My husband is getting fat

I've heard of dominant women making their men fat so they're easier to control. The fat softens them up, makes them more docile, more willing to please knowing they're probably too fat for anyone else. Plus they can't just unlock it and run away like other devices. At a certain weight, there's practically a point of no return.

An effective method for chastity too, eventually! Many men think they can't be tricked into submission, but when it starts with beer and ice cream .. haha :)

I think it’s both women who want to control their man and women who want to please their man. Either way, they end up packing the pounds on these boys, and the hope is that they are too fat for another woman to be attracted to him.

My husband has definitely entered the “belly line” zone, where the amount of fat on his tummy is protruding out enough that you can see a distinct line on the bottom of his stomach area where his belly hang starts. It’s starting to get round.

Yep, I know what you mean. When a big belly is starting to form, you get that area right above his ** where the fat belly starts. And it’s just round and sticking out. The fat goes over to his sides. His belt will sit right under that paunch.

I love that area. I will straddle my man and just rub that belly line and knead his belly fat while we talk. It’s a big turn on for me to see how big his belly has become.

I agree with that. I didn’t think I would like a belly until I was dating a man with one. Now, it’s a prerequisite to dating me. I’m not attracted to those skinny boys!

A fat belly is incredibly sensual in bed. 💕

I love that belly line! I will just run my hand up and down that pudgy slope. It’s ** to feel that belly fat area.

Ha ha! Pudgy slope?! You’re too much! 😉

LOL! A belly line?! Is that a real thing?! 🤔

It is totally a true thing. Have you ever seen a fat belly forming? Like, a little extra fat, some fat, more fat and then too much fat in the end. At least on a man’s body because they gain abdominal fat, you can clearly see where the belly starts (which is where the belly fat starts to store up around their belly button). Since a woman usually gains in her thighs, hips and belly, it’s less noticeable on women.

As a man seeing this, I didn’t realize there was this whole satisfaction in women making their men a little fatter. I guess it makes sense because it’s extra security that some other women won’t hit on him. Or at least the likelihood is smaller. Unless his tummy is a sign that he’s already been “trained” by a woman, and maybe that is appealing. Don’t know. Just thinking out loud.

A fat belly on a man is an indication to women that he is already taken. It’s our stamp on him, and it signals to stay away from him. 🤪

Women aren’t as visual as men, so typically, they care less about looks. They want the emotional connection and the security of a loving relationship. So, as they fatten up a man, it usually doesn’t affect their level of love and affection. And some women find it more endearing that he’s gained weight since being in a relationship with her because that extra fat symbolizes the security of their relationship.

Abs on your man is nice for the beach to make all your girlfriends jealous of what you have, but a belly in bed is what is actually comfy and **.

My hubby has a healthy layer of fat on him now and I love his big belly! 😍

Is it more fun knowing that you put it there? That you marked him as yours :)

Oh, Yes! Part of why it is so rewarding is knowing you’ve made him fat! You take care of him, he loves you and he doesn’t plan on leaving so he lets himself gain more weight than he should. That’s beautiful in a relationship.

I have helped a few men get fat bellies as I have dated them. It’s always fun and so cute!

Aw, leave them with a little (or big!) something to remember you by. Plus that belly probably leads them to be a little sweeter and less arrogant. Doing their next date a favor :)

Ha ha! Yes, exactly! Nice guys and I wish them well in their next relationships. And I hope their new girlfriends can look past the paunch belly!

I haven’t had a big weight increase over a short timespan, but I have gained over time. I was about 180 pounds when my wife and I started dating. About each year, I’ve gained 4-6 pounds, so now I’m like 225-230 lbs. She says she loves me no water what I look like. I appreciate that, but it’s not helping me to stay motivated to stop the weight gain.

Yes, that’s me. As I’ve gotten older and my metabolism has slowed, my eating habits haven’t changed and I’m starting to grow a basketball-size tummy. I look like I have a pregnant belly now. 🙁

Getting fat isn’t much fun. 😞

That all depends on perspective. If you except to be the same weight you were when you were a teenager, then you will be disappointed. If you expect your body is going to slow down and fatten up, then it’s just a part of life. If you accept that, getting fat can be quite tasty.

For someone who was teased about being skinny her entire life, putting on weight and being more on the fat side has felt good. So, getting fat has been fun for me.

I don’t necessarily agree with that. I’ve always been really skinny. Probably too skinny. All the way up to college. My sophomore year I started my program, which is similar to home economics from the 1950s. Anyway, part of the academic program involved learning to cook and bake, so me and my roommates all put on 10-20 pounds that semester. My body changed and I was curvier than ever before, and I really liked it. So I added another 20 pounds before I graduated, and I look more womanly now.

I’m sure she still loves your fat **!

My wife and I have been together for 13 years (10 in marriage). When we first started dating and living together she loved serving me extra portions at meals and making sure her man was full. I was really skinny at the time and gained about 30 pounds in 6 months to 185. She would rub and grab my little belly in bed and tell me how cute it is. I kept this weight on for years and when friends would come over that we hadn’t seen in a while she’d brag about how she put the weight on me and said she liked me better thick. I noticed as the years went on that if I lost some weight, the intimacy would go down: no more belly rubs, less cuddling. Weight back up, cuddling sessions were back. About 3 years ago I gained 30 more pounds and hit 215 keeping it on for around 2 years. S** was great; there were lots of belly rubs and pats and teasing. And she loved the way my belly would rub her during s**. But then she started complaining about my moobs being too big and snoring and it all just stopped. Over the last year, I’ve lost 35 pounds and she tells me I look handsome, but I think I’m actually missing the belly. I got used to it being there and now I don’t know how to address it.

