Scared I will Never Get a White Woman Pregnant

It's so freaky to find this thread, almost scary. My wife and I have been married for 3 years and she is pregnant right now for our first child. I haven't told her yet but I have serious doubts about the child's actual paternity, because she had a black boyfriend (although he's more than 20 years older than she is) before we got married, and they have continued to see each other ever since. Before the wedding, she said she broke up with him, but that was a lie. Just after the wedding, I came home early and they were together again, in our bed. Six times since that, she has sworn to me that the relationship was over, but every time that has either been an outright lie, or she soon went back to him. (He's married and not going to leave his black wife and children, at least not any time soon.) It pains me to say it, but I'll be more surprised at this stage if "our" baby is white than I'll be if he's black. Finding all of your excellent commentary and observations just makes me more sure of that. My guy friends say I'm paranoid, but I know what I know about my wife and her sexual needs, and now that I've read this, I'm virtually 100% certain that the baby she'll deliver next month will be 50/50.

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White Women,Black Men by Martha Hodes.

After reading your reply,I tried to look up any info on your issue to help me get a little enlightened.I ran into a book called White Women, Black Men: Illicit ** in the Nineteenth-Century South Paperback – January 11, 1999
by Martha Hodes (Author). I believe the description of the book is this
http://www.amazon.com/White-Women-Black-Men-Nineteenth-Century/dp/0300077505. On page 54 of that book,I saw stories, dating back to the 1600s,involving married white women who bore children out of black slaves. I could not or did not know how to copy and paste the narrative,since its a google book.The link I posted in my other reply above is too long and most likely unusable.

It may help you to read things like that so as to understand what in the world is happening when you talk to and deal with your dear wife.Yes there is a 50/50 change your child will come out mixed at this point.Even if this child is not,there is still a 50/50 chance that your wife will have a biracial child for you in the near future. I posted info about that book simply to show you that this phenomenon has been going on for centuries.There may be nothing new under the sun but its certainly new to you. I sure hope you enjoy and love the child regardless.It will really be nice to know whether the child is yours or his( not sure what your state law says but by default,its yours because you are married). May mother,baby and you be in happiness and good health.

Thanks for your rational response, and for the information. The link provided the introduction to the book, but the rest of the text was just footnotes and bibliography (I was unable to get to the Page 54 you mentioned). Still, I read the intro and even much of the addenda, and it was incredibly enlightening. One element in particular stuck me as appropriate to my circumstances, and to the matter of interracial relationships in general, especially in the South, which is were we live. That element was "property". Obviously, blacks were considered the property of white land owners before Lincoln acted, but I had never before considered how the concept of property can impact the relations between black men and white women today. In fact, it fits my situation perfectly. On more than one occasion when we have argued about her seeing this man, she's said: "I can't help it, it's like he owns me, and my heart and body". Later I confronted him and tried to get him to break off the relationship, and his response was that, "There's no reason for me to do that: your wife is my property and I can have her anytime I want her. There's no downside to it. You'll just have to live with it.....or leave." She subsequently promised to end it herself, but she went back. Again. And again. And again. I don't have enough room to write about the pregnancy or what's to come, so I'll just say thanks again for the enlightenment. You're a good man.

That for your follow up.You have a ton on your plate.I hope you rent that book,or similar ones, from the library,or even buy it and read it(I liked parts of it that I read online). Your wife's lover seems to be very strong willed(domineering as expected).Your wife has become submissive, addicted, conditioned,or has totally surrendered to her lover in a way that will be very difficult for you to fathom(not that you are dumb).But you will have no choice-you either have to live with it, or leave your wife alone with her lover.I am sure you gathered that confrontation will not corral your wife or keep her lover away.The more I think about your situation,the more I picture you so helpless, isolated, alone, defeated, sidelined, robbed, yet vaguely hopeful.I hope someday you find the strength to write about the pregnancy and whats yet to come. You are a good man too-I honestly just feel bad that you are forced to share your dear wife.But is a half of something better than nothing?

