 lbs. and there was a clear belly bulge forming. So, 15 lbs. might not be enough for you.

You probably need to double that to look and feel different, like have a noticeable belly.

I just think looking and feeling beefier might be hot to her, but I’m not sure how far I should go

Being fatter is normal now. I don’t see what you have to lose. Beef up.

My bf got beefy on me and I love him fatter! 😛

I totally get this girl! I was always into a super lean and strong look. Lately, my husband has put on some quarantine weight because his gym was closed. I found myself being really into his budding dad bod (even though we don’t have kids yet). We had to go buy him pants a size bigger, and I was surprised at how much I was attracted to him when he was struggling to fit into his old pants. It was kinda hot! 😍

Quarantine weight gain has been fun to watch! 👀

My bf is getting a quarantine belly. I’m surprised how much I like it!! He’s always been so cut.

Have you told him to keep it yet?

Yea, my boyfriend has put 26 lbs on his belly in 4 months sitting around eating junk food. He won’t be shifting that anytime soon and he’s only 20. Strange to see him with his shirt off in his boxers.

These comments... feel kinda sorry for all these men getting fattened up like geese. I'm sure they'd prefer to be in shape. Just remember men put on weight around their belly which is more risky, so take it easy on the poor guys

Lol. I didn’t force my hubby to put the food in his mouth as he sits in the next room with his belly on his lap. I’ve spotted a lot of men, a lot of them young, sporting new quarantine belly’s recently. ☺️

Sometimes it’s deliberate fattening. More often, it’s just letting him do his own thing and he fattens up on his own.

My husband knows what he's eating the effect it has on his waistline. He doesn't want to get bigger than 250ish, so as long as he's healthy and below that, he's happy being on the tubby side.

How much has he gained since you’ve been together? And how quickly?

He was lean for years until an injury (I posted about it earlier in this thread). The injury was about 3 yrs ago and since then he's put on about 60 lbs. Now he hovers around 240.

Oh, wow! 60 lbs. is a lot. Do you like how big he is now? I’m not sure I could let my man gain 60!

You gotta remember that weight gain is usually the result of great food and eating what you want! I feel bad for medication weight gain, but not good weight gain.

I’ve thought about asking my bf of three years to gain some weight for me. I want to see what he looks like just a little fat. Any advice for me?

Is he too skinny? What sort of food does he like?

He’s got a good body. But I’m a little curious of if I would enjoy him more if he was just a little fat. He has a flat stomach. But I kind of like the idea of cuddling up on him if he’s a little more squishy. He likes all food.

I would get him to eat a lot of carbs like pasta with creamy sauce, lasagna, French fries with mayo and plenty of pizza. Indian food is good for packing on the pounds as well.Also dairy, plenty of cheese, real butter and full fat milk. Slowly and gradually over feed him so that his stomach capacity will increase. Do that for a few months and he will have quite a paunch and double chin on him lol😀

Two options. 1, be honest and tell him you want him bigger. 2, try to sneak the pounds on him. Personally, I think 1 is better since it’s his body and your desire. (That’s like you trying to get pregnant and not telling him and trying to sneak a baby in you.)

It’s like when you see those popular and skinny girls from high school who ten years later are plus-size mommies with a lot of extra baby weight. 🤪

I thought I was weird because I have a slight fetish for seeing my husband gain weight. Didn’t realize there are a ton of women just like me!

I can relate to this. My husband and I loved just getting fat when we got pregnant. He would indulge my every food craving and often eat along with me. He gained 25-30 pounds and I gained 70 pounds and we loved every minute of it. After being so skinny for so long, it was amazing to just eat whatever I wanted and not care about the weight gain. And I didn’t mind his weight gain either.
My husband actively encouraged me to just enjoy the experience and loved on me as I went from skinny to skinny preggo to chubby preggo to fat preggo. Once the baby came, I lost some baby weight, but he asked to, “stay just a little fat for him,” and so I slowed down trying to lose the baby weight.

That does sound nice to just eat whatever you want and however you want and have a supportive spouse.

My husband and I did the same thing. We didn’t gain as much weight as you, but we just didn’t worry about what we ate and bought bigger clothes. We had a good laugh walking around in sweat pants more right after the baby because we didn’t have a lot of pants that fit anymore.

