My husband is getting fat

Gotta find me a girl like this. It's so tough staying in shape year after year. To polish off a big steak, stay the night in, and just hang out and get fat together. So in love that you're inFATuated with each other.

Next serious relationship, I'm going to ask early on if she cares if I get fat. If she hesitates, I'm going to have to think about it. If she says she doesn't care, that could work. But if she proceeds to shove a doughnut in my mouth, I'm going to put a ring on it on the spot.

Ha ha! 🥩 🍩 💍

I think most couples do get inFATuated with each other which is why we are all the sizes that we are. I’m not complaining, though, because I will take love over a small dress size everyday.

I like dating girls that don’t try to hide their appetite. Like if we go out, I know you eat more food than a pigeon. And I bought that, so don’t just pick at it to act like you aren’t hungry and leave 3/4 of it on your plate. To me, her size doesn’t matter (within reason), but don’t lie and act like you don’t eat food.

Yeah, I suppose girls like that would be more cool with their guy cleaning his plate too and maybe wearing some squishy proof that he likes to eat.

OK, a little insight here from a girl. We don’t want to look like a pig in front of you. We will starve on a date and pig out at home with our girlfriends as we rate the date! Sorry, it’s just a think we do. It’s embarrassing to eat in front of a date that you don’t really know well. We are just trying to put our best foot forward and be impressive, and worrying about food gets in the way of that. 🐷

My husband was having a hard time buckling his pants the other day. Size 34 pants. He asked me if I have noticed that he has gained any weight, and I just looked at him like that was a dumb question.
I said, “When’s the last time you stepped on a scale and what did it say?” He replied that it was probably six months ago and he was 200 pounds. I said, “Well, that new belly of yours says you aren’t 200 pounds anymore.”
I bet him a chore around the house that the scale would say at least a 20-pound weight gain past 200 lbs. He didn’t believe he gained that much and took the bet. Now he’s doing all the laundry for a month because that scale ticked up to 223 when he stepped on it!
Don’t mess with mama! She knows when her husband has gained 23 pounds!! Ha ha!

Wowsers. 23 pounds in just 6 months! .. mama has him riding on the gain train! That's the kind of ride you best forget bucking up for!

It was all him. I didn’t do anything differently. Just lazy and overeating.

Mama don’t mess around!! 🍕 🐷

Men can’t resist a good cook lol. My hubby has gained a lot of weight since we married a couple of years ago

Wow! He gained up quick. Did his body change and did you help him with his new, flabby physique?

Ummmm. I don’t know. I guess I’m a little guilty. We’ve been married for two years and I’m a really good cook. But I’ve only put on about five pounds since our wedding day to his 23 pounds...

Yes, his belly is definitely rounder and sticks out further. Like if you look at him from a profile, his chest used to be the part that stuck out the furthest. It’s now probably his stomach.

I’ve gained 20 lbs. in six months before. It comes on so quickly that you hardly realize it unless you weigh yourself everyday. But one day you’ll see yourself in a Facebook picture or something and realize you look different. And that’s when it hits you.

My boyfriend loves my little belly pooch. I can’t exercise it off no matter how hard I try. I’m just glad he doesn’t mind it.

A ** belly bulge is nice. Don’t try and work that off! Just work it and be confident. Most men love that.

I would recommend Spanxing up your pooch during the day and letting it out at night. My BF loves the extra tummy, but I don’t. So, when I’m out no one can really tell. When I’m home, Spanx are off and I let him enjoy it.

I’m a proud, plus-size woman whose man is crazy about her curves. I don’t apologize for them and he loves it all! It’s not all bad being big, remember that ladies!!

That’s happy that you found someone who appreciates your body type. Thanks for the kind words about being a bigger girl! ❤️

I'm also a proud, plus size woman at 545lbs. My man is driven crazy by my size & I love it.

My man married a plus size woman 3 years ago and from being skinny has become plus size himself lol

My hubby has put on so much weight now that he has a slight waddle and his thighs have gotten so big that he chafes if he doesn’t waddle.

Does that bother you that he waddles like he’s a pregnant woman? 🤰🏻

No! I just tease him that now he has a better appreciation for my pregnancies!

What did he say?

He said he was sorry for not being more understanding and supportive throughout my pregnancies, especially when I was really big. He said he didn’t realize how hard it can be physically to have so much extra weight that you aren’t used to.

I girl I liked in high school used to joke that when she got married she was going to be one of those "now I can get fat" types. Turns out she did, but I noticed she fattened up her skinny boyfriend first. Waited till he a pot belly going on then let herself go. I thought that was quite clever. Best way to not look too fat is to make your partner even fatter. Probably less complaints from them too.

