My husband is getting fat

My boyfriend is getting fat on me!! He’s not working out as much because of Coronavirus, and so he’s spending a lot more time watching Netflix and snacking on the couch. He’s probably gained 20 lbs. over the last three months and his belly is definitely bigger, rounder and sticking out now. It’s kinda cute on him! 🥰

That’s what my girlfriend is doing, but if I’m honest, I like how she looks a little fatter. The extra 15ish lbs. look good on her. Not sure how she would take that, though.

She might like to know that you enjoy her weight gain and that you don’t mind that she put on weight. It might take pressure off her to feel she has to be a certain size for you.

That’s a good gain for 3 months lol

Yea, he’s definitely fattening up on me quickly. 😍

As long as you are happy with it!

I’m loving his new shape!! 💕

I wish my bf would put on 20 lbs. of belly for me. It sounds cute and cuddly.

Just feed him bigger portions and takeaways it will soon pile on lol

My husband has gotten fairly large, especially in his stomach. We often joke and say he has a belly only a wife could love. And that’s probably true.

Ha ha! That’s funny.

Has he gained much? My husband has ballooned since lockdown.

I’ve really loved watching my husband fatten up on me. It makes me feel secure in our relationship, that he is happy enough to relax and enjoy being with me. His new belly is comforting.

Love this post! 💗

I really like your perspective. Thank you for sharing that. ❤️

I feel like this, too! I love my fattened husband!

I wouldn’t say I intentionally made my husband fat, but I didn’t stop it. He likes my cooking and I like him to be happy. The natural result was some weight gain on his tummy. I don’t know if I prefer him fat, but I don’t mind how he looks and feels. More to cuddle on now!

Me, too. I didn’t actively encourage a weight gain, but it has just come with living a busy life. I would say he has put on so much weight that my husband now looks like he’s about six months pregnant.

Oh, my, I thought I was the only wife with a pregnant man!! Good to know I’m not the only one. His food baby looks to be about five months big right now...

Yep! A husband will chubby up on you most of the time. My husband has had a pregnant belly for the last ten years.

Yes, this happens. My once-skinny husband now has size B moobs and a belly that sticks out like he’s six months preggo.

That sounds like a big gain lol

I did intentionally make my husband fat. I’ve always been more attracted to a huskier body type, and he was stick skinny when we started dating. Ten years later, he’s a husky boy and turns me on! 😍

How much did he gain

About 50-60 lbs. of love! 💗

I love my husband’s belly. Every few months, I measure it with a tape measure by bringing it around his back and measuring at his belly button. I started doing this when he complained about starting to gain weight because I wanted to show him his body wasn’t changing that much. But he has gained ten inches on his belly since I started measuring it a few years ago! His belly is so cute now!! 💕

We are pregnant and my husband has been gaining weight like me. I’ve been measuring his belly each week and he’s gained six inches to my eight inches! That’s a lot of new belly!

How do you feel about his new fat?

It’s been cute so far to see him fatten up as I get bigger, but I’m not sure I want him to keep going.

Men find it hard to lose belly weight from experience!

10 inches is some gain lol

10 inches on a belly is some gain!

10 inches on a belly is a lot of extra belly!

I let my husband eat whatever he wanted up until his belly started hanging over his belt. And that’s where I drew the line and put him on a diet to not get any bigger. I didn’t ask him to lose weight, but I told him I didn’t really prefer him to gain anymore.

Believe you me he will struggle to stick to his diet and gain more lol

My girlfriend is getting fat on me. She complains about it, but I think she looks better now. How do I convince her to quit worrying about her weight gain?

How much “fat” has she gained? (And maybe not saying she got fat on you can be a place to start...)

She’s gained 30 pounds in one year. From about 110 pounds to about 140 pounds. Even gain all around her body with a modest belly now.

I’m not sure a woman will ever quit worrying about her weight gain. You can start by not saying she’s “getting fat” on you for starters. You can also compliment her a lot, help her shop for clothes, touch her a lot and show that you like her new size.

I love my boyfriend’s fat belly!! 😍

If you're a girl who's attracted to fat, you've got it made. Skinny doesn't last, muscles go flabby, but fat hangs around for the long haul!

I didn’t think I was that kind of girl until I was in a relationship with a guy with a belly. But I like it now! I don’t care for him to ever lose it!!

My bf got fat on me with a big belly. I love jiggling his belly fat now as punishment for letting himself go.

That sounds kind of **. Are you sure it’s a punishment?

I would never intentionally help my husband get fat. Never.

I would intentionally do whatever my husband needed me to do for him, including getting him fat if he wants.

I think a lot of men subconsciously want to get fat in a marriage. A lot of are a bit restless and wild. We're torn between two worlds. There's this dating world we just left where an athletic body makes it easy to score a quick fling. But we also want to be faithful, good dads, and frankly enjoy some home cooking. There's a reason "dad bod" implies squishy. It's a physical manifestation of a change in priorities and goals.

