Im happy with my kids smoking
I have 2 girls ones 10 and the oldests is 13. Me and my hubby are heavy 40+ smokers, I smoked all the way through both my pregnancies with no intention of quitting and both came out fine. i let them smoke when they were 10 and 7 and me and my partner were quite happy about it we've been happily smoking for years and the fact our kids now joined in felt great to do together, 3 years later there both on a pack a day(even more on weekends). I feel bad sometimes because obviously all the potential health problems but I was smoking when I was there age it's just good fun basically.
Karen,
In the main mums have a habit of getting their kids to smoke. My mum would get me to light her cigarettes when I was 8. I would take a couple of deep inhales of her cigarette before handing it to her. I started smoking fulltime after that.
Therefore I'd be a hypocrite if I didn't allow my kids to smoke and I must say I like the fact that they have a cigarette with me.
I was f ucking when I was ten and drinking at solidly when I was 12. I was a bit ch of a teenager in my earlier years, climbing out of my bedroom window in the early hours of the morning looking for boys for s*x.
Belinda
Belinda, it's f ucking amazing how much we have in common. My mom did the same thing, allowing me to light her ciggies. And I was 8. I started f ucking when I was 12, and the guy I was f ucking was 15 and he was heavily into smoking weed, so I started that too. By the time I was 10, my parent would pour a glass of wine for me with dinner, and before that, they gave me generous sips all the time.
Karen
Karen,
I let Ren and Lilly primarily because it calms them down. I read somewhere that an English mum gave her 16 year old daughter weed to smoke during the morning of her exams and I think, from memory the reason for that was to settle her nerves. It should still be in a Google search so I'll to find it and post it here to you.
Belinda