I'll try to provide more background later, but I just wanted to say that your descriptions are right on the money: in fact, they could not possibly be more correct. She is all those things: submissive (only to him, never to me, never ever, and not to any other men), addicted (his ** is like crack, the more she uses the more she needs), conditioned (he has LITERALLY trained her incredibly well) and surrendered (she can no longer say no to him). I know she's been with him even during pregnancy, so whether or not the baby is his (which seems like a certainty by now) he's been inside her, and has slid his ** in next to and along the body of the baby. And your perceptions of me are equally accurate: I am all those things, especially "sidelined". Thanks. More later, hopefully.

A little more than 20 yrs ago my wife did this. I tried to stick it out and remain her husband but I couldn't do it. Eventually I had to leave. I still love her but I couldn't live the life she wanted me to live. I know there are women who want what you want. I wish you luck.

Glad you shared. How is her life or yours been since you guys parted ways? Did you meet someone new or did your ex achieve what she wanted?

After we split sheets, she went whoring around town with every black dude who would have her, and believe me: they ALL had her (because ALL of them wanted her white hot **). She had four black kids in total: one while married to me, pregnant with another black one when I left home, and then two more after my departure. She went totally wild and developed the worst reputation of any female I've ever known. So I guess one would say she got what she wanted, though she's never married again. I married a nice, quiet little woman and have been married for almost 15 years, with two kids. The ** with this woman is okay, but nothing very heated, and nothing out of the ordinary. My hope is that my wife chills a bit by the time the last of her kids reaches 18 (five years from now) and that we can reconcile, after those horrible kids are all gone (they are god-awful and have no respect). I miss her, I still love her, and I want to resume the ** life we had, which was unfuckingbelievable. I want my wife so much more than the woman I'm with, and I'd go home to my wife in a heartbeat.

So the quiet,faithful wife is less interesting than a town's fille de joie? You still love her but does she still love you? So you would discard your current wife for your ex? She sounds hot enough to fry you.

I know it sounds terrible but yes......the woman I'm with now doesn't interest me nearly as much as my first wife. And also yes, that ** is hot enough to fry anybody, and as a result, I would totally dump my current wife for my "real" wife, given the chance. I've often thought that if she would send her kids to live with their fathers I would go back and would let her date her blacks as much as she wanted. It was the kids that were the problem.....not so much her cheating. I stayed after she gave birth to one of them fathered by a black man, and she still ** me like a ** animal, but after the second pregnancy I couldn't live with the embarrassment. I still think about her frequently when I'm ** the woman I'm with now. Can't be helped: my wife was the hottest ** I've ever been with. I was lucky in that way, it was just all the kids. Your question haunts me: does she still love me? I don't know, and I don't know that I can ask her without looking ** whipped and giving her ammunition against my current wife....she would totally confront my current wife and tell her how I feel, shes so harsh that way.

When I read these posts it slowly began to dawn on me that I have a destiny different than the one I thought I had. I'm a married woman (for seven years), white, two kids (also white), just turned 30 a week ago (and yes, it was and still is traumatic LOL). I have a wonderful husband and we are in love, and we love our little family. But there is a black man who came into my life last year, indirectly by way of work, and who is married to an older black lady who I have now met several times, via work functions. He and I talk frequently, and occasionally engage in something that I think must be flirting, though I've not done that in so long that I'm not sure. I know he's attracted to me, and I am certainly attracted to him, though I've not allowed myself to think of him that way, mostly out of fear of what might happen. Until I read these writings here -- ALL of them -- I hadn't really thought about what might happen between this wonderful black creature and myself. And after reading them, I feel like they have all given voice to my innermost thoughts and feelings and desires. It's like a switch has been thrown deep inside me and made me willing to give myself over to this man, Victor, in any way he'll have me. This is the thought I now have, to the extent that I can express it. From this point in my life and forward, I want my body to always be filled one of his three C's: his **, his **, or his children. I've never felt this way about my husband, nor any other man, and I have never been filled with such longing or desire for any one. I feel more alive than ever, and I am going to make a play for Victor. I care about absolutely nothing else in the world. Thank you.