I suppose staying athletic would be healthier in theory, but if in reality, it means staying in shape to chase other chicks, that's maybe not so healthy, all things considered. Sure we should have enough willpower, but we're still human. Sometimes, we do need a little roundness, and maybe even want it, to be the man we want to be. And some of us need a little more than others to make the switch.

This person is probably right. It’s comforting to know you have a woman that wants you, wants to fatten you up and then wants to keep you still.

One day a few years ago my wife and I were talking about gaining weight during pregnancy and your body changing, getting bigger, etc. I made a comment that I wondered what it was like to get fat like that, and she said I could find out if I wanted to because she could help me gain weight. My wife said that she had always wondered how I looked at a heavier weight anyway and she wanted to see. I said that I wouldn’t mind gaining a little weight, so we decided to put some pounds on my frame. She said she wanted to go slowly so I didn’t get stretch marks, so she said she would shoot for 1-2 pounds a month and rub my stomach with belly butter to keep stretch marks off.
The first year, I gained about 20 pounds. We both decided we wanted a little more.
The second year, I gained another 15-20 pounds. I was ready to stop, but she wanted a little more belly on me.
The third year, I gained another 15 pounds and told her I was ready to be done.
By the end, I had gained 55 pounds and we both like it more. She likes how I look and feel as a fatter version of me. She is more affectionate with me now. I like my belly and having less pressure to stay in good shape. She’s a wonderful wife and takes great care of me and my appetite. It was worth it.

I can’t believe you got FAT because your wife was curious about how you would look!!! You’re crazy! 🤪

I love her so much. I would do anything to make her happy. And gaining 55 pounds isn’t that bad.

Well done, man. Do what works for your marriage. That’s the most important thing to consider.

What does she actually like about you being fat now?

She says she likes how my big stomach looks and feels. She puts her hands all over it now, which she didn’t do when I was skinny. She likes to cuddle on it and rub it. She says I look more like her own teddy bear now.

Why do you like being 55 lbs. heavier?

It’s less stress to try and maintain a heavier body. You don’t care about calories as much. People don’t really expect you to be fashionable when you have a big stomach. As a larger man, I look stronger now. My wife loves to hug me more and cuddle on me more.

What made you agree to that?! 🧐

My girlfriend has been gaining weight and she looks amazing! She was probably 110 pounds when we started dating and she’s now probably 140-150 pounds. She looks so good in yoga pants now that she has filled out more and the weight she has gained looks really good on her.

30-40 pounds is a lot to gain during a relationship. How long have you been dating?

We’ve been dating for two years. Right before we started dating she had a bad breakup and worked out constantly to get over it. She lost about 20 pounds then and that was right before I met her. She said that was the skinniest she had been in 15 years. So she slowly gained back those 20 pounds while we were first dating. I told her I thought she looked better at the heavier weight, and she said she did miss her curvy body when she got down to 110. So I said maybe she should put on another 20 and see how she feels. And that’s exactly what she did, and I think she looks the best she has ever looked.

How does she feel about being fatter?

She’s not really fatter, so she doesn’t mind at all. I love the way she looks, and that’s all she really cares about. How can you be mad about being bigger than 110 pounds if your boyfriend loves how you look?

I don’t mind a little belly on my man. It can be cute and fun to cuddle with!! 🥰

My wife has been fattening me up for years. When we first met, I was a lean runner. Now, I’m a chubby couch potato, mostly thanks to her good cooking and desire to watch TV together. I’ve gained probably 50 lbs. since being with her.

Good luck on the couch, McFatty!

Uber Eats here, sir. Mr. Chubby Couch Potato McFatty, your food is here! Ha ha! 🍔 🍟 🥤

LMAO! Wow! 😂

That’s not very nice. 😢

How much did you gain?

50 lbs. since being with her.

I came home from a work trip recently and my wife patted my stomach and said, “The work trip looks good on you.” I looked at her with a confused look on my face and she said, “I like you a little fatter. It’s OK.” I didn’t really know what she was talking about until I stepped on the scale and noticed I had gained 20 pounds over the last year. That night I asked her about how I should lose weight and she told me she liked my new tummy and didn’t want me to lose the weight. She said she would me rather gain 20 more pounds than lose the 20 pounds I had recently gained. I said that she must be kidding, and then she sauntered over to me, said she wasn’t kidding and shoved a cookie in my mouth. Game over.

How much do you weigh?

I was about 210 lbs. Not super lean, but a BMI on the higher part of overweight. But I carry my weight well so 210 didn’t look fat. But 230 kind of does look fat. If I gained 20 more then I would be 250, and would probably look considerably different.

Are you going to let her keep shoving cookies in your moth until you are 250 lbs.? 🍪

What did you think when she did that?

Ha ha! At least you realize you don’t have a chance against her! 😏

Did you like that she did that?

Be careful, dude. Looks like she has plans to make you a fatty.