My husband is getting fat

We are having our first baby and it turns out that we are having twins!! I’m having one and my husband is apparently also pregnant. He’s gaining a ton of weight and looks more pregnant than I do! 👶🏻 👶🏻

Ha ha! That is totally common for men to do. Enjoy your baby bellies!!

Lol! But you will lose your tummy. He probably won’t...

Welcome to my life!! 😔
My husband’s belly is bigger than mine now and I’m the one who is pregnant.

Sounds like you aren’t happy about his new weight. Good luck!

Lol. My husband gained 50 pounds during my pregnancy and has never lost it. How much has your husband gained?

I’ve totally encouraged my boyfriend to pack on the pounds, and he has obliged. On nights out, my girlfriends and I laugh about how he’s fat and mine now! I love him and his tummy! 🍔🍟🍕🥓🥧🍩🍪

Sweet ... did you make it easy for him, like putting big meals on his plate for him and baking? Or did he have to put in the effort himself? Either way, sounds like you have a man who plans to stay. He doesn't need his dating body anymore, he knows it, and it shows!

Yes!! 😘 Big, fatty meals. Seconds. Baked his favorite desserts. Baked desserts he doesn’t know and asked him to try them. Asked him to watch TV with me instead of going to the gym. All sorts of little tricks to watch the scale tick up week after week. He has the woman he needs and I will keep it that way! ;)

How much weight has he gained?

40 lbs.! His face is round with a double chin now!!

He doesn’t stand a chance lol. He will be huge in no time lol

Reading the comments below makes me think my wife is trying to fatten me up. She makes big meals and always has my favorite treats around. I’ve already put on 15 pounds in our first year of marriage. I didn’t realize she was probably intentionally fattening me up.

It's easy to tell:
- If she asks if you'd rather have broccoli than a brownie, then she's not into it.
- If she offers you a single brownie, she's just showing love and doesn't mind if you gain a bit.
- If she puts a plate of brownies out and pouts that you only ate one, she's likes seeing you get a little bigger
- If she pouts that you didn't finish the whole plate, she wants you a lot bigger
- If she ties you up and shoves all the brownies into your mouth, then you got a bonafide feeder on your hands.

Yea, I think that is a pretty good brownie scale to use. This person must know from experience.

My girlfriend straight up said one day that she is more attracted to bigger guys and encouraged me to gain weight. I guess I have to think of how committed I am to a relationship with her because I’m in good shape and want to stay that way.

I guess you have to decide if you want to be with a woman who is going to encourage you to stay fit and trim your whole life or a woman who is willing to let you plump up a bit over the duration of the relationship. You have to ask yourself which one is more stressful to you. Only you know the answer to that!

I need to show my sis-in-law the comments about cheating. She's the boss in her house, makes the bank, pays the bill, big talk about her man doing what she says. She even sends him to the gym cause she likes him tight. He just need to sit around and be good baby daddy.

Problem is he cant handle being so fine. He's a little pig round the **'s. They tell him he looks all fine and he turns to putty. Two times she caught him hookin up.

She needs to cut pay to his gym and make him pig out on burgers and KFC. Turn that little pig into a hog so he dont have to deal with the **'s no more. Yeah she like him all tight all right but what good is that if shes locking him out of the house agin for hookin up.

Sounds like he gets too much attention from the ladies! Not good. 🙅🏾‍♀️

Yeh, his minds to week to handle having a fine body llike that. shes the boss she can fix it i gonna tell her

Keep us updated on if she starts making him pork out into a real kept hog!

Why do you think you have enjoyed watching your husband get fat?

I’m not sure. 🤷🏻‍♀️
I didn’t really plan to have him gain weight. It just kinda started happening over time. But as I watched it happening, I liked it. Maybe, at first, it made me feel secure and loved, like he was not interested in attracting other women because he was slowly putting on weight. Now, I find it physically attractive on him. I’ve now seen him as a thin version and a fat version of himself, and I physically am more attracted to his fat version. I just am. Not sure why.