One of the most heartfelt replies I have read!Thanks for sharing and reading ALL the posts here and getting a sense of reinforcement or assurance in your decision making. I know for a fact that having turned 30(Happy Belated Birthday by the way),experienced a complete family life(hubby, kids, job, responsibilities...),and now coming upon this Victor guy and reading this post and deciding to free your loving torn heart,your life will change forever. You mindset has been freed and the heart seems more accepting to let you explore and enjoy a more fulfilling life. You have gained a sense of adventure and a desire to quench your thirst for Victor,and maybe,other black man for that matter. I do not get a sense that you are a born cheater or that u were out looking to find a Victor;happenstance has evolved to a sensual desire in your mind and heart.It seems like you have tried hard not to view Victor as a sexual partner or prospect,but your efforts are failing.I must assure you that married or not,you are going to have and enjoy this guy.You both will emerge sexually Victorious.He is probably dying to enjoy you.He most likely masturbates daily or makes love to his wife while thinking about you, or wishing you were the one he was doing it to.You have probably gotten ** while thinking about him, and gone ahead and made love to hubby or u have at times made love to your hubby while fantasizing about Victor. Either way,you are only a small effort away from getting your 3C's filled. I have never heard of the 3C's but I sure loved the way you used that here. Keep us posted,I enjoy real world stories like these and am sure most of the 7564 people who have read them found them interesting.

I don't understand all these married white women wanting to behave and actually behaving like cheap whores and getting knocked up outside their marriages and actually raising children within those marriages that are fathered by someone other than the husband. Something is very wrong with a society that assigns so little meaning to marriage and to parenting. Reading these posts from married white women is shocking and really quite disturbing.

Welcome to the real world of marriage and affairs. What do you find shocking and really disturbing about these posts by married women?

I'm not naïve or a prude, and of course I understand that some married people cheat: the shocking and disturbing part is the overwhelming percentage of those writing here that seem eager to engage in this behavior just for the "fun" of it, and not because their marriages are necessarily in decline or insufferable (some are, but many aren't). They make it seem like a fun little party and that everybody is doing it. Worse, the postings make it seem like there are no consequences to the marriages, or to the people involved, or to the spouses of the people involved: affairs frequently breed heartache and much more. And the postings ignore potential consequences to the resulting illegitimate children who may well not be provided for by both parents when those children are produced for the wrong reasons. And while we are talking about consequences to those children, it's worth mentioning that STDs can be transmitted by mother-to-child prior to birth. I suppose the society as a whole tends to ignore consequences, and to encourage selfishness, so perhaps I shouldn't be surprised that it appears so much in the area of marital fidelity and family planning. It's just disheartening to see so much of it and for it to seem to be so fully supported and so common. The racial nature doesn't concern me, beyond the fact that it looks to me to be relied on as an excuse. Just my thoughts.

For sure,there are great benefits and costs to marriage, cheating or having affairs. If you look closely,you will always find many posts here where I have cautioned those who post that their actions have both positive and negative results to them.Someone would have to be a total fool not to think about such. As responsible adults,the assumption is that we weigh every action we take and then take action and own the action and the result.From what I see,those who post have that in their minds. I am happy you brought that up.

I agree with you, but would simply point out that not many "adults" are truly "responsible". Of all the people I know, very few could be considered responsible.

my mom divorcd my dad about 2 years ago and then soon married a black guy. she never said she had been cheating with him before the divorce but some of her women freindfs said she was for a real long time. the guy shemarried was a super hunk and hes about your age which is maybe 10 years oolder than my mom. anyway him and me have been sort of dating on the d.l. nothing serious just some ** ** fun in private. but all this stuff here makes me hot for his babies now. i am totally going to talk to him about this and i think it will make him as hot as it does me. dayumm dude! thax so much!

