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My husband is getting fat
My husband is getting fat. He used to be slim and in shape, and now, he looks like a butterball. When we were dating, he was 170 pounds. He stepped on the scale the other day and he has gained 50 pounds!
The problem is I feel guilty watching him fatten up and liking it. I feed him well, he likes to snack and his fat belly and mushy chest are a turn on for me. I prefer it much more than the flat stomach he had years ago. He has a slight double chin now that I also think is **.
I hope he still gains in the coming years. I had to buy him size 40 pants (used to be a size 32), and I was so happy to watch him try them on. He complained about the new size, so I walked over to him, patted his bulging tummy, grabbed his love handles and told him how attractive he is to me. Itās not a lie, though, because I really do enjoy his new size and I love his fat belly!
Hopefully he gains another 50 pounds! I wouldnāt mind a chubby hubby! Whatās better than eating what you want and getting your wife excited to be with you in the bedroom?
My husband is fattening up even without my help. It turns him on but Iām just tolerating it. Definitely not my choice.
How much weight has he gained? You arenāt happy about it?
Heās up nearing 90lbs from when we got married. He fought that belly for a while because most of his family is overweight. He lost that battle during lockdown and now he takes pride in being overgrown. Heās always trying to get me touching his belly or squeezing it. All I can think of when he does that is this is how itās going to be from now on. Me married to a fat lazy guy. I love him and he still provides well. But that belly yuck
What exactly do you not like about his new belly? That you physically donāt appreciate it or that it represents or reminds you of him being lazy/unhealthy/unattractive?
I see it as lazy. From a purely physical standpoint, the softness feels nice. But heās far less active than he used to be and heās grown out of all his clothes while Iāve managed to stay in pretty good shape.
Do you feel bad about how you feel about him fattening up? If you do, you shouldnāt. Just because heās lazy and doesnāt care anymore doesnāt mean you still have to be attracted to a fat and lazy version of your husband. There are trade offs he needs to understand. The fatter he gets, the less you have to convince yourself.
So stuffedā¦ tooā¦ muchā¦ turkeyā¦
Awww, does someone need their bloated belly rubbed?
Bloated belly rubs are amazing, both for the person with the chubby belly and the person getting to love and rub on it.
Which side are you on? My wife has encouraged me to blimp up but no belly rubs for me yet.
Iām the bloated one. But she still seems to love it, too.
How does she encourage you?
I ate so much, I still feel full a week later!
Ooof, me too. I feel like Thanksgiving just ratcheted up my capacity, and my wife seems to have noticed. Itās been Thanksgiving almost every day since.
Please
My wifeās been quietly adding bigger portions to my plate and offering dessert. Yesterday, I accused her of being a pusher and patted my fat belly and she just raised her eyebrows. Women who approach fattening their husbands up like that are really persuasive.
Raised her eyebrows like she was disgusted in your suggestion or raised her eyebrows like sheās interested in you getting fatter for her?
The latter. She never discouraged me from dieting before, but I never heard an encouraging word either. Now that Iāve become a bit porkier, she seems to be subtly but fully on board with where things are going.
Whenever I observe how fat Iāve gotten, my wife just raises her eyebrows and smiles seductively. We donāt talk about it, but I can tell sheās on a mission to make her chubby hubby even fatter.
How much have you gained? Solely because of your wife?
Is it all her fault? No I take partial responsibility. But Iāve gained almost 90 pounds in the last couple years. I go up and down now and again but Iāve always stopped before 300 and gotten motivated to lose again. But the fatter Iāve gotten the more she seems to like it. Now my motivation is gonebecause of her and I really hope to get it back.
What size were you when you met each other? Does she yo-to, too?
I was at 225 so never thin. She was maybe 120and has gained maybe 15 or so. She has slowly thickened but itās nothing compared to me. I donāt think she wanted a portly husband. But once she had one, I think she was pleased with how I feel.
This post is fun! Fatties unite!!
We donāt need to unite here - weāre already everywhere!
You mean like metaphorically or like physically because we are bigger than skinny people? Ha!
Man my wife started doing that to me. I was a former college runner and super in shape. I was 160 when we met and now Iām 270 lol. My wife stayed nice and fit while I got fat. Itās weird, our power dynamic has completely shifted and now sheās the dominant one in the relationship.
My wife is the same way. I keep getting fatter and she keeps aggressively offering me desserts and seconds. She has no idea how turned on I get.
She probably also gets turned on by seeing your fat ** waddle around her house. Or she just loves you, wants you to be happy and doesnāt care about your marriage waddle.
Yeah maybe. And Iām waddling more now than ever. Canāt even fake it - Iām a tub o lard.
When did you first realize you liked what she did to you?
