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I want my daughters to start smoking
My mother was a smoker. One day when I was 14 she gave me a cigarette and told me it was time I tried smoking. Most of my friends were smoking so I was glad to start and quickly became addicted. I tried to quit a few times, including twice while I was pregnant, but the longest I sustained from smoking was about a month. I just enjoy smoking too much to quit. I love the feel of smoke in my lungs. My husband says I am very ** when I smoke so I suspect he has a fetish but it does make for enjoyable nights.
My dilemma is I want my daughters to start smoking. One is 15 and the other is 13. They have never shown an interest and have not given me or their dad a hard time about smoking. We try not to smoke too much around them. As far as I know they have not already tried. I do not believe this is the case because we do have a close relationship and have discussed ** before so I think they would tell me about their desire to smoke. I have had to work real hard at not introducing them to smoking. I think they would enjoy it like I do and both are very pretty so they would look good smoking. I have left my cigarettes out in the open hoping they would take one and try it but so far they have not. My mother just tells me to give them one like she gave one to me but I do not want to force it on them. I want to be a good mother to my girls. Any suggestions on how I should handle this?
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I noticed since my daughter was age 9 she smiled when i lit my 120 cigarettes. I smoke Virginia Slims menthol lights 120s. I was bringing her to school one morning and just asked her if she would like to try one. Her eyes lit up and with the biggest smile she could muster up said yes. Soni handed her the pack and lighter and said enjoy Ashley. Now my daughter and I have our little smoking bonding times every day
Great do u have friends let there children smoke
Sit down with them, light a cigarette for yourself, offer them one each and explain to them that you are quite happy for them to start smoking if they would like to.
You should give them a cigarrete ask them to try it and see if they enjoy it sure once they feel the smoke in there lungs they will like it like you
I looked down to the first floor and she was standing at her front door with a fresh lit Marlboro 100 in her mouth, she loved cigarettes and smoked a lot. She looked so comfortable with that long strong cigarette in her mouth not one bit shy to show how much she loves her cigarettes. Just down the street I had put some of my empty cigarette packs in the trash, a lady looked at me and I drove away puffing away on my long strong cigarette as if to say some of us are totally in love with heavy cigarette smoking and love a cigarette in our mouth all day long for maximum pleasure we cant get any other way.
I saw a lady smoking in her car, I drove up next to her and looked at her with an extra long cigarette in my mouth, as if to say I love cigarettes too, I love cigarettes just like you. She looked back with a big smile and drove away loving her cigarette.
One young lady was driving with her mother in the car and she had a long cigarette in her hand high on the steering wheel showing everyone she loves to smoke. I didn't see if the mother was smoking too but she let her daughter flaunt her long cigarette puff away and fill the car with her cigarette smoke.
I've driven by ladies with my arm propped up in the window and a long cigarette in my hand. Several times they wave at me thinking I'm waving then they notice the long cigarette in my hand. Sometimes I'll wave back then put the cigarette in my mouth to show how much I love it. It's interesting how holding up a long cigarette is taken as a friendly gesture and show off the long cork filter cigarette.
I drove up next to a mother and her daughter and they were both lighting up Marlboro 100s full flavor with the big cork filter. Smoking the longest and strongest cigarettes shows they were true blue heavy smoking cigarette lovers. Like a friend who also smokes Marlboro 100s fool flavor needs two cigarettes in her 10 minute break, so for her the break is smoke smoke cigarette smoke all the cigarette smoke she can get in that short break, full flavor fix full filter feast sucking puffing loving huge amounts of thick rich full flavor cigarette smoke going in and out of her nicotine addicted body latching as much of her lips on to as much of that long warm soft cork filter hugging and kissing it with her lips all over it totally in love with her cigarette.
I saw a mother and daughter at a flea market both smoking Newport full flavor 100s super strong long cigarettes with the huge cork filter, just puffing away loving their cigarettes. A little while later I saw them at the stores close by and sure enough there they were sucking puffing and loving their long strong cigarettes again, obvious heavy smokers public displays of true cigarette loving high tar and nicotine long strong cigarettes getting off wrapping their lips around those huge cork filters latching on puffing away and blowing all that thick rich cigarette smoke for everyone to see the pitiful display of a mother and daughter smoking the poster mother and daughter for Newport full flavor 100s.
One lady was a heavy Marlboro full flavor 100 smoker. Her daughter wanted to smoke so she told her to wait until her 16th birthday. Well the daughter started smoking and fell in love with cigarette smoking. The daughter however, liked menthol so she smokes Newport full flavor 100s about 2 packs a day. The two of them together smoke about 80 cigarettes a day. In their house cartons and packs of cigarettes are everywhere also lighters and big ashtrays for all those big cork filters. Two 2 pack a day full flavor 100 cork filter sucking smokers who love lots of thick rich high tar and nicotine cigarette smoke going in and out of their nicotine addicted bodies all day and all night every day and every night but for them it's just what they want need and are totally in love with heavy cigarette smoking.
Smoking isn't all bad. There is nothing wrong with pointing out the advantages of smoking when the opportunity presents itself. If they struggle with weight you could mention it, without outright suggesting they smoke. If they try a Halloween costume that changes their image, you could suggest a cigarette as part of the costume. If they come to you really upset about something, you could offer one. Just make it a possibility in their minds and see what happens.
Kids tend to find a way
I would be surprised if they hadnt already tried being in a smokers house. I know I did
I understand how conflicted you feel about doing such a socially forbidden thing as encouraging and helping your girls to begin smoking. My family and myself as an individual have encountered this dilemma many times, beginning when my very naughty aunty began, in 1977 when I was just a child, suggesting it might be nice for me to let her show me how to smoke. Most of my childhood was subsequently, and very pleasurably, spent amidst could of my cigarette smoke. Believe me, the sensual comfort that adults receive from smoking is by no means any less pleasurable for a young person, in fact, I thin, based on my own first-hand experience, it feels even nicer.
In your case, however, your girls, in my mind, are well old enough to begin their lives as smokers. I urge you not to let your guilt hold you back, because being supported by a loving mother is a simply wonderful way to start smoking. In my case, and also in the case of our own children, I always felt secure being close to my aunty as she showed me what to do. It was so much nicer for me than all of the kids I watched, long after I began smoking, to experience their first cigarette behind the bike sheds at school and as a result of peer pressure. Having a loving adult by my side as I took on a new life as a smoker, meant that I didn't feel alone and that I could talk to aunty as much as I liked while my initiation was taking place. I also understood, unlike many people who "accidentally" get addicted, that as I smoked in those first few days, my body would be going through the stages of nicotine dependence.
If you would like to chat via email my address is paul.horgan@ymail.com.
Feel the fear and do it anyway.
I Be brave an make your family, like ours, a happy smoking family.
Warm regards, P
I can help them become smokers