This is gonna be interesting for sure...tell us more please..like how it all started,where things are and where they are headed,what you like about him,what you gonna do if he knocks you up,how you find time to indulge in yourselves....Thanks for sharing and most of us are waiting to read the juicy details. Glad the posts here have inspired you and please ask him to post what he thinks about all these and all that:)

inspired is so right for sure.....some of these are so ** its just unreal.....it started just a little while after their wedding when he told one of my moms friends how attractive he thought i was and she told me about it and she said that he would probably never do anything about it on account of him being a real gentleman so if anything ever was going to happen i would have to be start it up myself. so this one time i was at my moms house with my boyfriend and my little sister and her boyfriend and my stepdad was there of course. so i waited until he was in the kitchen while everybody was watching movies and i went in where he was an gave him a pants handie and he only last like maybe 30 seconds and the blew a load into his underwear that just kept on ** and ** and ** like nothing i ever seen or heard about like ever. god there are so many things i like about him like the way he treats me when we are together but mostly its how much the man can **!!!!! jesus ** christ!!!!! right now we aren't serious but a baby will change that don't you think? i don't know yet how i'll go about it all but i'll see him either tonight or tomorrow night wheny my boyfriend is at work on the night shift and i will probably talk to him then. i will say more then....but for now i love the idea of all of this and all the ** ideas here....

Why exactly did your mom's friend give you all those details? While you were in the kitchen,didn't anybody suspect anything at all? when he came out with his slacks all wet,didn't anybody see it or didn't both you and step dad look like you were up to some mischief? You will see him at your mom's place or your house? If your bf works nights,I can see you and step dad getting it on for long at some point.The impression I have of the situation right now is that you're fooling around but no ** yet.Right?

aunt vanessa (she is not really my aunt but we all call her that) has always been close to both me and my sister and she has taught me so much about love and life and ** in general. my stepdad told her about how he thinks i am attractive and so she told me. she plays around on her husband too so she dont hardly get all worked up over minor ** like what the world considers "faithful": she thought it would be good for my stepdad to get with me and good for me to get with him. nobody got suspicious about us in the kitchen that first time because i didnt let him last long on purpose. i caught him off guard and i worked him fast and whispered nasty ** to him and he blew in like about 30 secons. but then he came for almost 30 seconds too!!! he has a ** jet stream. i knew he would had to change undies afterwards so thats why i did it at their house so he could go back to their room and change before anybody got suspicious and i could go back and sit with the family which is what i did. when we hook up now we usually almost always do it at my place where i live with the bf. we have lots of ** (i would tell you how good he ** but theres not enough room left) but so far its just fun and not serious. but like i said....that will change if he knocks my hot ** up. :) my bf doesnt work nights but every other weekend he has to work 1 or 2 shifts for 12 hours and that gives me time alone with my superhung step father who is THE BEST ** IN HISTORY. OMMFG! he usually almost always leaves to go home to my mom by 10:00 or so, so she dont suspect us, and that usually gives me enough time to wash the sheets and get out all his ** and the smell of me having been royally **. my bf has no clue but sometimes he does say that i feel stretched out inside of me. i tell him that maybe his ** is too big for my little puss. of course thats not true but he likes it so..... i guess that all white men have a complex...... :)

I married a younger woman about 18 months back and our relationship seems to be a whole lot like the one the guy just below this has with his wife. My wife was a stripper and an ** before we met and our arrangement was and it still is that she can continue that during the marriage and she has continued it. But she has also continued general dating and though I know it makes no sense that actually bothers me more than the ** dancing for strangers and turning tricks with them. The guys she dates are virtually all black. We've talked about having kids and she wants them but not just yet. She's never said anything (to me) about ever getting impregnated by someone other than me but she is really a mean ** and I think if she saw these posts she would get hot for it and do it just to be her mean self. Honestly I had never thought of this as being ** but after reading some of the posts especially from women I can sort of see what they mean. Combined with just being bitchy I think she might not be able to resist it if she ever got these ideas in her head. It scares me for that.

