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I'm in love with 700lb woman
I've been with my current girlfriend for almost a year now. She is 26 years old gorgeous and she is everything I always wanted in a woman and much more. She is also over 700lbs and she looks amazing. Our ** life is phenomenal abd we love each other madly...I personally love that she is so big but she has been trying to lose weight for our wedding which is coming up in April of 2022. Unfortunately she has failed miserably at any attemp at losing weight and has even gained about 20 lbs in the process. She has even gone so far as to see a bariatric surgeon but was told that she was too large and needed to lose 100 pounds before they would even consider her for surgery. Unfortunately try as she may, she could not do it and actually gained weight. The truth is that I'm actually happy about it as I love her as big as possible. I want to be supportive but at this time, I don't see the need for her to lose weight. She has almost no health issues other than mildly high BP which is kept under control with a minor application of meds. Compared to other people her size, she is the picture of health which in itself is remarkable...Now comes the guilty part...I've been secretly jacking up the calories in her diet by planning higher calorie meals, adding butter, cheese and frying more of her food. I told her hundreds if not thousands of times that I think she is the most beautiful most wonderful girl in the world and I wouldn’t change her for all the tea in China. I've told her that I did not care how big she got and I would be proud to marry her even if she had to be wheeled down the isle on a flatbed by the wedding party like a big white wonderful parade float. As you can imagine she wasn't happy about that and is threatening to break off the wedding unless I help her lose sone weight... I feel awful about because I love her so much and only want to keep her happy... I'm really not understanding the issue because food makes her happy, being loved makes her happy and I am providing both and then some. I don't know what to do because it's almost like she doesn't know what she really wants out of life and I'm not going to support a path that in the long run, will lead to not just mine but her unhappiness as well.
Firstly, I understand your love for such a big girl, my wife is also in the 700's.
Maybe, your solution would be to actually help her loose some weight. Getting married, the whole wedding day is a seriously important event in her life & she obviously doesn't want to be as big as she is for that day. If you help her loose some weight, she will think you are the most wonderful man ever.
Once married, spoil her, pamper her & she will gain back the weight she lost & more.
That thought has been going through my mind and it seems like the best alternative. I guess if I can help her lose 50 or so pounds between now and April I will look like a hero but I just don't want that 50 to turn into another 50 and another and another. Because before I know it, it will be 200lbs down and who knows where it will end.. I can't have that. I will be miserable and that's not going to be good for either of us. I will probably have to start feeding her on our honeymoon and start getting her weight back up.
You are a selfish **. Let that girl lose some weight. Her life depends upon it. Your ** be damned