The moobs were first. One time, I was on top and she started sucking one and I moaned. Theyāre super sensitive and we had never talked about it because I pretty much try and cover them up. But once she realized how much it turned me on, the dam broke.
My wife has been gaining so much weight during Covid. She quit working out at her gym, and just binge eats at night. I would guess sheās out on forty pounds. Not sure because she wonāt tell me how much she has gained, but she used to wear Small and Medium shirts and yoga pants and now Iām seeing Large and Extra Large shirts and yoga pants in the laundry.
How do you feel about it? How is she handling it? You pack on any weight as well?
Iāve gained under ten pounds. I think Iāve been more mindful and careful than she has. Sheās embarrassed about how much weight she has put on in such a short time, and itās always a little awkward when we see someone for the first time in a long time (I wouldnāt be surprised if she tries to skip out on Thanksgiving, Christmas or New Yearās gatherings this year). I donāt mind the extra weight. Sometimes the extra fluffiness she didnāt have before is pretty **, but I miss the attitude and disposition of my wife before she gained the weight. I feel like sheās a little different, mentally, and not happy with herself.
Have you let her know you like the extra fluffiness? Maybe itāll help you get both - the sexiness and the confidence.
How tall is your wife?
My wife is about 5ā4ā or 5ā5ā.
My wife as slowly been replacing my XL wardrobe with XXL and 3XL sizes and like a fish in a larger fishbowl, Iāve just grown right into my wider surroundings. I didnāt even realize how much wider Iād become until I tried on my tuxedo for a wedding recently. My arms barely fit, and I couldnāt extend them forward at all. I tried to pull the front closed, and it wasnāt even close. So what does my wife do? She makes me lie on the bed so she could button it. Then she has me try on the pants and again, they couldnāt close. Instead of laughing, she just smiles and admires her handiwork. She wanted me fatter all along, but knew I wouldnāt agree to it. So she didnāt ask..
How do you feel about being fattened up?
In bed I love it. Feeling like a beached whale taking over more and more of the mattress and having soft curves everywhere and a ** woman who appreciates every pound is amazing. Outside is different. I canāt believe what a tub of lard Iāve become. I hear people mocking me and I canāt even ** in my belly anymore. Iām really embarrassed.
Soft curves?! Youāre a man, right?
How much weight did you gain? More than 50 pounds?
Iām up about 80 pounds from a few years ago. Sometimes itās a slow gain, or Iāll lose a little. Other times, after an overindulgent week or two, manā¦ everything just gets really tight..
What happened with the tuxedo then?
It hangs In my closet along with a growing number of clothes I donāt think Iāll ever fit into. There are new bigger sizes that fit well, then some that are snug but wearable, and then there are things like the tuxedo that canāt even be squeezed into because thereās not enough material to wrap around my midsection. I donāt know why I donāt just throw them out. I worry a little my wife will get mad.
Youāre never going to fit in it again tubby. Might as well get rig of it. Iām sure sheād be happy to get you something in a larger sizeā¦
A few months ago, my GF asked me to gain weight for her. She was somewhat kidding, but somewhat serious. Iāve seen some of her former boyfriends on social media, and they werenāt skinny dudes. We passed one of those ābig and tallā stores for large men and she said I would look good like that. I told her I could put on a little weight on if she really wanted. Itās been about 15 pounds so far, and sheās very attentive to my bigger body, which Iām not complaining about. Itās also been nice just to eat whatever I want.
I highly doubt 15 pounds on you is that noticeable.
My wifeās exes were all rail thin and in good shape. Iām not sure when she decided sheād rather cuddle up with an ever growing chubster but she has. Canāt get enough of my fat rolls
Do you like being fat? Does your wife like it?
It starts with a ācuteā 15. Then sheās going to kick it into overdrive on your fat **. Donāt be surprised when youāre sporting a big, chubby gut and double chin.
Itās true. Youāll be a ** before you know it
If she mentioned the Big and Tall store she's imagining you gaining at least 50 pounds, not 15. How big were her exes?
Yea, exactly. She wants to get you real fat!
Thereās nothing like letting loose at the dinner table. I really like having a constant feeling of being full. You?
Everyday during the week, my wife lifts up my shirt and says, āYep! Still fatā with a smile. She then lovingly rubs or pats my belly, kisses me and leaves for work. I look forward to it everyday.
When we first were together, I was probably fifty pounds lighter and had a flat stomach. Those days are long gone thanks in part to her, but she doesnāt seem to mind.
Itās good to get that reminder youāre fat, like that shirt that rides up your belly or those jeans that wonāt close isnāt already reminding you
She's saying hello to your belly in the morning, like she's looking to see if you're still wearing your wedding ring. That belly (which she built on you) is a sign of your commitment. While your belly is obviously a part of you, she owns it and if she wants it bigger, it is going to get bigger. You're not just a fatty, you're *her* fatty.