So what are you gonna do with your dilemma?If she is dating mostly blacks and you have her read these posts,she may get ideas and no telling what she could do with the ideas.

My wife would love this. And that's just what scares me.

Have no fear-just have her take a few hours to read and digest these whole post and ask her for her candid views on the subject.If you are concerned or sure she is going to love this,she is going to do this and love it anyway.You might as well take secret credit for "introducing" the idea to her.Just have her start reading from the bottom up,it makes better sense that way.I bet you,2015 is gonna be a different kind of year for both of you.Thanks for sharing. Best wishes and enjoy.

I really don't know if I am capable of handling her reaction to this. She would love being in this position, but I doubt I'm up to it.

I totally hear you.I actually smiled reading your response.You sound fearful and rightfully so.It is a major step no doubt.Find a way to face your fears.Maybe make that your New Year Resolution.A honest conversation with your dear wife will settle your heart and mind.No matter what,you will make it.

I was hoping to notice when the counter reached 6969 but I guess I missed it since its now 6980,lol.

There is a really young girl who just started working at the same place I work who lives with a black man after her parents kicked her out. For reasons I don't understand I have been insanely jealous of her ever since I found out she lives with a black man. Seeing all this makes me feel even crazier with jealousy.

Why exactly are you feeling jealous of her?

I don't think I can explain why. When this tiny little white girl started working with us I didn't know nothing about her at all, just that she was going to be working with us. When I met her I thought she was just too young and I thought she would be in high school instead of out working somewheres. Then one days somebody said her parents kicked her out of the house. And then the next day somebody else said it was because she was dating an older black guy and she wouldnt give him up. And then after that somebody else said after she got kicked out she moved in with the guy she had been dating. That's the day I suddenly realized I was jealous of her and her situation of living with an older black guy and I assume having loads of ** with him all the times. I felt like her situation was so ** and amazing and my jealousy of it got worse every day. Then one day last week I was surfing the net for stories about interracial hookups and thats when I found all this in here and I started imagining her having babies for him and the whole thing just made me feel like I was going to literally explode with jealousy over her situation and maybe having all her future babies just for him. She has one baby but she gave it up to the father but I dont know about the circumstances and I am almost afraid to ask her. So thats a lot I said but I realize I didnt explain nothing to you. I really dont know what about all that makes me jealous of this little girl. It just does. Just sitting here I can feel it like cooking inside of my body and my mind and even my heart. Sorry ----

Thanks for explaining all that from the deepest depths of your heart.No apologies needed but it has been noted.So what is your marital status now? Maybe that could partly explain your jealousy feeling.This is not about judgement,you are feeling whatever it is you are feeling and the feelings are legit to you.What is important is to acknowledge them and figure out the source and find a possible remedy.
We must also acknowledge that its highly possible that this fertile young white lady is most likely going to have many kids with this older black guy-she is most likely pregnant with twins right now:). The other thing to note is that quite a large number of white parents discard their daughters the second they discover that the daughters are friendly with black or non white guys,or have been kissing,opening their legs for non-white guys,and even worse,having kids with them.The situation this young lady is experiencing happens many times daily in America. It has happened to me over the years.She is just lucky that the guy did not rebuff her and then she would have ended up in the street,used and abused.

