If you will take offence by ANY of what I am about to say, please stop reading now. I don't want to offend anyone.
My family has never forced me to believe in God or Jesus. My mom believes, but my dad does not, so they thought that that would ruin their relationship (not that my opinion matters at all). I do not believe in any of that, but when I say that in front of others, they automatically think I am a horrible person. I don't understand it. Any of it. The big bang seems more believable, and to me, more understandable.