I never thought of my fat belly as hers. But maybe youāre right. Maybe I donāt have any control after all.
Growing a big belly is the way a wife claims a man. Itās a sign to other women that āheās takenā. She decides how big your belly will get, and arranges the food and portion sizes to make it happen. You indicate your submission by eating the food and fattening up to her desired size. Typically, 50-100 pounds will do the trick - youāll be nice and chubby, taking you off the market, but still mobile. But if your wife really loves fat men, prepare to get HUGE.
What a dream scenario. Does it make you want to get fatter?
Sounds amazing!
Iāve gained weight in every long term relationship Iāve been in. I essentially have ādating clothesā and ācommitted relationshipā clothes. My coworker teases me because she knows when I have a boyfriend because I start gaining weight (15-25 pounds) and wear different outfits. Iāve lost it every time after we break up by eating better and going to the gym. My increasing chubbiness always is an indication that Iām in an enjoyable relationship. šš„°
Sounds like love makes you happy and fat!!
Sounds like she need to hit the gym and get off that fat ** of hers! šāāļø
Sounds like he needs to join another thread.
I would love to have a girlfriend whose love for me I could measure on a bathroom scale.
That would great. You could see the gain daily.
I donāt even know when or how it happened, but my wife now has a 300-pounder with bigger moobs than hers. I tell her Iām getting too fat, and all she does is grabs my ** and says āmmmm.ā
I used to be skinny and athletic before I got married. Ten years later, Iāve gained more than 100 pounds and it seems that my wife prefers to be married to a fat man. Sheās always making big dinners and giving me seconds and buying me bigger clothes. Sheās never complained about my weight gain.
And she's also growing? Or just you are fattening up?
She was really slim until about three years ago when we had a discussion about how much weight I have gained. I told her that I didnāt mind if she gained weight after she told me that sheās tried really hard to stay thin with a lot of diets and exercise five times a week. Since then, sheās gained between 35-45 pounds and went up several dress sizes and different bras. She was 115ish pounds three years ago and is about 155-165 now (last time I saw the scale). I think she still looks amazing and she says that she mentally feels better. Itās nice to have a partner in crime when you want a late-night snack!
The subtle encouragement is incredibly effective.
My wife is gaining a bit too, but not as fast as me. Every time she makes a comment about it, I show her my growing body and she stops complaining.
Do you like that sheās gaining weight? How much weight?
How big are you going?
As long as I can keep outgrowing clothes every 6 months or so Iāll be happy.
I'm glad to read this story, I'm not the unic girl who wants her bf fatter!
I met my bf at firts at late 2016, I was (and still) working in a bakery and he came every afternoon. I fixed in him from the first time, he was really a handsome and kind boy and one day I started to talk him a little bit more. A couple of weeks later, he invites me dinner and we started our dates.
The first months togheter we share plenty of meals and I saw he really enjoys eating. By the way he is tall and then, he didn't practice sports but he walked aorund 10 km every day going and returning from his office. He was in a good shape, not tonified, but in a slim way. At the mid of 2017 I moved to my bf flat and every afternoon, when I finished work, I took some sweets from the bakery and give to my bf. I also cooked for his dinner. Sometimes he ordered pizza, japanese or so.
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It was early 2018 when I noticed for first time a little pudgy belly, and also his buttocks has grown and getting a little bit greasy. He never said to join gym with me or do athletic activities togheter, but it was OK because he walked a lot and work for a couple of hours. At first it was not a big difference, but at the end of summer of 2018, his beer belly was really noticiable. And I was surprised when I realized that his new body makes me more ** than before; I also saw him very active in the sexual way.
Then, I ask him about his weight gain and what he wants to do and he told me he noticed but he was very selfconfidence in this way and he liked more his chubby body than his skinny one. I was agree at all and we decided to keep it on, but naturally, not forcefeeding or so. He put me a condition: he wants I mantain my weight. I'm a quite athletic girl, I'm not musculated or so, but I have a slim tonified body. May be I'm not extremately tall and I'm not the kind of girl than men tourn around to check, but I belive I'm quite attractive and I've a nice tonified gym **. My bf check my ** from the first day and it makes him crazy ;)
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We spend all 2019 and early 2020 as a normal couple: an extremately handsome tall guy who let's go himself because is happy with a normal girlfriend who keeps her body in shape to be able to be the gf of this god on Earth!!
And finally... pandemic came!! My bf starts teleworking and then... from 2016 to 2020 he pass from 185lb from 230lb, now, September 2021, he's 290lb!! He spends a lot of time in sofa, his belly is enormous and he has a nice double chin now. He's all the day wearing underpants amd sometimes a T-Shirt with his ** belly hanging. Obviously, he became lazy, but his ** is more active than ever! When he check me in leggins or dressing, he became really really excited. I keep my promise with him, my body is the same than 5 years ago!