I admit that my marriage does have something to do with how I feel about this young girl. I still love my husband but we haven't had ** in almost 2 yrs. Our 4 kids are almost all grown (only 2 are still living with us) and I think probably all of them are having lots more ** than we are. I think its also got to do with her being so young and fertile with at least 2 pregnancies I know about (1 child was aborted and 1 was born and is being raised by the father and his wife) and maybe others that I don't know about. Shes not raising any of them but now that shes out of her parents house and they cant control her no more yes it does seem almost certain that this incredible black creature she lives with will give her multiple babies. yes shes lucky he took her when her parents kicked her out but I have to also say that he is lucky with her because she is so good looking of a girl and she is more ** than women twice her age. That black man is a really lucky man and if he dumps her this is the sort of girl who wont be without a man for very long. All the guys at work want her ** bad and especially the black guys. You should see them trying to get with her. I know what you mean about some white parents trying to discipline their daughters not to go black: one of my friends from high school and her husband did that (he's biased but she's not) and their daughter left home and got pregnant right away, just exactly like you said. I know you know all that so maybe I'm just trying to convince myself of why I feel so jealous of this little teenager and her relationship. I really loved what you said about her being pregnant right now but I admit that the idea even makes me even more jealous of her. And my insanity even makes me feel like I hate her for being so fortunate. God......I need to stop writing: I'm making no sense at all. Forgive me please.

I discovered just this past week that my white wife has been having an affair with her black boss for some months. I'm not sure how long it's been happening or how often they have **. When I asked her about it, I expected her to lie. Instead, she said "What happens between me and Robert is none of your ** business." I thought that was about as bad as it could get, but then I read these postings here and now I wonder if, in addition to humiliating me with their relationship, they might also be working to start an illegitimate family that I'll have to pay for and raise, deepening my humiliation even further. I had been looking forward to the holidays, but not anymore.

You sound so dejected by his development. Did she give you any reasons why she is kicking it with this Robert guy?Has she been giving you any ** while she has been doing him?

Are you gonna take this hands down or what are you planning to do?

I know you are not looking forward to the holidays,but you have to know that its not her job really to make you happy-its your job to make sure you are happy.We each are CEOs of our lives and we must make decisions that make us a good return on our investment(ROI).So either be happy and let her get knocked up and you jointly raise the kids without complaint,bail out and go look for another lady, or be alone.Either way,you must come up with a viable decision as some point and live with it.

Best of luck and please keep sharing -the developments that is.

She hasn't offered any explanation of why she began the affair. My friends have tried to provide insights but they aren't doing anything except finding inventive ways to call her a ** and a **: what they fail to recognize is the fact that I love this woman and have been in love with her since we were in high school, and I cannot envision any kind of life without her. I've told her that for as long as I've known her, and while I always believed that she loved knowing that fact, now I'm beginning to believe that she is using that knowledge against me. That may be too cynical, and it may be overlooking what underlies her actions, but I honestly don't know what to think about my lovely wife having been ** her black boss on his desk, her desk, our bed, our children's beds, her car, and a few motels (she did finally share some of that detail with me). It's New Year's Day night as I write this to you, and I am somewhat amazed that I have survived the holidays: a week before Christmas, I really thought that I might actually die from all this pain. You are so right: I have a decision to make. It's not one I want to make, and I don't even know how to go about this with all the upheaval she's caused the family (and I mean the entire family), but I guess I'll figure it out. I'm sure you will find this insulting and racist, and I'm sorry, but I think it's fair to be open with you and say that I really don't believe I would be this distraught about her behavior if her boss weren't black. I've never thought of myself as biased or prejudiced in general or in any specific situations, but there is something about Robert's race that makes this affair and his aggressive pursuit of my wife feel different to me. Anyway, I appreciate your candor and your reasonableness, both of which are in very short supply in this world. I don't know if you've ever been in Robert's position with a married woman before, but your writing makes me think you'd be more honorable than this. Thanks.

