My husband is getting fat

My husband has become as fat as a ball and I am very happy because I can get ** by whoever I want!!

I’m not sure that’s how marriage is intended to work.

It does sometimes.

How much does he weigh? Are you just going to fatten him up and dump him?

He deserves his fat belly and you deserve the biggest c*** you can find. Enjoy😀

My hubby is getting fatter and fatter but he is the only one I want to f—k!! Yours is a cuck then?

It's all fun and games until you end up with Diabetes or worse. Not only is obesity not cute, it's terrible for your health.

Uh, it's not like thin people live forever. If they escape heart disease, then they end up with cancer, Alzheimer's, or worse, too.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. What is attractive to you might not necessarily be attractive to someone else. And the other way around, too. Or some people are attracted to fat/skinny, tall/short, etc. - it doesn’t really matter to them because they find beauty in all possibilities. Moderation is the key. Their are very unhealthy thin people, and obese people whose numbers can be considered much healthier than thinner people. Each body is a little different. But I agree that diabetes isn’t desirable or something to look forward to. It should be avoided.

Why would anyone want their partner fat? This doesn’t make sense to me.

A big belly on a man says “he’s taken”. That’s why they call it Dad bod.

They have started making mannequins for store fronts with Dad Bods. That way you can see what clothes will look like on your fat guy. 😂

I don't know

It’s simply a preference for some people. It’s just what they innately find attractive. Or it’s security in some cases for some people.

I wouldn’t mind fattening up my skinny boyfriend. Any tips?

His favorite snacks. Pizza. Pasta. Milkshakes. How much are you trying to fatten him up?

If you want your bf to put on some serious weight, increase his portion sizes steadily, stretching out his stomach so he needs much more food to feel full. Then find out his favorites, and make them available regularly. It doesn't take much of an excess in calories to fill him out. Only 500 calories extra a week (a slice or two of pie) will put 25 pounds on him a year. If you want him extra jumbo, then combine ** with stuffing him to capacity. But if you make that a regular thing, be prepared for him to get HUGE (400 pounds or more).

I think I'm going to go all in with this with my wife, but I need some encouragement. My wife is fat and an excellent cook, but I've always worked out religiously...I feel like I'm at the point in my life where I can let go and indulge fully in this fantasy. I'm worried about what my coworkers, friends and family may think as I get bigger though. I've always been a big guy but have always threaded the line between chubby and strong although its started to tip more in the chubby direction each year. My starting weight is 245 lbs at over 6'2". I'd like to get as fat or fatter than my wife.

We are both young and I know this will help our ** life tremendously.

How fat is your wife? How big do you want to be?

I wouldn’t worry about appearing fatter to friends, family and coworkers. Many people are packing on pounds during this pandemic, and so you actually have a little cover for putting on weight now.

How long have you been interested in gaining weight?

I’m a lot like this guy. I’ve always wanted to be fat and/or experience what’s it’s like to be fat, but I have always been too afraid to just gain weight because of social pressure, I guess, and worrying what other people think. I’ve always been in shape as a fairly athletic person. I’m a fit person who identifies as fat! 😂 Sometimes I have even wanted a fat suit (like fat Thor) so I could at least feel fat sometimes. I’m not really sure how my friends and family would react to me gaining a significant amount of noticeable weight. 😔

How will it benefit your intimacy?

Not a good idea, man. Being obese is no fun. Trust me. Stay skinny and in shape for you and your wife. You’ll thank me later in life.

What’s your plan for gaining weight? I might have to take some notes for my hubby!

Let me get this straight. You are married and skinnier. And now you want to get fat?! Why?!!

Once hard muscle, my moobs now drape either side of my large stomach, tender and swollen. I look overfed and piggish, agonizing over how my lean figure has bloomed into a curvaceous, feminine looking thing. A gut, I could have lived with, but the emasculation of this sagging heavy pair of moobs goes far beyond what I was prepared for

Do you use a bra?

Do you like your new “look” you have now?

Doesn’t sound like that really happened…

Any updates? Gotten more feminine or did you put a stop to it?

My husband is the same way. He’s a very take charge kind of alpha personality. So when I get him in bed and have him moaning by squeezing and sucking his **, it is such a turn on. What a role reversal!

I think people are making this a lot more complicated than it needs to be. A man should have a hard body at age 20. But as he gets older, and the metabolism slows down, and happy in his relationship, comfortable that his wife loves him, and successful at work, it is natural that he will eat more and exercise less. Slowly he’ll put on a belly. He’ll like the power of a bigger size, and so will she. Once he has a belly, does it matter if it gets bigger? So it will get bigger. Each baby, each promotion, a few more pounds. More than he should have. Much more, to be honest. But he’ll carry it well, and she’ll be happy. For her, it’s a combination of the power, but also the weakness, and the visible sign of their love.

You're making it more complicated than it needs to be. Some people want to be fat even at a younger age of like 20. Some guys like their moobs. And some girls like fat men.