That’s so sweet!! 💕

Why would you want your husband fat?!

I’ve dated guys of all different shapes and sizes. If I can snag a chubby guy and settle down with him, I wouldn’t think twice about it. My bigger boyfriends have always been sweeter, kinder, more caring and affectionate and more thoughtful. I think it’s that they feel they have to try harder because they are a little embarrassed about their weight. But I want an emotional partner more than a gym partner.

I’m attracted to fat guys. I just am. I always have been. Skinny guys can be cute and attractive, but I’m not usually attracted to them. I like my boys big!!

I'm a skinny guy, but I love food so much, I'd be happy to get fat if a girl enjoyed it and helped a bit. I always wonder whether I should put on my dating profile "skinny but ready to get fat". Like if it would make practically every girl freak out or if enough are into it, that a good match was sure to come along. I know about feabie, but that seems super focused on feeding. I want a connection that comes along with food, not the other way around!

I think dating bigger girls would be a good start. Then you know they won’t be judgmental about a weight gain. Although, I would say bigger girls are just more fun to date anyway, usually. They seem to have less things they worry about and are less uptight than skinny girls. And bigger girls seem more appreciative of efforts by their boyfriends. If she has a pretty face and a thick body, you would be in heaven.

Yes I like bigger girls, but not all like bigger guys, while of course some absolutely love a fat guy. It's difficult to know who's who upfront, when you're still skinny in your profile pics. I suppose I could gain a bit, but that would be more fun in a relationship. Maybe I should stuff pillows under my shirt in profile pics! Some sort of reverse catfish :) But I don't actually want to go down that route.

Be careful with getting fat. Being fat will literally change every aspect of your life - from exercise and dating to long-term health, overall energy levels and **. Nothing is the same with extra weight on your body.

I haven’t been fat, but I’ve dated fat guys. Life is a little different for them. We do different activities (less park strolls or hikes and more “let’s go check out this new restaurant” type of activities) and our time is spent differently. Intimacy is different. It’s still very possible and can be very sensual, but ** is different with a belly. More discussions about doctor visits, etc. I don’t mind having a fat guy as my partner, but it is different.

My wife is a ** (Big Beautiful Woman) who loves to cook. I always figured I could enjoy her irresistible cooking and still stay in shape by going to the gym a couple times a week. Then quarantine hit and now the gym is closed, she's discovered online grocery shopping with some Instacart app, and she's got me here 24/7 to fill up with breakfast, lunch, dinner, and some late night snack. She's always loved cooking, but now she basically treats it like her fulltime job.

Oh well, I had a good couple years staying thin. She hasn't said anything, but I don't think she ever much cared what my weight was anyway.

That sounds nice! How big is she?
Portion control unless you want to blow up like a balloon! 🎈

A nice 250 lbs. Heavier than me ... for now :/

Oh, yea, she’s a bigger lady. You stand no chance to stay thin.

Yeah, realizing that now. Funny how the world plays tricks on you. Who would have imagined a global pandemic and being locked up with a 24/7 baking machine. Being with her is worth it though.

Was she 250 when you got with her?

No, she's gained about 50 pounds in the last couple years. That's the scary thing. Her gain is proof that the food is fattening and now I'm not working it off anymore. Don't get me wrong, I love her plump. Just didn't imagine I'd be joining in so soon. In hindsight though, I sure am glad I married a **. She won't give me a hard time if my spare tire gets to the point where I get too winded to work it off. I also take solace that probably half the other guys I know are similarly going to pot while in lockdown. We'll emerge as some Fellowship of the Fatties!

She’s going to be Tess Holliday size before you know it!

My wife always says she doesn’t care if I gain weight. I was 180 when we started dating and weigh 225 now, all just fat gain. Maybe she isn’t shallow and just loves me. Or maybe it’s security for her?

It’s probably love and security. The chubbier you are the less likely other women will show interest in you.