Not quite sure how I missed your response since the first day of January this year and its the 22nd today. I am happy to hear from you and I am much more excited to read that you not only survived the holidays,but you are still living and able to write about it. Affairs are nasty business.I know mainly because I listen intently to women I have had them with and they have happened to me and ruined one of my marriages and other relationships. People,regardless of **,race,economic/marital status,etc., are prone to having affairs. Nobody is really immune. You could give a partner everything in the world,including life itself,read that(http://www.theguardian.com/world/2009/jan/07/kidney-divorce-new-york)and they will still get tired of you and either have an affair and divorce you. Dont be too ** yourself honestly. My first wife could not stand white people and she made it known to friends and family. After we got divorced,she hooked up with a white guy and she has been with him for over 15 years I think. I found out two years ago the guy was white and I could not believe it-I simply could never have imagined her with a white man.She has a black daughter who is under 10.The same thing may apply to you-you have known your wife for many years and cannot fathom her being with some black guy.It seems unthinkable,unreal,strange,up normal,etc, that she is opening her legs for a black guy that your thoughts of it turn to anger.I have had real thrill in chasing married women.Its an awesome feeling to pursue one or be desired by one in a sexual way and ** and being between a married woman's legs is a feeling most men who enjoy it can't even full explain.The black guy just happened to be closer,boss(has power)and whatever else you want to say. She could have chosen your brother,dad,her dad,a dog,some random guy,another woman,simply put,anybody or anything,to have ** with.As such,I don't really think you are racist,you are just hurt,disappointed,overwhelmed,**.

You are so right about all my feelings about this. My friends all think I'm insane for not having left yet but so far I haven't been able to make myself go. She's begun bringing him to the house while I'm there, or having him pick her up for "date night" after I've gotten home from work so I can watch the kids while she's out, and she's even brought him home after a date and sent me out to sleep on the sofa while they occupied the bed in the master bedroom. I've not admitted any of that to any of my friends because they would be sure I was off the edge. When I question their actions, she and Robert both say "stay or go, it doesn't matter". They say the relationship is going to continue no matter what I do: that I am "irrelevant". Robert controls her and she controls me, and she is doing an unbelievable job of that: I think to myself there's no way I'm going to do some particular thing, but then when she orders me to do it, I can't bring myself to resist. My love for her is still predominant, but I don't know how long that can last. So far, they have said nothing about starting a family of mixed race illegitimates for me to raise, and I think I wouldn't do that, but my weakness for her has proven me wrong before. Would it again? Sorry to seem so equivocal and **-whipped, but I can't help it. Between the two of them I feel at a loss to stand up to them. And I have to confess that a part of me thinks this is pure nature at work.

You were, it seems, absolutely correct about the frequency with which this happens, even (especially?) here in the South ........ http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/wonkblog/wp/2014/12/22/a-lot-of-southern-whites-are-a-little-bit-black/

For the last few years,I have seen many very thick white women with huge booties and curve features that have always been very common in black women.A reasonable number of these thick white women tend to gravitate towards black men. Maybe its the part black genes in them, molding them like that and driving them,creating an insanely insatiable demand for black men's equipment and love. This is not scientific but it sounded good in my mind,lol.I enjoyed the article's insight and thanks.

having a lovely little fling with a black man at present (hubby knows nothing) but i doubt he would want to knock me up but its a wonderful idea and a really ** idea too

Have you asked him or talked about getting knocked up by him with him? what really is a little fling?What do you like or enjoy most being with him? How did you two meet?Enjoy n thanks for sharing n caring!

we have only been flinging for maybe 4-5 months but have been enjoying ourselves immensely. how we met is a little bit of an awkwardness since we were introduced by another black man with whom i had been having an intense affair for almost 2 yrs. they both know my husband and sort of work with or for him. we are all americans living and working in the UK and are all married to others. i had been very very very deeply involved with the first black guy but since i met franklin i have been backing away from the first guy though i have not told him why nor said anything to him about the fact that i will probably soon belong to franklin exclusively (a long long story) but as his ** (delightfully) and not his wife. franklin and i have not talked about family planning other than having 'the grownup talk' about safe **. interesting angle for the day ----- we are all together with our spouses right now on a company outing watching nfl games late on a sunday evening (i am on a borrowed computer in the kids room) so the dynamic is quite unusual. franklin and i have exchanged some really racy comments with our spouses under the same roof. would love to slip away from them all and have him ** me like the ** i want to be!