I’m not sure me and my boyfriend intentionally gained weight when we got pregnant, but we gained a combined 100 pounds. It was a little much! 😳😳

My wife was very small (struggled with eating disorders as a teenager) when we were married.
When we got pregnant, her OBGYN encouraged her to gain a lot of weight and to use pregnancy as an opportunity to get to a more normal weight for her frame (she was 5’6 and about 105 pounds, the underweight category on a BMI scale) to help with her overall physical and mental health.
The OBGYN also asked me to support her during her weight gain and gave me strategies to help her mentally cope with an increasing weight on the scale. She also asked me to support my wife by maybe gaining along with her a little bit.
She set a goal weight of 190 pounds for my wife so by the time she delivered the baby and naturally lost some of the baby weight, my wife would be in the normal category on a BMI scale.
Nine months later, I had gained 50 pounds. My wife went from about 110 pounds to about 178 pounds, which was a lot for her. She told me that gaining weight together made it a lot easier on her.
Within six months of the delivery, my wife settled in the 150-pound range, which is considered a normal weight on a BMI chart. And she was left with a fat husband.
But she’s happy with her weight, my weight, our baby and life in general, so we are in a good place. And the OBGYN told me that me willing to gain the weight was very helpful in me helping my wife feel OK about her weight gain.

I come from an Italian-American background, and all the men in the family are overweight. My grandpa, my dad, my brothers all have big bellies, double chins and chubby hands.
When my husband and I started dating, he came to a Christmas family meal. And he looked so skinny compared to my family. So on the way home I told him that if we get more serious, he’s going to need to put on some weight to fit in.
The next Christmas, things were much more serious and he came again. My mom pulled me aside and told me he was too skinny for our family, and I needed to fatten him up.
We got engaged that New Year’s Eve. A few weeks later I told him what my mom said about fattening him up. He said that was OK if he would get along with my family better.
Over the next year, I overfed him and watched his belly grow. By the time we went back for Christmas, everyone noticed his fatter face and growing belly. He had probably gained 35 pounds. When we came through the door, my mom threw her arms around him, told him he looked healthy while jiggling his new belly and kissing his chubbier face. He was a little embarrassed at first, but he told me it felt good to feel so accepted in our family. And he did look much more like a fattened Lozano man this time than ever before. It made me happy.

It does make us women happy to see a fattened and content man.

That’s super sweet that he was willing to get fat to be part of your family!!

My boyfriend has piled the weight on since moving in with me 2 years ago after discovering I was pregnant. I have always struggled with my weight and weighed 19 stone when he moved in, but he never had any issues with his weight. The thing is I have surprised myself in embracing has weight gain and am actually enjoying it lol.

It probably feels good to feel that you two look more similar in size now that he’s put on weight.

Yes, his weight gain has increased my confidence.

Why has it increased your confidence?

I was always the fat one in the relationship and that frustrated me a lot. Now that I see him develop a weight problem and become increasingly overweight I feel good about it.

How much did he gain?

He has gained over 5 stone going from 10 stone to 15 stone 7 pounds. A lot of that gain was when he initially moved in with me and during my pregnancy. He has tried to loose weight but has struggled so far. My weight has settled at 21 stone after my first pregnancy, but I have just found out we are pregnant with our 2nd child, so more weight gain lies ahead.

21 stone is fairly big already (almost 300 lbs.), so don’t go overboard.

I gained 56 lbs last time and reduced my weight to 294. Darling boyfriend has gone up from 140lbs to 220 in 2 years and hasn’t managed to loose any.

Wow so many comments in here from women who's husbands blew up! I knew it was common but it's interesting to see the different views between those who love it vs those who hate it.

I personally love it. I was always into lean/athletic builds, which was my husband's shape originally. Then he put on a lot of weight at once due to an injury, and I couldn't believe how hot I found it. From then on he continued to relax his workout and diet, and I got into the weight gain.. Now he hovers at about 240 (he was 180 when we met in college).

Totally get that! I love my husband’s new big and chubby belly. I find it cute and **, and I love to grab it, touch it, poke it, rub it, etc. He used to be so lean, but his belly is comforting to me now. Like he’s not trying to get other women’s attention.

How did he take it when you told him you liked him fatter?

When did you realize you were liking his weight gain?

How did you tell him? My husband is putting on weight, but he’s really sensitive about it because he lost a lot of weight before we started dating. I’m not sure how to tell him it’s OK to be a little fatter.

How big do you prefer your husband to be?

Were you surprised that you liked him fatter at first?

Thank you for sharing! I thought I was the only one who liked her man fattened!! 🙂

I think this post is very sweet! I hope my husband will still love me as my body gets older and changes. Thanks for sharing!!! ☺️

Happy Father’s Day to my fat husband. He didn’t lose any baby weight between each pregnancy, so now he’s 70 pounds overweight after four kids. And I was the one who was pregnant. Not a huge fan of his big belly, but he is a great dad.

My husband gained weight with my pregnancies as well lol but not as much as your husband. He has now lost some of the weight on his tummy by doing sit ups as he had never had a tummy before. If I were you I would gently encourage him to do something similar as a five stone weight gain is quite a lot ☺️

Did you like when your husband put on weight?

Not so much. He has a small frame and if he gains weight it settles on his tummy. He still has a bit of a tummy but I’m trying to control it at present.