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My Husband Stopped Having ** With Me
I'm a 32/f and have been married for almost four years to my husband. My husband and I always had great ** while we were dating and early on in our marriage. However, lately things have slowed down and I can't seem to figure out what it is. We've talked about it, and he says he's still attracted to me. But still-no action. And I mean nothing, I'm lucky if I get ** once a month at this point. I feel like there is no intimacy left between us and not sure what to do about this moving forward, as intimacy is very important to me in a marriage.
Do you flirt with your husband or are you like most women, lose interest and let the mundanity of life take over.
Get some on the side
I've thought about it, more like a fantasy. But I know I wouldn't actually do it in real life.
How fat did you get?
HA!
I was thinking the same!
300lbs, leggings, tunic and leather TEVA sandals?
You should stay married to your husband, but have an affair or several affairs. I am married and I love my wife but my ** drive is much higher than hers and I am always looking for extramarital ** partners, both married and single. Having an affair is very exciting.
This sounds like an easy way out. I would rather work on things with my husband and build intimacy in that relationship. But if that works for you, great!
He's probably depressed. Yes, men's ** drive can be affected by mental health.
It’s sad that differing ** drives can impact so much. My wife has completely given up ** and **. I only see her naked in the shower and that means no **. Honestly at this point I hope she’s getting some on the side. That would at least excite me even if its out of humiliation. I guess I don’t blame anyone in similar situations for the choices. Good luck.
Are you getting some one the side, as well?
26f and a similar thing happened to me during the pandemic. We were both on paid leave and live near the mountains. I thought we'd plan a few hiking trips. NOPE! He joined an online gaming site and spent most of the day VR gaming.
I started a morning routine of running 10 miles. One day, I started talking to my neighbor across the street. Mike is 48, divorced, works construction, temporarily laid off and converting his garage into a work out area with equipment he already had. We started working out together. Then we started having **.
To compare with what I normally work with, Mike's thick, huge, well groomed and always hard for me. Also, I'm talking multiple ** **!
During the lockdown, I was hanging out with Mike more than at my place. My husband never noticed.
Currently, my husband and I rarely have **. I think the last time was a quickie 3 months ago. Oh yeah, I had to do all the work and that's including 20 minutes of oral to get him semi-hard!
On the other hand, Mike and I are still having ** often. He's not looking for a relationship and I'm not looking for a divorce.
You're a cheater, and a user.
USER??? Really? I'll admit to cheater but F-ing USER? How's that??
Mike and I are adults taking care of each other.
It's not Mike you are using moron. Nice body shaming too by the way.
Good for you. Don't feel guilty. You are entitled to have your needs met.
THANK YOU for understanding! At the end of the day, it's just **.
I hope when you're out on your runs your husband is smashing the back out of the hot girl next door, after all it's just ** right?
Very funny with your 'if the shoes were on the other foot what would I think' scenario......
I wish we could trade places for one day. My husband would rather VR game than have **. If there was a 'hot girl' next door AND she agreed to have ** with him, go ahead!
He's gained so much weight, never baths or grooms anymore. He works from home and games. He's gained at least 120lb within two and a half years and only wears sweat pants.
If the 'hot girl' can get him hard. As I said before, the last time I tried I couldn't get him hard even after 20 minute of oral.
BTW: I'm not out running around with multiple men either. My husband agreed I could have ** with Mike and he's the only person I'm having ** with.