You are in soooo deeeep that blackness flows in your blood streams.I don't even see a way you can wean yourself out of this so,indulge and enjoy. Thanks for setting the record straight:)

totally true. i couldnt possibly get off these magnificent black ** at this stage of things and i wouldnt want to. i love the way you say that their ** flows in my bloodstream! its so very true! i do have it that deep and its that much a part of me god help me.....and my family has no idea of my need for seed. its that seed that is in my veins and that keeps me alive. what a wonderful thought! thank you!

You probably didn't mean this to be a ** post but it is totally a very ** post.

You are so right..I did not intend for this to be what it is now.It amazes me and believe it or not,I am very amused and entertained by the responses,intimate confessions, views and the excitement that everybody has contributed here.I really enjoy reading each one of them.My only problem is that folks write such captivating stories and then disappear.Whereas I have not yet made a woman pregnant,the disappearance leaves me wondering what ever happened to them,their situations,desires fantasies and cravings.Thanks for your observation.

Apparently, you can help out.....:)
http://finance.yahoo.com/news/more-babies-seriously-problem-120000448.html

my husband lets me date a little and we both enjoy that arrangement. he lets me date like once a month but i have to use birth control (my choice) and no blacks or hispanics. but i admit that these relationships you and the others are writing about here are really really ** and even the pregnancies sound **. isnt that crazy?

Yes it is crazy!Its equally crazy that your hubby does not let you enjoy black or hispanic meat.If you gonna have variety,go all the way.You are missing out. Just forget about all that birth control stuff and get knocked up and tell him BC failed, it was his idea anyway and now he has to take responsibility and raise the bi-racial kid with you!

one of my girlfriends has been telling me ever since i started dating with my husbands permission that it means he wants me to dominate him not just in bed but in every way. she says shes seen this before in men and she knows the signs of men who want to be pussywhipped so bad. so she says that means i should take the power and use it for other things i want both sexual and nonsexual. when i told her about all these posts here and how beautiful and loving and ** they all are she said that means its time for me to start taking the power in the marriage and the best way for me to start doing that is to just tell him that all the rules about my dating are gone now and that i can and will date who i want. she says i should also tell him at the same time that it means i am going to quit using BC and that i can let another man or maybe several other men knock me up and no matter what he has to raise all the ** children for me while i go out and date their fathers and other men and that they will all be black (which is what i want). i told her i think shes crazy to believe that my husband will go along even if i dominate him but she says that happens all the time in women-controlled marriages and relationships and that i could make it happen if its something i truly want. and i am starting to think that maybe it is something i actually want and not to just have as a dark dark secret fantasy about black men and their ** and their ** and their babies.......

Well,seems like your gf finally just woke you up from a long deep sleep. If he already allows you to date,I am sure he will have a hard time saying no you ** get knocked up because for one accidents happen and two once you choose to or get knocked up by accident,short of kill you,no man or person can force a woman to abort.He really has given you all the permission you need to get knocked up. You don't need to renew the permission, technically you can get knocked up and simply tell him he gave you the permission for **,the baby is here,you don't want an abortion,you want him to help you raise the baby.I think being diplomatic about it lessens the chances of confrontation and resentment,acknowledges his role in the whole scheme and makes him partly responsible for the outcome and its future.
If you order him around and he balks,you have no better alternative.Don't mess up a good thing,you are a woman and I believe women are extremely creative and get their way most times,especially with their dads and lovers/husbands. You know this guy well and none of us can really educate you how to handle him. I just know that about 9 months or so from today,you will be somewhere in bed,legs spread wide open, hearing words like "Push,push,push,its almost out push...."

my girlfriend has been an inspiration in my ** life for sure. shes so ** and hot and nasty that i just love her completely even though i can never keep up with her. but shes not the one that woke me up. you did that. YOU. and you did it with all the incredible information and all the ** thinking here and i appreciate it very much. i will tell you more later about me and my girlfriend and what she says about what i can do but i am at work and have to get back to it. thx!