Girls, don't be scared about your partner's weight gain!! It means he'll choose you like the definitive one and he is really happy with!! And sexually... it's your time to take the iniciative (** dancing, **, ** with his belly resting on your **...). Enjoy it!!
So glad to hear you're happy and love your growing boyfriend. He seems destined to continue putting on weight and so you shouldn't be surprised if he eventually grows to 350 pounds or larger. At that weight you'll need to be on top much of the time, leveraging his enormous belly. Enjoy the ride!
Sounds like you have some experience with fattening up a boyfriend. Am I right? š°
I have a friend whoās in great shape and her husband has porked up big time. He is a very nice guy but must weigh almost 300 pounds. Every time they go out, she gets hit on because all the guys assume she isnāt happy with such a pig of a partner. Itās pretty funny to watch. Those guys have no ideaā¦
Do you like how big heās become? How big do you want him to be?
I love how big he's become!! For me it's OK like he's now, he looks really big but still healthy. I love him and I don't want heart diseases or so for him.
May be 320-350 lb can be his definetely weight!
Thatās pretty fat! What do you like about being with a guy that big?
I'm glad to read this story, I'm not the unic girl who wants her bf fatter!
I met my bf at firts at late 2016, I was (and still) working in a bakery and he came every afternoon. I fixed in him from the first time, he was really a handsome and kind boy and one day I started to talk him a little bit more. A couple of weeks later, he invites me dinner and we started our dates.
The first months togheter we share plenty of meals and I saw he really enjoys eating. By the way he is tall and then, he didn't practice sports but he walked aorund 10 km every day going and returning from his office. He was in a good shape, not tonified, but in a slim way. At the mid of 2017 I moved to my bf flat and every afternoon, when I finished work, I took some sweets from the bakery and give to my bf. I also cooked for his dinner. Sometimes he ordered pizza, japanese or so.
It was early 2018 when I noticed for first time a little pudgy belly, and also his buttocks has grown and getting a little bit greasy. He never said to join gym with me or do athletic activities togheter, but it was OK because he walked a lot and work for a couple of hours. At first it was not a big difference, but at the end of summer of 2018, his beer belly was really noticiable. And I was surprised when I realized that his new body makes me more ** than before; I also saw him very active in the sexual way.
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How do you like your fatty today?
My porky had two notices last week, one good and one bad. The good one was he reached 300 pounds. The bad, he'll return to presencially work in January.
Most of his workmates don't meet him since two years ago, when he was a tall boy with a pudgy belly. This month we shold go shopping to buy new clothes and may be look for a car, he isn't able to walk 10 km everyday now, at least if we want to preserve his new and ** size.
However, we had talked and fixed the maximum limit in 500 pounds shared between us, then I'm about 120, he won't pass 380 lbs. But if he keeps the weight he's now, for me it's OK, because 300 is extrafat and I don't want any disease for him.
Unless he exercises regularly and cuts back, itās likely he will continue to gain. Walking 10k is hard at 300 pounds, but maybe start with a 500 meter waddle? You can reward your piggy afterward.
Iām about that size but donāt consider myself a piggy. Yet anyways ha. What sort of reward would I get for waddling 500 meters?
Do you call him your porky to his face?
Where we're from in Arkansas, us girls take pride in fattenin up our men. It shows we're good wives. I been fattenin my guy for a few years now, and he's gotten nice and round! I make him lots of his favorite foods, and always have pie and cake and cookies in the house!!! And beer! LOL. He loves his sweets and he loves beer! Now, I have stayed shaply, but still, since he got so fat, I must say, the number of s ex positions we can do has gotten fewer! But I just can't stop feedin him!!!
How big is he now, how much does he weigh? You plan to keep plumping him up? Sounds like you're taking really good care of him, lucky man!
Youāve stayed the same size? How big do you want him to be?
I've actually lost weight since we met. I was chubby then (150 pounds), but have worked on improving my diet and working out regularly, and am down to 125 pounds now. My hubby has quite a few heavy relatives (two cousins over 500 pounds), so I can see him growing to be 4 times my size eventually.
Yes, fattening the hubby is a southern tradition. It's so satisfying to see your husband grow fat and content with a belly so big and round you can barely get your arms around him. My hubby weighed in at 365 pounds last week and I love packing the pounds on him.
What did he weigh when you were dating?
Has it changed your ** life or what you do together? How do your friends and family react?
And Arkansas girls also are fattening up themselves? Or they just fatten up their husbands and they remain slim?
How fat is he now, and is that the usual size in Arkansas? I feel a special trip is necessary to meet all these huge sporting bellies!