My stepdaughter is so manipulating
I started dating my boyfriend over 11 years ago. We were both in the process of divorce. He had 5 kids and I had 3. He is also 10 years older than me so he has adult children as well.
We took things slow in the beginning and the little ones got along okay and then the jealously started with his daughter.
As she got older my daughters and I started receiving hate emails from her. My middle daughter is a grade below her and started getting bullied by her and her friends at school. She was being kicked, puched down, and called names. When she would tell me and I would tell her father it just made things worst and she would get bullied even worst being told snitches get stitches.
We have two boys together and when I found out that I was pregnant with my second my car got vandalized. As soon as I had him the evil step daughter and her bully friends came up to my daughter at school to ask what race the baby was.
She started getting involved with drugs and alcohol and having parties, as soon as her father opened his eyes to her finally! and tried to punish her, her mother stepped in and excused her behavior.
She is now 18 and still lives with her mother, but everytime I see her my blood boils of all the times she has made our lives miserable. We just went to my boyfriends sons wedding and my daughters were looking at a display table and she was on a balcony above them and tried to spit gum in their hair.
My boyfriend said that one day she will finally grow up , I seriously doubt that. I feel like she is who she is and will always be hateful and spiteful. My 4 year old tripped the next day from the wedding and hit his head and she laughed. I hope I don't have to deal with her again for a long while.
His other children aren't as bad as she, they are boys and are all adults as well. They do get offended easily though.
Any advice on adult stepchildren and manipulative stepdaughter?