That sounds like me and my wife, except the opposite. She’s gone from 180 (already chubby) to 215. I am shallow and I love her new size! 😛

That is refreshing that you find her attractive at a heavier weight! 👍🏻

She probably just loves you, dude. Just don’t get too fat on her.

I love to go up to my man, take his belly in both of my hands and just move it around. It’s so cute!

In the morning on weekends, my wife will come snuggle up behind me, lift up my shirt and touch my belly for ten minutes or so while we morning pillow talk. She will stroke it, rub it, grab it, jiggle it and do whatever else she can think of while we wake up. The other morning she commented on how she’s glad my six pack is gone because a belly is more fun.

That sounds nice!! 😘

We’ve been married 5 years, and I’ve gained 120 pounds in that time (I weigh 280 now). My wife is only 10 pounds heavier than when we married, but she can’t keep her hands off my belly. She loves to rub it, play with my belly button, tickle it, jiggle it and pat it. She weighs and measures me every month and I think she gets a thrill out of my steady gain. The other day she told me that she thinks I would be ** at 360 pounds, or three times her weight.

My favorite is when a guy marries a fat woman who cooks. I have a friend who was always sharing links to her friend's amazing food posts. I clicked once, and this friend-of-a-friend was a wannabe chef and super foodie who had an endless stream of Instagram posts of lasagnas, elaborate pastas, decadent cakes, you name it. And of course she was very chubby, at least a size 24. Never trust a skinny cook!

But my jaw dropped when I scrolled down and saw she had married a smiling skinny dude a couple years earlier, even though she was still at least a size 18 back then. Cute, opposites attract I supposed. Then it dawned on me he was the same guy laughing with her in the profile pic at the top! Except, he was now even FATTER than her, despite her own gain, laughing with his huge belly hanging over his belt and the same goofy smile!

She had completely erased every trace that he had once been a thin man. Every part of him was plumped from a thick double chin down to those fat man calves.

I can't help thinking about what a journey is must have been for him. Falling for this super-thick beautiful woman who welcomes you with laughter and lavish feasts. He experienced himself being converted, becoming more like her, joining her, and then leading the way further. And there they were now. Yet another fat couple you might pass by. But you'd never know what a wild, lavish, ride he must have enjoyed along the way.

If I ever marry again, I think I might go so far as to seek out someone like her, an unashamed fatty constantly showing off her delicious creations. If I ever find her, I'm going to buckle up, have my seat-belt extender ready, and provide for her in every way so she can cook and bake all she wants.

Sounds like a wonderful life! ;)

Life with a good woman who can cook is the best!

Life is too short to always worry what people think. If you want to be with a fat woman, you should be. You shouldn’t worry what others think. Big girls are **, too! 🍰

I have some background knowledge in online dating algorithms. I don't have stats, but I believe "cooking" is one of the most common things men search for in female profiles. Many sites will have an easy way to search for it, such as in interest search or a tag.
In fact, years ago there was a huge scam with fake online dating personas. Hundreds had a common template with variations of "love to cook", "make you fat", and then they'd all repeat again with "You will get fat". POF discovered it and later stopped allowing Google to access profiles. Bing has also almost entirely removed the bogus profile links too, but you can still find two by searching on Bing for exactly site:pof.com "will get fat" (look at the cached version) . Of course, those will probably be removed soon too.
What shocked me though was these profiles, and there were hundreds, were so successful because, among other man hooks, it was women claiming they'd cook so much that their guys were sure to get fat.

That means there's this sizable world of guys out there falling for women doubling saying they were going to fatten them up. Basically, scam artists experimented around to find the ideal, yet believable, profile to lure guys and the solution including saying "you will get fat".

So I would not be surprised if many husbands are happy when their wife starts them on a tasty journey through dad bod and beyond.

Not only is it tasty, but it’s a sign she is committed and wants to make you happy. Those are two parts of a strong foundation for a relationship. I think that is why a lot of men and drawn to it.

If I have a woman who takes care of me and makes my life great, I’m willing to get as fat as she wants me!

I have a husband that does the same thing, so much so that I now weigh 470lbs and getting fatter.