I can relate to this. My wife was always more interested in my body when I was more out of shape. The fatter I was, the more touching and kissing and grabbing. It’s like she actually wanted me fat instead of in shape.

You could always try to gain a little more back and see what she says.

Moobs are OK as long as they aren’t bigger than my **!! 🤣

How big were your moobs?

I’ve been stuck at home since this quarantine and not able to go to the gym like I normally do. Last night, my wife said she could tell I was fattening up and poked my stomach when she walked past. She giggled and said she liked it, though. Not sure how I feel about that.

I would consider yourself lucky that you have a wife that loves you enough to tease you about your weight gain. Seriously, women are super sensitive to stuff about weight. So the fact that she is joking with you about it means that she likes how you look.

If she giggled about it, she probably likes it.

Poke + Giggle + I like it = Nothing to worry about. She’s OK with that new tummy.

Sounds like she adores your new tummy!! 😋

With American men, you get 3 options:
- Marry a fat one
- Marry a skinny one who gets himself fat by letting himself go in a couple years
- Marry a skinny one and make him fat yourself
All good options if you love a chubby hubby!

Lol! That’s funny! 😋

Seems like you got it good if you like a man fat.
A full head of hair will fall out over time.
Muscles will go flabby in a few years.
But that belly will be sure to stay.

A big man can be very **! Not humongous, but some cute fat can look really good.

Agreed. A super sensitive guy with a pot belly on him is the best! 😘

My bf is an awesome cook. He went to culinary school and everything he makes is amazing. I’ve gone from a size six to a size twelve since dating him... 😂

Wow! 😬

Are you going to try and slow down on the gain or it doesn’t really matter to you?

I was a size ten when we first started dating, lost twenty pounds and went down to a size six and then gained thirty pounds and am now a size twelve after letting him do the cooking. I’ve been a yo-yo with him so far, but he seems to like me no matter my size. I am trying to be more diligent about my portions and exercise more to help curb the gain.

Six dress sizes is significant. How quickly did that happen?

A littler more than a year. Basically up a dress size every three months. 😬

I’m just going to gain whatever weight I want when I get pregnant and blame it on the baby if I’m fatter afterwards.

I did that. It’s easier than trying to keep your body in top shape. Everyone understands a woman will gain weight when she’s pregnant. So I just used it as an opportunity to gain weight and have no one ask me why I got fat. Being bigger is way easier than hitting the gym five times a week. And my husband doesn’t seem to mind.

My wife is pregnant and has gained 54 pounds since being pregnant. She’s in week 30. She has just been eating whatever she wants whenever she wants and her weight gain has been so **.

I’m definitely gaining more weight than all the pregnancy charts say I should, but I’ve been trying to stay in shape my entire life and I’m tired of it. I’m ready to just gain weight and look like the average American woman (size 16). So when I’m done with this pregnancy, I plan on being in the 160-170-pound range (as opposed to the 120 lbs. I was when I got pregnant). I have my man and my baby and don’t need to try so hard anymore.

Just make sure hubby's waistline keeps up with yours so he doesn't go complaining!

Oh, I’m not worried about that at all. I’ve seen Facebook pictures of old his old girlfriends and I’m the skinniest woman he’s ever dated. He always tells me I’m too skinny. So now, I’m just going to gain weight on him and see how sincere he really was about me being too skinny.

I’m with you, sister! If I’m fatter when it’s all over, I’m fatter. End of story. I’m not going to worry myself to death about it. 🧁

Some women look better with more weight. I’m sure you will be stunning!

Ha ha! I told my husband the same thing. I told him that he’s likely going to have a fatter wife once this baby is out and he didn’t seem to mind. I’m not trying to bounce back from this pregnancy like I’m in Hollywood. If I’m fat when all this is over, it won’t be the end of the world.

My wife and I have both gained weight. We used to shower together each night, but now we both don’t fit in the shower space at the same time.

We had that problem, too. It’s a smaller, enclosed shower. She got pregnant. I got fat. And then we couldn’t fit in the shower together without someone’s belly hitting into the other person.

Men are pretty simple to live with:
1. Keep him well fed. This might result in him getting fat but it’s a risk you have to take.
2. Keep a tidy house. No one wants to come home to filth. (If you both work, do your best to keep things tidy in conjunction with him.)
3. Surprise him with a lingerie night every couple weeks when you feel good and **.
4. Complain to your girlfriends about stuff and don’t nag him with stuff he doesn’t want to listen to.

You do good food, nice house, surprise ** and nagging correctly, you will have a happy man and, likely, a happy and good marriage.

That’s a pretty good list.

My man has definitely plumped up a lot. But I love my chubby hubby!

A chubby hubby is awesome. I made him that way and I’m keeping him that way! 🤣

Isn't great how easy it is to *keep* them that way. You gotta slave away in the kitchen to grow that new chub, but once you've plumped them to your preference, it's easy as pie to keep 'em soft.

Agreed. Once you get that fat on him, it won’t come off! 😂

Yup, once you get a man over 250 pounds, they'll never be skinny again and are only going to get fatter. Personally, I like my men BIG (350+) but I find that once I get them over 250, their appetite is so big and their ability to exercise is curtailed, so they "self-fatten". Only an occasional stuffing is required at that point to get then to 300, 350, 400 and beyond.

“Plumped them to your preference.” Ha ha! That’s funny. 😅

Moobs and a fat belly are nice. Don’t knock it until you’ve tried it.