My husband is getting fat
My husband is getting fat. He used to be slim and in shape, and now, he looks like a butterball. When we were dating, he was 170 pounds. He stepped on the scale the other day and he has gained 50 pounds!
The problem is I feel guilty watching him fatten up and liking it. I feed him well, he likes to snack and his fat belly and mushy chest are a turn on for me. I prefer it much more than the flat stomach he had years ago. He has a slight double chin now that I also think is **.
I hope he still gains in the coming years. I had to buy him size 40 pants (used to be a size 32), and I was so happy to watch him try them on. He complained about the new size, so I walked over to him, patted his bulging tummy, grabbed his love handles and told him how attractive he is to me. It’s not a lie, though, because I really do enjoy his new size and I love his fat belly!
Hopefully he gains another 50 pounds! I wouldn’t mind a chubby hubby! What’s better than eating what you want and getting your wife excited to be with you in the bedroom?
I’ve fattened up a few men during my dating. They love my cooking and I love all their compliments and watching their bellies get nice and fat. They are cuter like that!! 😋
There is some satisfaction at looking at his belly getting bigger and softer and knowing you had something to do with that!!
There is a lot of satisfaction in fattening up your man!
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I’m seeing someone right now.
What’s your secret for their weight gain?
Food and love. I pamper them with the food they like, give them a lot of it, and love on them. They feel good, and I feel good. I don’t just fatten them up, they have a good time as that belly starts to grow and stick out, too!! 😍
Are you fat too? So you feed em up to match? Or do you start out looking like a number 11 side-by-side and end up looking like a number 10 :)
I’m a curvy, plus-size woman. Not really big, but some extra weight. I’m a size 10-12, usually. But I usually gain 20 lbs. in the process of fattening up my man I’m with.
My husband has grown into quite a big boy at this point. He has a big, round tummy these days. He looks a lot different that when I first met him, but I love him like crazy. And I’ve learned to love his chubby body. 😍
My bf has gotten pretty chubby on me the last year. But he’s so sweet and nice to me, so I can live with a little extra belly on him.
Be careful with that. They get even chubbier on you when they go from boyfriend to fiancé to husband. If he has some belly on him now, it’s only getting bigger the more serious your relationship gets.
An little extra belly can easily turn into a big belly which will be impossible to shift! Ask my boyfriend lol.
How much weight did you pack on him?
How much weight did he gain? Why?
I love my fat husband. I wouldn’t want him any other way. He’s fat and he’s mine.
How much has he put on?
Approximately 70-80 pounds. A lot in his belly.
Wow that’s a lot of tummy weight! You must be feeding him well 😊
Yea, he has a large and round stomach now. Didn’t have that before.
What does hubby think of his new growing belly?
He didn’t love it at first, but I give him extra lovin’ now that he’s fat and he doesn’t mind that.
My hubby started putting on the pounds, especially in his tummy, and it started to bother me until one week a few years ago. That week, I was going to say something about his weight gain, but I noticed that he never had time for himself. He was always at work, helping me with a project or doing something with or for the kids. And that changed my perspective. I realized his weight gain was more about the available time he had, and I started to appreciate him more. He’s gained even more weight since then, but I now look at it differently and I’m happy that he works so hard for our family. I don’t mind his belly anymore.
Yes, some of the best men (and women) spend so much time on others that their health starts slipping. Don’t hold that against him.
That’s sweet! 💕
My husband started putting on weight early in our marriage. We went out one night with a few couples, and the conversation eventually turned to ** because we were all newly weds at the time. One of my husband’s friends asked me if I liked having ** more now that my husband had gained weight, and my face turned bright red because I was so embarrassed. I quickly made a joke to get the attention off of me, but it wasn’t nice or thoughtful. I said something like, “the ** is good when he doesn’t crush me with his belly and take my breath away in the wrong way.” Everyone started laughing except my husband, and I immediately felt horrible.
Since then, I’ve tried to be more caring and thoughtful in my comments as he has continued to gain weight. He’s probably 70-80 pounds heavier than when we married. His belly is even bigger, but I make every effort to be supportive and continue to have intimate ** with him. I never want to feel again like I felt that night.
You’ll let him gain 80 lbs. just so he doesn’t feel bad about getting fat on you?!
I get this lady. I got my boyfriend fat because I want to be with him and I don’t want any other woman wanting him. He was skinny, and now he’s fat and he’s all mine all the time.
How much did you put on him?
About 50-60 pounds of love!
That’s impressive on a skinny frame! He will struggle to lose that lol. What time frame and where did he gain the most?
We’ve been dating for three years. A little more weight each year with more weight coming on the more serious we both got about the relationship. He gained all over, but it’s most noticeable in his belly, chest and double chin.
It's like wrapping a nice big "I'M TAKEN" sign around his waist for all to see.
Exactly!! 😜
Besides possible long-term health issues, the biggest problem with gaining weight like that is your energy and your ability to move and work with your body. In other words, ** can become a real chore.
I’m a personal trainer now, but before that me and my husband had gained more than 120 pounds together. He put on 70 pounds and I put on 50 pounds, and it was much more difficult to be intimate. We had to be creative with positioning (which can be fun in and of itself), but some positions weren’t even possible because of our belly fat, strength and/or stamina. We fell into a sexual rut just because we physically were limited to mainly a couple positions, which neither of us loved. So just be mindful that significant weight gain might not be emotionally difficult for you, but can be a physical challenge.