Some guys like fat women too, you guys are overthinking this.

I agree. I don’t mind a curvy woman who has gained a little weight. More to appreciate!

I’m fat and don’t like being bigger than everyone. I don’t understand this wife...smh

Is there anything that you or your spouse enjoys about you being fat?

Reading some of the comments, I’m not sure what the shock is here. It’s really simple economics.
Women like security, especially with finances. Once she has a husband, the simplest and easiest way to keep that husband is to signal to other women he is off the market - supply and demand. The fact that he is good enough to marry in the first place signals to other women that he is good enough to try to steal.
The wife’s main goal then becomes to keep him and the long-term financial security he should guarantee. The best way to do that is to make him look less desirable to other women.
Simple solution is to increase his weight. Other women see an obese or morbidly obese man, and they are less inclined to be interested. She already loves him and is less concerned about the physical attraction because of her emotional connection, so she keeps encouraging the weight gain (up to a point). This obviously isn’t true for all women, but it’s not far off from their thinking.
The other side of the coin is as a husband’s waist line continues to expand, he is signaling to his wife that he is content and happy in their relationship and is not looking for other relationships. Most men who cheat on their wives are not obese.

Totally true!! My sister did this with her handsome, lawyer husband. She said she did it on purpose to make sure he never strayed, so now he’s 50 pounds fatter!! (He’s still handsome, he’s just fat and handsome now.)

But now she cheats on him with a man who can turn her on and sticks around with the fatty who pays her bills lol

Spot on. My husband inherited a very successful business, which he now runs and which continues to thrive, even in the corona. But I started fattening him up on the honeymoon. I remember two years after we were married, I saw him come out of the bathroom without clothes and said to myself, "Ok, that's enough." I love him and he is now almost-obese but not quite. He is my chubby hubby. His jeans were 33 when we met and now they are size 44 waist. His stomach looks 10 months pregnant and I love it! And not a look does he get when we go out, so good. ** STAY AWAY lol

That’s a big belly!!

Wow! Are you happy with your “results” then?

Love that big belly look on my hubby, who is around 255 now, also in 44 inch pants. That big belly says “taken” better than any wedding ring!

I wouldn’t be so sure! I gained 65 pounds during quarantine and seem to get more attention from ladies than ever!

I resemble your husband quite a bit. My pregnant belly testifies to the control my wife has over my life and definitely keeps my ego in check. The only thing my wife’s girlfriends admire about me is my fat wallet and total submission to her every whim.

Well i need a girlfriend to make me at least 500lbs. and enjoy my fats all day and night

Fat people are disgusting.

Well, I don’t know about that. Or if I would go that far with my criticism, but my hubby is definitely getting chubby during this pandemic, and mama bear ain’t loving it. 🐻

If your husband’s weight is important to you then you should say something. For me, for years I dated losers, drunks, gamblers, and layabouts. My husband is a nice guy, has a good job, is caring and responsible, and treats me like a queen even when I don’t deserve it. So if his worst vice is that he views every meal as a buffet and as a consequence has tee shirts that could fit a small car I’m ok with that. Yes, it’s easier knowing that he was already big when I met him.

I mean, I’m not trying to judge you or anyone else or anything. If people are OK with an overweight spouse, it’s not my business. I’m just saying that I’m not overly happy with his new belly. I’ve hinted at him losing it, but he isn’t catching on yet.

I get it and no offense taken. It’s like I was ok dating guys that smoked when I met them, but if my H started smoking now I’d be upset. Maybe it’s the stress that’s got your husband overeating. Or maybe he’s just getting older.

This is insensitive and not helpful.

The truth can be insensitive but it’s still the truth. If you are more concerned about “sensitivity” over “truth” that can change your life for the better then you are just leaning on your own misery and excuses to not improve.

So are **! Hi, **.

So are a-s-s-h-o-l-e-s like you. Have a nice day, a--s-s-h-o-le.

The ritual of needing to go up a pants size every year or two was one of the most satisfying things about my husband gaining weight. Like moving up a grade. Not much any one time, but one more step toward building that gorgeous belly.

Like a guy though, my husband didn’t get it. His goal was to get in and out of the store. Bigger size this time? Oh well. How about lunch?

But how big is too big? Did you like it?

Well, after the first extra pounds there’s always a conflict in my mind. I’ve always thought he looked good. He needs his food and I’d never want to see him hungry. But he probably is too big.

Did you gain weight too or just him? I would get scared if I was blowing up like a balloon and my spouse stayed the same.

Neither of us is blowing up because it’s been over like 15 years. I gained some, like 40 pounds. A lot less than him but it looks better on a guy. Plus he carries it all out front which is better looking than just big and soft all over. Still sometimes it scares me to see him struggle with the extra weight. But it doesn’t seem to bother him so that’s good.

You liked it every time his pants were too small?!

How is he now?