Seems like a lot of girls plan to become fat women as they get older. I’m not complaining. They still are super ** to me.

Absolutely. As a woman, I know I’m not going to be able to keep up this slim physique forever, so I’ve already started fattening my man up so it won’t look so odd when I start plumbing up myself.

Smart of you to think ahead!

Unfortunately, we are old going to get old and likely not be as physically fit as we age. It’s just life. Embrace the pounds and don’t over do it.

I’m glad you are happy!! 😁

I’m pregnant right now with our first baby and I’ve gained more than 50 pounds. I was fairly slim and in shape before we got pregnant, but now my husband said he doesn’t want me to lose any baby weight. He said he loves how my body looks and feels at a higher weight. Is he just trying to make me feel good about my pregnancy weight gain so far? (I know it’s been too much, so please no lectures on that.) Or is he serious?

I’m assuming he is telling you the truth if he said that, and he’s serious. Does he seem like he likes it, like physically? I mean, does he physically touch you more or offer physical affection more than he did before? That might be your answer.

He does touch me more, especially in the areas where I gained weight like my belly, **, ** and thighs. And he likes to see me get dressed and asks for lingerie nights more often.

My husband loves my preggo weight gain. He looks forward to seeing the scale go up each week. It’s embarrassing, but it makes me feel better that he likes it.

My hubby practically did cartwheels in the doctor’s office when he saw the scale go up each month. He love love loved my pregnancy curves and extra stuffing! I enjoyed the attention and the feelings of security, and he enjoyed the extra roundness.

Every time I’m preggie, my husband loves it. He enjoys my size and shape and loves everything about how my body changes. I don’t love that he loves my fat, but he’s sweet about it.

My husband loves when I’m pregnant! He can’t keep his hands off of me!!

My last pregnancy, my husband gained 40 pounds and looked six months pregnant with his shirt off. So I told him that until he loses the extra belly, I want him to shave his tummy and chest so he looks pregnant like me. The baby is here now but his belly is also still here, so that tubby tummy still gets shaved each week. 🪒

Does his belly make him look pregnant?

I love to just jiggle my hubby’s fat belly. It’s so much fun!! 🥰

Me, too! It’s so fun and ** watching that belly wobble!! 😛

I love poking my boyfriend’s chubby belly and feeling his fattiness!! ❤️

I've always wondered what it would feel like to have a belly that jiggles. It seems weird to imagine, but also intriguing. I guess I'll have to grow one to find out!

A jiggly belly can be fun. I have a slight belly jiggle and my bf says he likes it and thinks it’s **. You can feel it when you exercise or move quickly - the little wobble of your belly fat. I normally Spanx it flatter for work and nights out, but when I’m home it’s just out and free, and that’s what my bf seems to like. He will always come and massage it or put his hand on it when we cuddle.

My wife has a belly jiggle now after gaining a little weight. And her belly jiggle is soooo **. No complaints at all from me. I wish she had more jiggle.

I’ve been skinny and fat, so no belly and a pudgy belly. No belly looks better in clothes. Pudgy belly is more cute and fun for my boyfriend. So, depends on what you want. It does feel different to feel your belly fat wobble when you move, but I don’t mind it.

I used to be super athletic and slim. I played sports all the time and am very aware of how my body can function as an athlete. Well, I got fat because of life. I’ve tried to get back into sport, but I can now feel my belly bounce and I have slight moobs that jiggle a little when I run. I can feel that extra fat move around as I’m exercising. It doesn’t look great, but I kinda like how it feels sometimes.

Me, too!! 😊

My wife is pregnant now, which has been very sensual to watch her get bigger. But the problem is I’m gaining just as much weight as her with all these cravings she has. I’ve already put on 25 pounds...

You sound like you’re as pregnant as she is!!

You need to slow down, fatty. She will lose a lot of that baby weight naturally as her body recovers. You won’t.

Calling him a “fatty” is not nice. It’s only nice when Justin Timberlake sings it.

My new hubby has been plumbing up since he said, “I do!” We went to see his family and his brothers poked his new tummy and made fun of him for, “gaining a bride and 20 pounds.” But I think it’s super cute!! 🥰

Sounds like a good trade off - a wife for a gut! 😂

My bf and I are going through a similar situation right now. I used to be really slim and in shape, especially when we started dating. I’ve had to take some medication over the last year and it has drastically changed my size and shape. I’ve gained 40 pounds and become bigger all over, but especially in my tummy. I have a little pot belly now where I used to be flat and tight. I know I’m more than just a number on a scale to him, but I worry that the change is too drastic. He says he doesn’t mind, but I wish I believed him. The good news is the medication has stabilized my condition and my weight gain has plateaued, but I’m still left as a fatter version of myself.