** can be a physical challenge at a heavier weight, but I like it. I like rubbing my man’s fat belly and holding onto it while we are being intimate. I like when his belly weight is on me. Makes me feel really close to him.
I posted above this, but I can relate to what you said. I’ve tried to maintain my ** drive while my husband has gained 70-80 pounds. We are a little limited in what we can do now with his size, but we still have a very satisfying ** life. I don’t mind how he looks now, so it’s more important to me to connect emotionally, rather than just physically. You can connect emotionally regardless of how heavy someone has become, and that might help you overcome any issues you have with their bigger body.
My wife has gained about 30-35 pounds over the last three years. She used to always go shopping with her mom growing up, so her mom is used to shopping certain sizes for my wife. For example, my wife used to buy yoga pants in a small size, now she buys large.
It’s always awkward when she gets a present from her mom now because it’s usually clothes and it’s usually two sizes too small and it’s always a reminder that she has gained weight. Personally, I don’t mind. I think she looks fine. But I don’t like dealing with the emotional baggage that comes after the inconsiderate present.
When did you realize you liked him fat?
When he marries a fat girl who can cook ...
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Yep, that’s it. She’s not even hiding her plan.
This reminds me of my husband. He sabotages all of my diets and doesn’t help me lose any weight. He said he likes me heavier, and I’ve already gained 40 lbs. since our wedding day!
Oh, honey, you need to slow down. With age and babies, you’re only going to get bigger, sweetie. How long have you been married?
We’ve been married for a year and a half. I’ve gained the weight pretty evenly around my body and my husband says he doesn’t mind.
When do you think you will slow down on the gain?
Does he say “he doesn’t mind” or does he say he likes it?
He says he likes it. He touches me a lot more all over my body now, especially where I gained weight. I don’t mind that extra attention at all!!
40 lbs. isn’t bad during marriage. How long have you been married?
We’ve been married for a year and a half.
Ok, so 40 lbs. in 18 months is probably too much to gain and too quickly (depending on your body weight before the weight gain). But assuming you are an average woman, that’s a lot of weight in a short amount of time. How are you feeling about it?
When my husband and I got pregnant the first time, I asked him to gain weight with me and just enjoy the pregnancy experience together for the nine months. He said he would gain as many pounds as I did, which ended up being 40 pounds. It was so ** to see him get bigger and heavier each month. I liked it so much I asked him to keep on all of his baby weight!! He’s adorable with a tummy!
How did he feel about keeping his baby weight on?
He was excited and having fun while gaining the weight. He got to pretty much eat whenever he wanted and however much he wanted. And it wasn’t that bad because we were both gaining weight at the same time, so month to month you could notice the slight changes in our bodies. I think he was looking forward to the end of the nine months and the end of the mutual weight gain, and he was genuinely surprised when I asked him to keep all the weight on. But when I told him I thought he was sexier with a belly, he was OK with keeping it.
Did he like getting fat?
Do you want him bigger?
Was he hesitant about gaining the weight?
My hubby did this too, but I don’t think it was on purpose...🤨
What do you like about his belly so much that you asked him to keep it?
Oh, wow! I would never do that...
Fat and tubby hubby tummies are the best!! 💗
I’ve gained about 65 lbs. during our marriage. Used to have a flat stomach, now it’s more of a big belly, hanging belly thing. But my wife seems to like it.
She always wants to cuddle now when we are going to sleep, and she just rests her body on the side of my belly and sleeps on my shoulder, almost like I’m one of those maternity support pillows. She didn’t do that when I was skinny.
Lol! A man maternity pillow! 🤣
A husband with some extra fluff can be quite comfortable to cuddle on. I cuddle on mine more now that he’s just a little bit fatter.
65 pounds is more than “some extra fluff.” Good luck with belly, dude!
Ha ha! Your chubbiness must be comfy!!
I saw old Facebook picture of my girlfriend/fiancé when she was in high school on the swim team.
I mentioned to her that she looked a little bigger back then. She was a size 4 when we started dating, but in high school she was a 14, she told me. I told her I thought she looked great at a heavier weight and much curvier.
One night I kind of jokingly said I wish she was a size 14 again. We were getting pretty serious at this point. She then said that she would gain back some of the weight if I was serious about the relationship, serious about her being heavier and I wouldn’t dump her “if she got fat again.” I told her that I loved her and would love her no matter her size, but I really liked that size 14 version of her n the pictures I saw.
That was about eight months ago. She’s gained back all of the weight (she said her swimming statistics in high school were swimming at 165-170 pounds, although some of that was muscle back then) and is about a size 14/16 again. She’s put on about 45-50 pounds.
She looks so ** at her bigger weight. Very curvy. Very voluptuous. She holds the weight on her body extremely well and she looks very feminine now.
In those eight months, as she was gaining weight, our relationship was skyrocketing and we were really falling for each other. I love her so much now and I plan on asking her to marry me next year. We are going ring shopping soon.
She’s a beautiful, smart, wonderful, curvy and ** woman, and I’m a very lucky man. And I’m lucky I saw those Facebook pictures!
She sounds really pretty.
Fun, fun, fun! Happy for you both!! 💗
That’s a sweet post! Good luck! 😉
How did she feel gaining all that weight back?
She went from a dress size 4 to a 14 for you? You better keep her around.
I am definitely keeping her around and a round. 😉
Did you feel bad for asking her to get fat?
What did she say when you asked her to gain the weight back?