I love going thru that with my belly and weight gain. My wife always takes complete control of the shopping experience. I shuffle in and out of the fitting room while she critiques how each outfit makes my belly look and commenting how hard it is to find the big sizes I need. The old clothes are gathered and given away since I will NOT ever lose, but only gain gain gain. Naturally a big meal with dessert is a reward for my total submissiveness to her weight gain mandate

So I say enjoy your husband with a belly. I have for many years. My Dad was big, my one brother was big, and so when my husband got big I was fine with that. And when my sons went to university and put on their weight I thought that was fine too - not in any weird way, just made them handsome. My older son put on a small pot and has stayed that way. My younger son quickly grew beyond that and became the bigger brother - and within a few years was bigger than his father. It looks good on him although I tease him. But I have to admit to a double standard. I’ve never been big although I smoked for many years. And I was fine with my daughter smoking although happy when she quit. But when she put on the big ** at 20 I have to admit that took some getting used to. I know that is unfair. But her but her boyfriend seems to like it, and I’m getting used to it.

Out of curiosity how big were your father, brother, husband, and youngest son at their biggest?

Well I don’t know exactly of course. My husband is 320 and has been more or less that for years. So big but not hugely overweight. My father wasn’t that big because I remember them joking that my husband has passed him and I was weirdly proud of her that but I don’t know how much he weighed. My brother was 305 when he passed away and that was his biggest, but the doctor said it was the smoking and not the weight (something I remind my younger son). My older son isn’t that big - he wears a 44 pants. My younger son is too big, I know. His girlfriend joked over the holidays that he was her 400 pound steam engine. But he was an athlete in school before University so he is strong. He looks good with the weight but I do wish he would slow down.

Have any of them gained any more weight recently?

It seems like if you grow up with bigger people, there is less stigma about being big and your attitude towards overweight people is just different and more accepting.

I think that’s true. When my children went to uni I wanted them to get good grades, prepare for a career, have fun and maybe meet someone nice. If a few extra pounds came along I was fine with that. That’s why I really I had to give myself an attitude adjustment with my daughter. I was surprised that at first I wasn’t as accepting of the weight she gained. She’d be standing next to her brother and I’d see his belly as life happens and her ** as sad. But I finally realized it was really just an affirmation she was comfortable with herself.

How much weight did they gain at college?

My daughter not that much - maybe 35? pounds over 4 years - she just graduated. My son is 26 and I don’t know how much just in college - but probably 175 pounds more over the last 8 years. He still is carrying the weight well - very large, but handsome - but I worry that he’s running out of room before it is unhealthy.

Boy I wish I was married to you. My wife, at first had no problem with me letting go regarding my weight but now makes little derogatory comments. I only went from about 245 to 285 but mostly in my belly which I love the feel of now that it’s bigger and rounder. Enjoy his belly, tell him to relax and relish in your pleasure of his weight gain.

What does she say to you? Do you feel you look different now, like kinda overweight before to basically just fat looking now?

This sounds like my life. 😞

Could you explain?

I’m fat. I was skinny before I was married. My wife doesn’t try and help me lose weight and makes my favorite dinners all the time. Hugs me and puts her hands on my belly. That type of stuff.

How much have you gained since you married? I take it that you unfortunately don't enjoy it?

I haven’t stepped on a scale in a couple years, but it’s probably 50-70 pounds. I was a size 32 in pants and now I’m a size 40.

I to put on a pretty good size gut without realizing it. I was doing all the cooking and grocery shopping for a while and decided to really stock the pantry and freezer with all my wife’s favorite snacks ice creams. Ben n Jerry’s , cookies, chocolates and I was making most of the dishes I knew how Lasagna, pasta mexican food…..and I am sure they were pretty darn fattening….but I wanted to see my wife pack in all those precious lbs. she lost a while ago. Over the next few months I realized her not only gaining a bunch of weight but her appetite had increased so much. I was very happy. What I didn’t realize was I inherited her sweet tooth and directly following our massive dinners we would polo down on the couch to watch some net flux with a Ben b Jerry’s pint in her lap and a massive bowl of Ice cream I made myself…..this was then followed by a package of cookies between us and sometime an ice cream sandwich and chocolates to follow. All of a sudden my wife started taking over the cooking and shopping again and when she came back from the store she told me she got all my favorites and rattled off cookies and cream ice cream, Carmel surprise ice cream, double stuffed Oreos, snickers & Twix. It finally dawned on me that all of a sudden I have this huge sweet tooth just like her and realized at that point I had a 10 month pregnant gut sitting on my lap in front of me. Up until that point all I could notice is the ** lbs. my wife had been packing on and how massive of an appetite she had. The next night for dinner my wife made us a huge dish of lasagna, Italian bread loaf, and a large antipasto salad. As I was barely finished with my first massive plate she already scooped a second plate for both of us and as we were finishing the loaf of buttery Italian bread she came over and scoped a third plate for me after I tried to refuse she said just finish up the last small piece in the pan (small being like a full entree at a restaurant).

How much weight have you both put on? Do you like it?