I wouldn’t worry about him leaving, especially if you have plateaued and you aren’t still gaining weight. If he would have left over weight gain, he would have already left twenty pounds ago. Plus, a pot belly on a woman is incredibly **. 🙂

Do you really think that? I’m still super-conscious about how I look and feel. I’ve never been big before. This is all so new territory for me, physically and emotionally. 💔

Honey, it sounds like you have a good man if he hasn’t left you so far. That’s a big weight gain, but look at the positives. Your doctors probably have your medical situation in check and you still have your man. All things considered, that’s really good. I would embrace your new size and see how things are for you as a bigger woman. It might not be as bad as you think it is.

I think “being big” is all in your perspective. But if you have always been really slim, it’s probably hard to mentally grasp your new body size and shape. I had a similar situation, although mine wasn’t medical. I gained 30 pounds in a year due to a job change, not being able to exercise and stress eating. It was really hard for me at first until I realized there were parts of my new body I really appreciated. My hips and ** were round and shapely. My ** went up three cup sizes and I had some really ** cleavage. My thighs looked bigger and stronger. I had a smallish belly gain that I could hide with Spanx. I definitely looked different, but not bad. And I still got plenty of attention from men when I went out, so my 30-pound weight gain didn’t affect my opportunities to date at all. Just learn how to dress your new body and come to peace with it. You’ll probably find out that it’s not as bad as you think.

Don’t worry too much about it. It’s definitely not as bad as you think it is right now. I gained weight in college and had to learn how to deal with it. You just have to work with what you have now and dress for your body type. There are advantages to being slim, but there are also advantages to being plus size. You can still be bigger than you were and wonderfully **!! 😉

As a man who has dated women big and small, I would say being ** is about owning your body and being confident and not about a number on a scale each week. I’ve dated super slim and fit girls who were so self-conscious and guarded that it was annoying. I’ve dated plus size girls with some weight who were so proud and out there with their body and personality that it was so alluring. It’s about the confidence you portray in yourself and not about pounds. My advice would be either lose the weight if you really want, or learn to be confident at your new size. If he hasn’t bailed yet, he probably doesn’t mind that you gained forty pounds, so just start owning your body and being ** for him. You will see that both of you will like that better.

You could have bigger problems than being a fatter version of yourself.

My wife has recently gained about 40 pounds over the last year due to pregnancy and then some medication. The medication made it very difficult to lose any of her baby weight. So we just had to buy her new clothes and she still is an amazing person. Don’t let an extra 40 pounds take over your life. I still love her, I’m still incredibly excited to be intimate with her and her body is still very ** to me.

This is simple, old relationship economics. A woman wants stability and security. They don’t want surprises and they don’t want to be left high and dry. They want to know they have a home and a relationship. So, the best way to do that is A) take care of the man and B) make him less attractive to lessen the likelihood that another woman will become interested in him and lure him away. That would threaten her stability and security. So, she puts weight on him to make him physically less attractive to other women because she has the emotional connection (and is willing to sacrifice his looks for her stability), which she cares about more than how he looks physically. Fattening him up is her best option to keep her stability and security.

My wife got fat. She used to be skinny. We had two kids and she lost none of the baby weight. I think when we married she was a size 4/6. Somewhere in that range. She’s almost a size 20 now. I miss her smaller size.

What do you like and not like about her new size?

Not like: embarrassed when people who know her see her now and they don’t know what to say, sad for my kids because she can’t be as active, sad for her because her personality has changed a little with her size, concerned because it’s harder for her to sleep.

Like: ** is amazing with her at this size, she doesn’t care as much about dieting, she’s less judgmental.

That doesn’t sound all bad then.

Do you really like being with him in the bedroom now? Seems like he’s gained a significant amount of weight.

Yes! I absolutely love being intimate with him at his heavier weight. His extra body weight on top of me feels good and I like that his belly is so big that it’s always touching me now. Makes me feel closer to him. And I like rubbing up and down his new belly. I find it **.

I’ve been with my boyfriend for four years and he has gained some belly fat in that time. And I absolutely adore his little tummy!! I asked him to keep it for me when he started complaining about it. Intimacy with a tummy can be very sensual, so a little weight gain isn’t horrible. 😋

My wife has gained 35-45 pounds in the last couple years and she looks so curvy, womanly and amazing in her lingerie. No complaints here! I hope she never loses the weight. I really enjoy feeling her new size and having her weight on me during **. It’s very **.